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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 1:21 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

Sending ((virtual hugs)) and prayers.

My sincere condolences to your family. I hope your entire family can be at the services.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:38 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

Many many gentle hugs and support virtually.
I hope your boys are able to be there for you. He was an amazing man who persevered beyond what medical science said was possible.

Peace sister. May happy me.pries of healthier and happier times bring it to you now.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 1:44 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

I am so very sorry.

"Because I deserve better"

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:51 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

Many hugs. I'm so sorry for your loss

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 2:40 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

I’m sorry for your loss. Strength to you as you are mailing the arrangements on top of all the pain from the loss.

WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.

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Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 2:58 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

Oh WR, I'm sorry that I'm just seeing all of this. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Huge hugs...

"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:33 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

So sorry for your loss, WR. I wish there were more "special" words to say that would help resolve the pain of your loss.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 10:46 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

I’m so sorry for your loss, WR. Sending hugs and prayers as you and your family grieve.

Me-58 FWH-60 Married 40 years 9/2/2023 grown daughters-40&36.14yo GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); 12yo GD & 7yo GD(DD36). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

My condolences to you and your family. So sorry. crying

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SacredSoul33 ( member #83038) posted at 3:20 PM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

I'm so sorry for your family's loss, WR. Sending you wishes for peace, and good juju for your sons being able to get furlough.

Remove the "I want you to like me" sticker from your forehead and place it on the mirror, where it belongs. ~ Susan Jeffers

Your nervous system will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven.

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Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 3:35 PM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

Oh WR, I am so very sorry for your loss. With all you have had to go through, you must be just about wrung out. I hope you are at least on the mend from the bad cold you had. And I hold hope that you and he shared love and peace in his final days. (All weekend, I was checking and checking SI to see if you had time to share anything, but the forums were not working, as I got error messages all weekend.) So I'm just now seeing your news. Please do know that you have been in my fervent prayers here for days. ((((WR))))

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 4:29 PM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

I'm so sorry, WR. Sending prayers,hugs,and love.

I hope you are able to find peace.

Our field of dreams,engulfed in fire..and I'll still see it,till the day I die..

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Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 6:27 PM on Monday, April 8th, 2024

Whatsright, during this time there is always so much to DO. To prepare and carry out the duties expected of families of the deceased. I so hope your boys can all be with you at the same time so they can hold you tight to their hearts. That would help you so much. Just know that your SI family are all thinking of you and of course, wishing we could actually be with you. But our spirits are with you.

"Because I deserve better"

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 1:36 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2024

So sorry, WR. (((((WhatsRight))))

♥ Keep taking care of yourself

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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number4 ( member #62204) posted at 2:07 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2024

My condolences to you and everyone who cared about your H. May you find peace with what will come.

Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R

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Hurtm ( member #41102) posted at 3:54 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2024

So very sorry for your loss

Me: 36 and awesome (now 38)
Him: 37 and a douche (otherwise known as DB)

DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, together 14

DS 8, DD 5

Finally officially divorced after almost 4 years

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BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 4:31 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2024

I'm so sorry, WR. Sending warm thoughts to you and your boys.

WW/BW

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 5:12 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2024

I'm so sorry,sweet lady.
May his memory be a blessing.

Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 7:49 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2024

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:12 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2024

I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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