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I think my daughter is going to die


JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 3:55 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

I'm so so sorry, sending deepest condolences to you and your family.

Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 4:42 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

I’m so sorry to read this. Cayce is a hero, there are families getting prayers answered right now because of her organ donations.

We are a family of strangers here, we hurt for you. My W and I talked about it last and prayed Cayce and your family. We were heartbroken to read your update this morning.

Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH M 31 years

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 5:17 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful, sweet Cayce.

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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This0is0Fine ( member #72277) posted at 5:20 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022


I'm sorry about what has happened to your daughter and your family. The pain must be enormous. Please take care of yourself and your family through the grieving process.

Sending strength,

Love is not a measure of capacity for pain you are willing to endure for your partner.

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Definedbygrace ( new member #80351) posted at 5:39 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

prayers for you and your family, I can not imagine what you have been through and are going through.

Me: BW63 (24 at time of betrayal)Him: FWH66 (26 at time of Adultery)DD: 3/86 14 month NSA PA with married Co worker, 6x for lunch time quickies between 10/82-11/83Severely Retriggered 9/2021Reconciled but still healing from trigger

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BraveSirRobin ( Guide #69242) posted at 5:41 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

Golden, I don't have words for how sorry I am. I hope you know that all of our hearts are with you and that we're here whenever you need us in this dark time.

You, Cayce and your family all deserved so much better.


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Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 5:53 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

So very very sorry.

"Because I deserve better"

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Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 7:49 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

I am so terribly sorry for you and your family. You are in my prayers.

Married for 20 years with two kids when my husband had a six month affair with a coworker. DD1: 6/2020. DD2: 7/3/2020. Reconciling

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waitedwaytoolong ( member #51519) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

Just so sorry to hear about this. Crushing. Just no words.

I am the cliched husband whose wife had an affair with the electrician


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jadedangel ( member #26979) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

I'm so sorry. Prayers to you and your family.

Divorced 2007.
EXWH died 2011
Remarried 2018!

posts: 681   ·   registered: Dec. 30th, 2009   ·   location: Central City
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josiep ( member #58593) posted at 8:54 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

Your beautiful daughter's life might have been far too short but because of your love and devotion, she had more in her 30 years than many people have in life twice or even 3 times as long. I know you'll be devastated for quite awhile but please always know in your heart of hearts that if the end was inevitable, there was nowhere she'd rather be than in her Daddy's arms. And you were there, exactly where she needed you.

BW, 70 YO; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.
DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. Divorced.

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leafields ( member #63517) posted at 9:21 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

So sorry for your loss, Golden. She does sound like a firecracker. Sending hugs.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 9:58 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

I am so very sorry GoldenR. sad

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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78monte ( member #72572) posted at 10:17 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

Such sad news, I am deeply sorry for the passing of your daughter.

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 10:58 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022

Oh, Golden. I'm so very,very sorry.

I'm praying for you. For strength, and comfort.

Huge hugs to you.

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number4 ( member #62204) posted at 1:24 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

How tragic! So sorry for your loss. Hopefully you have a good support system around you to help navigate the grief you're experiencing.

Me: BW
Him: WH
Married - 30+ years
Two adult daughters
1st affair: 2005-2007
2nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017
Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addiction
Status: R

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gmc94 ( Guide #62810) posted at 1:29 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

Oh Golden, I am just so doggone sorry to hear this. what a heartbreaking loss. Sending you the biggest virtual hug possible. We will be here for you whenever you need it.

M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived

It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies

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Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 4:14 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

I just now saw this. I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter Cayce. She, you, and your family are in my heartfelt prayers.

WS - remarried to BH but not in R

D-day 2010

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OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 6:55 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

I am so sorry. You were fortunate to have 30 years with such an amazing person, but I know it wasn't nearly enough. My heart aches for you and your family. Wishing you all strength during this time. ((((GoldenR))))

me: BS/WSh: WS/BS

Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.

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ramius ( member #44750) posted at 7:26 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

So sorry. Prayers for you and your family.

How many scars have you rationalized because you loved the person who was holding the knife?

Their actions reveal their intentions. Their words conceal them.

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