JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 3:55 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I'm so so sorry, sending deepest condolences to you and your family.
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 4:42 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I’m so sorry to read this. Cayce is a hero, there are families getting prayers answered right now because of her organ donations.
We are a family of strangers here, we hurt for you. My W and I talked about it last and prayed Cayce and your family. We were heartbroken to read your update this morning.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH 55 WW 48 M 31 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 5:17 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful, sweet Cayce.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
This0is0Fine ( member #72277) posted at 5:20 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I'm sorry about what has happened to your daughter and your family. The pain must be enormous. Please take care of yourself and your family through the grieving process.
Love is not a measure of capacity for pain you are willing to endure for your partner.
Definedbygrace ( new member #80351) posted at 5:39 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
prayers for you and your family, I can not imagine what you have been through and are going through.
Me: BW63 (24 at time of betrayal)Him: FWH66 (26 at time of Adultery)DD: 3/86 14 month NSA PA with married Co worker, 6x for lunch time quickies between 10/82-11/83Severely Retriggered 9/2021Reconciled but still healing from trigger
BraveSirRobin ( Guide #69242) posted at 5:41 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Golden, I don't have words for how sorry I am. I hope you know that all of our hearts are with you and that we're here whenever you need us in this dark time.
You, Cayce and your family all deserved so much better.
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 5:53 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
"Because I deserve better"
Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 7:49 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I am so terribly sorry for you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Married for 20 years with two kids when my husband had a six month emotional and physical affair with a coworker. DD1: 6/2020 (soft evidence followed by a month of lies). DD2: 7/3/2020 (hard evidence, truth, started reconciliation journey).
waitedwaytoolong ( member #51519) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Just so sorry to hear about this. Crushing. Just no words.
I am the cliched husband whose wife had an affair with the electrician
jadedangel ( member #26979) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I'm so sorry. Prayers to you and your family.
EXWH died 2011
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 8:54 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Your beautiful daughter's life might have been far too short but because of your love and devotion, she had more in her 30 years than many people have in life twice or even 3 times as long. I know you'll be devastated for quite awhile but please always know in your heart of hearts that if the end was inevitable, there was nowhere she'd rather be than in her Daddy's arms. And you were there, exactly where she needed you.
BW, 70 YO; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.
DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. Divorced.
leafields ( member #63517) posted at 9:21 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
So sorry for your loss, Golden. She does sound like a firecracker. Sending hugs.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 9:58 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I am so very sorry GoldenR.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
78monte ( member #72572) posted at 10:17 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Such sad news, I am deeply sorry for the passing of your daughter.
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 10:58 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Oh, Golden. I'm so very,very sorry.
I'm praying for you. For strength, and comfort.
Huge hugs to you.
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 1:24 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
How tragic! So sorry for your loss. Hopefully you have a good support system around you to help navigate the grief you're experiencing.
Married - 30+ years
Two adult daughters
1st affair: 2005-2007
2nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017
Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addiction
gmc94 ( Guide #62810) posted at 1:29 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
Oh Golden, I am just so doggone sorry to hear this. what a heartbreaking loss. Sending you the biggest virtual hug possible. We will be here for you whenever you need it.
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 4:14 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
I just now saw this. I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter Cayce. She, you, and your family are in my heartfelt prayers.
WS - remarried to BH but not in R
OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 6:55 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
I am so sorry. You were fortunate to have 30 years with such an amazing person, but I know it wasn't nearly enough. My heart aches for you and your family. Wishing you all strength during this time. ((((GoldenR))))
me: BS/WSh: WS/BS
Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.
ramius ( member #44750) posted at 7:26 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
So sorry. Prayers for you and your family.
How many scars have you rationalized because you loved the person who was holding the knife?
Their actions reveal their intentions. Their words conceal them.