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Adlham ( member #53358) posted at 2:26 AM on Friday, December 20th, 2019
You Ain't Worth the Salt in My Tears by Martin Briley, turned up LOUD and on repeat!
There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 9:00 PM on Sunday, February 16th, 2020
Added two in a million with Sting to my playlist
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Trapped74 ( member #49696) posted at 11:44 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2020
The Phoenix - Fall Out Boy
These Boots are Made for Walking - Nancy Sinatra
Many DDays. Me (BW) 49 Him (WH) 52 Happily detached and compartmentalized.
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 3:40 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2020
Just added some Gaga
Look what I found!
"When I met you I was blown to pieces
Heart all over the floor
Ever since you put me back together
I can't believe it, can't believe it, uh!
Look what you found, yeah, baby
Look what I found
Someone who carry 'round a piece of my heart"
Lady Gaga
from the
A Star is Born soundtrak
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 3:42 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2020
Fighter by Christina Aguilera... Oldie but very goodie!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
hopefullife ( member #71881) posted at 4:41 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2020
Does not apply to me but if he ever comes back I sometimes dream about sending him a link to Dua Lipa's IDGAF:
So I cut you off
I don't need your love
'Cause I already cried enough
I've been done
I've been movin' on since we said goodbye
I cut you off
I don't need your love, so you can try all you want
Your time is up, I'll tell you why
You say you're sorry
But it's too late now
So save it, get gone, shut up
'Cause if you think I care about you now
Well, boy, I don't give a fuck
10 yrs together. 2 yrs married. No kids.
2 Ddays. H living with OW and their child.
Focusing on self.
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 6:03 PM on Monday, March 2nd, 2020
Broken Vow by Josh Groban is good too.
"I close my eyes
And dream of you and I
And then I realize
There's more to life than only bitterness and lies"
[This message edited by Shehawk at 12:04 PM, March 2nd (Monday)]
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Incarnate ( member #46085) posted at 10:01 AM on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2020
When I'm feeling bitter;
Big Sean - I Don't Fuck With You
Ceelo Greene - Fuck You
Tech N9Ne - Fuck Errybody But Me
Blackbear - Hot Girl Bummer
Ludacris - Get Back
Two Feet - Go Fuck Yourself
When I'm feeling better;
Fall Out Boy - The Phoenix / Immortals / Sugar We're Goin' Down
Panic! At The Disco - Mona Lisa / I Write Sins Not Tragedies / Don't Threaten Me With A Good Time
Caravan Palace - Lone Digger / Wonderland
Billy Idol - Rebel Yell / White Wedding / Dancing With Myself
Billy Joel - (*anything*)
Elton John - (*anything*)
Me: BH
She: EW
Divorce in progress
DD1: 11/29/14
DD2: 8/14/19
What a wicked game we play.
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:28 PM on Thursday, March 5th, 2020
Try The Bones by Maren Morris
Incarnate.
PS by your description of your self I am having a hard time imagining you listening to Elton John
But I do like his song Sacrifice
Play it every time I think of replying to ch's texts (because I know texting him will not lead to resolution of any kind ever).
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Incarnate ( member #46085) posted at 9:04 PM on Thursday, March 5th, 2020
PS by your description of your self I am having a hard time imagining you listening to Elton John
I listen to almost everything. Classic Rock, R&B, Soul, metal, thrash, emo, pop, classical, EDM, dubstep, rap/hip-hop, grunge, 80s, 90s, etc, etc...
The only things I do NOT like, specifically, are 99.999% of country (with Johnny Cash and Big & Rich as exceptions) and the same amount of Swing (but I love Electro Swing).
My favorite Elton John songs are probably Saturday Night's Alright for Fighting, Candle In The Wind, and Crocodile Rock.
For Billy Joel, it's gotta be by the album. 52nd Street, The Stranger, and River of Dreams are my all-time favorites of his. Storm Front and Piano Man were really good as well.
Me: BH
She: EW
Divorce in progress
DD1: 11/29/14
DD2: 8/14/19
What a wicked game we play.
Gablestitch ( member #60148) posted at 9:44 PM on Friday, March 6th, 2020
Miss Me More - Kelsea Ballerini
Me: BW Him: WH
Dday sometime August 2017 after returning to work from maternity leave with third kid.
Separated shortly after.
Divorced 2021 after he ignored every court date and document sent to him.
heisasadcliche ( member #71662) posted at 11:51 PM on Friday, March 6th, 2020
George Strait-
'i'm not going to lay around and whine and moan
'cause somebody done me wrong
don't think for a minute
that I'm gonna sit around and sing some old sad song
i believe it's half full, not a half empty glass...
look up the lyrics- I couldn't have felt this earlier on but now-
BRING ON THE GOOD TIME
Working hard on indifference. It is much less painful.
learningtofeel ( member #39543) posted at 4:34 PM on Sunday, March 8th, 2020
Lizzo - Soulmate, Good as hell
Cass Elliot - Make your own kind of music
Kelly Clarkson - Broken and beautiful
Sara Bareilles - King of anything
Alanis Morissette - Not the doctor
Annie Lennox - Sisters are doing it for themselves
M 1989
3 young adult kids
D-Day 4.13.13
WS (him): 7 OW over 15 years
BS (me): had no clue
D-Day 2: 10.19.19, OW#8, a co-worker
Told him I was DONE
Slanted ( member #71939) posted at 4:42 PM on Sunday, March 8th, 2020
I just end up playing the same thing over and over:
U2, "It's a Beautiful Day"
The heart is a bloom
shoots up through the stony ground
And their "Lights of Home"
Shouldn't be here 'cause I should be dead
I can see the lights in front of me
I believe my best days are ahead
...
Free yourself to be yourself
If only you could see yourself
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