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I think my daughter is going to die


Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 8:32 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

My deepest condolences to you and your family, GoldenR. You are all in my prayers.

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:14 PM on Friday, July 29th, 2022


I am so, so sorry for your unimaginable loss. Please know that many, many people are lifting you and your family up in prayer for comfort during this time.

Me, 54
Him, 45 (JMSSC)
Married 24 years. Reconciled.

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humantrampoline ( member #61458) posted at 6:47 PM on Friday, July 29th, 2022


I want to express my sympathy for your entire family and the loss. There's just no words. Please take care of yourself.

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 3:40 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022


I just saw your update.

I am so sorry for your loss.😓

She sounds like a wonderful daughter. You were exactly where you needed to be at that moment. Being in her Daddy’s arms, at her last moments, was the best blessing a person can ask for.

Sending prayers to you and your family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Me: BS
Him: WH
Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen

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WontBeFooledAgai ( member #72671) posted at 5:24 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022

GoldenR--I am so so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. Saying a prayer for you and your family...

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LostOpportunities20 ( member #74401) posted at 5:38 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022


The whole family is praying for you and your family. Our deepest condolences for your loss.

BH (late 40s)
WW (late 40s) EA 2008, EA/probably PA 2009

Confessed the first, I caught her the second.

Filing for D

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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 1:31 PM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022

Prayers to you. I’m so sorry.

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:59 PM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022

So sorry. sad

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 3:57 PM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022

Dear GoldenR ...

I'm so very very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter.

Me: BSO - 53Him: FWSO - 76 DS - 20 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 12:58 AM on Sunday, July 31st, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words. God bless.

Legally separated, one more step.

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ibonnie ( member #62673) posted at 5:54 AM on Monday, August 1st, 2022

I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. crying crying crying crying crying

"I will survive, hey, hey!"

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DictumVeritas ( member #74087) posted at 7:38 AM on Monday, August 1st, 2022

As a father of 2 daughter's, my heart is bleeding for you GoldenR. My prayers have always been that God would grant me the mercy of not outliving my children. Please honor her wishes to look out for her son as I know you would. Through having your grandson prosper, a part of her will always be alive with you.

I have no real words but to ensure you that you and your family are in my prayers. In time, the good of her life will outweigh the pain of her passing, but I know these words ring hollow in the wake of your loss.

[This message edited by DictumVeritas at 7:39 AM, Monday, August 1st]

Your life is but a flicker to the cosmos and only the brightest flickers are recorded by history for good or bad. Most of us just want to live our lives without being interfered with.

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ChewedMeUp ( member #8008) posted at 3:24 PM on Monday, August 1st, 2022

I can't even imagine the loss, I'm so sorry for you and yours.

BS - 40
DivorcED, finally.
2 Kids

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rambler ( member #43747) posted at 4:06 AM on Tuesday, August 2nd, 2022

I can not express in words the sadness I feel for you. My deepest condolences and sympathy.

Because your daughter is an organ donor, she has given others the gift of life.

[This message edited by rambler at 4:36 AM, Wednesday, August 3rd]

making it through

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Rocko ( new member #80436) posted at 1:42 PM on Tuesday, August 2nd, 2022


I lost my daughter 8 years ago due to a condition known as Disseminated intravascular coagulation (DIC). Like you I stayed by her bedside whispering in her ear to fight! She did for 36 hours and then the Doctor pulled me aside and told me there was no chance she was going to survive. Her heart was stressed and her brain scan indicated little activity.

I returned to her bedside told her how proud of her I was for the way she lived her life. Thanked her for fighting so hard to stay with us and I understood that she needed to leave. Almost immediately her vitals dropped and she passed within just a few minutes. Our entire family by her side, telling her how much we loved her.

I'm telling you this because she was unconscious the entire 36 hours and had very little brain activity. I truly believe she heard me talking to her, so I know your daughter heard you.

If there is a Compassionate Friends chapter near you, I would recommend you contact them. They are a group of Friends that have lost children. Without their Love and Guidance I'm not sure where my life would be now.


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DailyGratitude ( member #79494) posted at 1:25 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2022

I am truly so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you.
May your daughter’s memories be eternal and may her soul Rest In Peace.
Sending you thoughts and prayers.

Me: BW mid 50’sHim: WH late 50’sMarrried 25 yearsDday: EA 2002 PA 9/2021Divorce 10/2021 (per wh’s request) WH left to be with AP

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 8:35 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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hikingout ( member #59504) posted at 8:31 PM on Friday, August 5th, 2022

Just now seeing this. I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words. I will pray for you and your entire family.

5 years of hard work

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Squish ( member #79546) posted at 2:44 AM on Saturday, August 6th, 2022

The stress and worry you must be feeling. I’m praying for you and your daughter. I’m so sorry.

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MalibuBayBreeze ( member #52124) posted at 7:37 PM on Saturday, August 6th, 2022

My deepest condolences to you and your family and I am so sorry this has happened. May your beautiful daughter rest in peace. 🙏

A man or woman telling the truth doesn't mind being questioned.

A liar does.

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