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Adlham

There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.

Can cats have an identity crisis?

Posting here because it's silly...

Harriet is my tortoise shell cat. She's about 8 months old.

The thing is, I think she's confused about who she is! She LOVES to play Fetch and is very insistent that we play all the time. She also loves to play catch and is quite good at it!

It's just so weird because I've never had a cat who acts more like a dog!

Is this a thing?

9 comments posted: Thursday, March 15th, 2018

Boise, Idaho August 8th

So hey all, I'm going to be in Boise on August 8th for an appointment the next morning.

If anyone would like to go to dinner, I'd love some company. I may have my oldest daughter with me, unless she makes other plans, but it would be fun to put some faces to names.

I also don't really know the Boise area all that well so any suggestions are welcome.

In addition, I'm allergic to most alcohol so I can be a designated driver if anyone has a few drinks. I'm not saying let's get drunk, I'm just saying if you are like my husband and refuse to drive after one beer, I will be not drinking and am more than happy to make sure you get to where you need safely.

0 comment posted: Monday, June 19th, 2017

Skan!

29 comments posted: Wednesday, June 14th, 2017

Tyler Knott Gregson

He is a poet and my god, he is amazing.

Poems from the Typewriter Serie is so plain spoken and beautiful. Mostly love poems so there's that but given that I have a great guy now it's ok haha.

You can actually google his stuff but buying the book is worth it. I stood and cried in the bookstore reading some of his work and embarrassed them hell out of my daughter!

A couple of favorites:

1. Sometimes you look up and there just seems to be so many more stars than ever before. More. They burn brighter and they shine longer and they never vanish into your periphery when you turn your head. It's as if they come out for us and to remind us that their light took so long to come to us, that if we never had the patience to wait, we never would have seen them here, tonight, like this.

That as much as it hurts, sometimes it's all you can do, wait, endure and keep shining, knowing that eventually, your light will reach where it is supposed to reach and shine for who it is supposed to shine for.

It is never easy, but it is always worth it.

2. Amazing

How manageable

Life

Can feel

With only

One blanket

And the right

Two arms.

3. Be gentle,

Always delicate

With every soul

You meet, for every single morning

You wake up,

There is someone

Wishing,

Silently

And secretly,

That they

Had not.

4. I promise you

I will try harder

To be better.

I

Have battled with things

Inside me

For longer than you know;

I do not know

What they are

Or why they are there,

I only know

That they feel

Manageable,

Defeatable,

When I

Am around

You.

That last one is where I lost it in the bookstore. My FOO & PTSD has been kicking my ass since I had surgery. Who knew that surgery could trigger that shit? It's actually a thing! I've looked into it! So that last one hit me hard and I actually had to put it in a card for my always patient, long suffering husband who has to deal with me when I'm a mess!

0 comment posted: Sunday, May 7th, 2017

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