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Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:23 AM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
New Beginnings Playlist anyone?
My first song is Pink
"Just give me a reason, just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again
It's in the stars, it's been written in the scars on our hearts
We're not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again"
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 1:46 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Walk, Foo Fighters
Dreams, Van Halen
Praying, Kesha
Little Wonders, Rob Thomas
[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 8:11 AM, December 5th (Thursday)]
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:46 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Failure is success if we learn from it.
WornDown ( member #37977) posted at 3:26 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Robert Earl Keen - "Feelin' Good Again"
And I wanted you to see 'em all
I wished that you were there
I looked across the room
And saw you standin' on the stair
And when I caught your eye
I saw you break into a grin
It feels so good feelin' good again
[This message edited by WornDown at 9:27 AM, December 5th (Thursday)]
Me: BH (50); exW (49): Way too many guys to count. Three kids (D, D, S, all >20)Together 25 years, married 18; Divorced (July 2015)
I divorced a narc. Separate everything. NC as much as humanly possible and absolutely no phone calls. - Ch
SuperDaddy1027 ( member #59344) posted at 3:45 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Yup Walk by the Foo and Praying have been on heavy loop since Dday.
My go to (through this whole shit show) has been Had Enough by Breaking Benjamin. The lyrics are fantastic If u go on Youtube you can find the “unplugged” version. So good!
“You had to have it all
Well, have you had enough?
You greedy little bastard, you will get what you deserve
When all is said and done
I will be the one
To leave you in the misery and hate what you've become”
[This message edited by SuperDaddy1027 at 9:50 AM, December 5th (Thursday)]
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:26 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2019
super daddy you get the prize for making me laugh!
wow... "you had to have it all"
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 5:34 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2019
Nine Inch Nails: Head like a Hole
“ Head like a hole.
Black as your soul.
I'd rather die than give you control. ”
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
WornDown ( member #37977) posted at 2:12 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2019
I thought this was a New Beginnings playlist?
Not “Burn all your ex’s shit” playlist. 🤔
Me: BH (50); exW (49): Way too many guys to count. Three kids (D, D, S, all >20)Together 25 years, married 18; Divorced (July 2015)
I divorced a narc. Separate everything. NC as much as humanly possible and absolutely no phone calls. - Ch
squid ( member #57624) posted at 3:38 AM on Saturday, December 7th, 2019
This one's an oldie that Ioved long before I even met my XWW. But it rings true today.
Look at you now, you're disenchanted,
Can´t believe how things can change.
Take a little out of life and things get strange.
And now you've found the wishes you were granted,
Things you thought were in your hands,
Have slipped away.
How much can you withstand?
Everything is at a standstill,
Where´s someone will be on hand till
You´re no longer disenchanted,
Thinking everything is wrong...
You know you´re not the only one to wait so long.
I wonder, can you try again?
Are you that strong?
EBTG "Disenchanted"
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 3:32 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2019
Walk the Moon - Shut Up and Dance
Pink - Fuckin' Perfect; Glitter in the Air; Try
Imagine Dragons - Whatever It Takes; Thunder
Rachel Platten - Fight Song
Ingrid Michaelson - Hell No
Sara Bareilles - Brave
Colbie Caillat - Try
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
MakingMyFuture ( member #43530) posted at 2:31 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2019
This is more work related, but it makes me smile and feel powerful in every area of my life when I listen to it.!
Taylor Swift “The Man”
When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou
BW: 43 (me) WH: 42 (him)
DD-13, DS-11
DDay 1 = 1/13, DDay2 = 7/14 (False R), D 4/15
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:18 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2019
Added fight song to my yoga mental playlist!
"I might only have one match, but I can make an explosion".
I also like Danny Gokey
Tell Your Heart to Beat Again
"Tell your heart to beat again
Close your eyes and breathe it in
Let the shadows fall away
Step into the light of grace..."
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Simplicity ( member #60501) posted at 5:55 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2019
Almost all songs by Sia
Sorry not sorry by Demi Lovato
Just Dance by Lady Gaga
Bad Guy by Billie Eilish
Panic by The Smiths
Danse Macabre by Camile Saint-Saens
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 12:04 AM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019
The Benefits of Being Alone (Rose Cousins)
best feel-good video 
[This message edited by FaithFool at 6:04 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)]
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
ThisIsSoLonely ( Guide #64418) posted at 2:33 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019
Jackson Browne - I'm Alive
Hey look at the way I believed in you
And loved you all these years
Now you can fill a swimming pool with all my salty tears
If you'd have told me what was in your heart
But, baby you lied
I thought that it would kill me
But I'm alive
Yeah, I'm alive
You are the only person you are guaranteed to spend the rest of your life with. Act accordingly.
Constantly editing posts: usually due to sticky keys on my laptop or additional thoughts
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 2:52 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019
Far Behind - Social Distortion
With friends like you, who needs enemies?
You ain't right, you ain't never gonna be
You're out of the car; I'm afraid you've been declined
You shake my hand while you're pissing on my leg
I'm cuttin' you loose; I don't need this misery
Your soul is toxic, you ain't no friend of mine
You talk real trash when I'm not around
To build yourself up, you gotta to tear me down
You'll have to excuse me; I've got better things to do
You smile through your teeth, you talk out your neck
Every chance you get you're gonna stab my back
Your time's run out; I've got nothing left for you
I'm leaving you far behind
I'm leaving you far behind
Stop wasting all of my time
I'm leaving you far behind
So I'm pulling out the weeds, I'm taking stock
You can talk the talk, but can't walk the walk
Your narcissistic ways have gotten the best of you
So I'm leaving you to sink in all your glory
For you and me it's the end of the story
Get out of my way; I've got better things to do
I'm leaving you far behind
I'm leaving you far behind
Stop wasting all of my time
I'm leaving you far behind
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
AbandonedGuy ( member #66456) posted at 5:08 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019
I obsessively seek out new music for whatever period I'm in, so I've got dozens to commemorate the growth (and the loss, of course). Here are some of the most upbeat ones which *aren't* electronic music (so much electronic music, it's so good for working). There's something for everyone:
Billy Idol - Dancing With Myself
Alex Ebert - Gold
Elle King - Exs and Ohs
George Michael - Freedom 90
Matthew Wilder - Break My Stride
OK Go - This Too Shall Pass
LCD Soundsystem - Dance Yrself Clean
Iggy Pop - Lust for Life (Prodigy Remix)
Washed Out - Amor Fati
Ariel Pink - Time to Live
EmancipatedFella, formerly AbandonedGuy
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:50 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2019
chaos
I am glad I was not drinking my coffee when I read your post...would be wiping it off the wall!
oh my..is that really a song!
gotta listen to that just because!
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
AlphaSilvr ( member #66310) posted at 3:32 AM on Sunday, December 15th, 2019
"Hate You to Love Me" Selena Gomez
Part of the song:
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off-key in my chorus
'Cause it wasn't yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose-colored glasses all distorted
Set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin'
When it wasn't yours, yeah
We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dance, it was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
Me: BS (34)
Her: WS (35) - Pathological liar, Serial Cheater (EA + PA) - Believes she is honest, loyal and isn't a cheater
x2 DS
Separated: May 19th, 2018
D-DAY: July 12th, 2018
D Final: Oct 29th, 2018
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 12:46 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2019
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
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