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Divorce/Separation :
Well wishes appreciated Nearing the finish line

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 Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 12:42 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

I am very near the end of the divorce/trial

I appreciate everyone here. You literally saved my life.

Friends saved my life.


I will post more when it is decided finally but for the next few days and well wishes would be very much appreciated. For all concerned.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:00 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Good luck Shehawk. I hope everything goes smoothly!!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 1:29 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Good luck! We're all rooting for you.

Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:39 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Goodluck! I pray everything goes how you wish it to.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

posts: 25765   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2011   ·   location: Canada
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Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 5:46 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Good luck, Shehawk! The end is near!!!! Then you can start your new wonderfull life!

BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!

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crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 6:31 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Well wishes for the best outcome for you. I can hardly wait to be divorced myself to have an ending to this era in my life!

fBS/fWS(me):50 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(20) DS(17)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorcing

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:35 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Sending you all the good mojo and good luck and everything!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 6002   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:23 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Good luck and hoping for a favorable outcome!

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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BallofAnxiety ( member #82853) posted at 9:38 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

Fingers crossed for you. Keep us posted!

Me: BW. XCH: ONS 2006; DDay 12/2022 "it was only online," trickle truth until 1/2023 - "it was 1 year+ affair with MCOW." Divorced 4/2024.

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 Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 10:39 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023

My divorce is final.

I will post more later.

He told me if I left him he would break me. He did not succeed.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 12:03 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

He told me if I left him he would break me. He did not succeed.

I LOVE this !!!

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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LearningToJoy ( new member #80732) posted at 12:04 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

You are a badass! Well done. It's so satisfying to prove XH wrong.

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 12:18 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Well done Shehawk!!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:59 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

YYYYAAAAASSSSS. You did great, Shehawk!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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kiwilee ( member #10426) posted at 5:14 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

So glad to hear you are DONE!! Onward and upward!

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JammyWheel ( member #80828) posted at 2:01 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Well done Shehawk!

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Reddirtman ( new member #77340) posted at 8:25 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Awesome news!
Now go out and live that wonderful life that’s in front of you.

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BrokenheartedUK ( member #43520) posted at 9:42 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Congratulations!!!! Your divorce, like your Ex, is in the rear view mirror. Like roadkill.

Me: BS
He cheated and then lied. Apparently cheaters lie. Huh. 13 months of false R. Divorced! 8/16 3 teenage kids
"The barn's burnt down
Now
I can see the moon"
-Mizuta Masahide

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Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 10:51 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

YES! You did it!

BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!

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Trapped74 ( member #49696) posted at 12:23 AM on Saturday, August 5th, 2023

Congratulations!! FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMM!

Many DDays. Me (BW) 49 Him (WH) 52 Happily detached and compartmentalized.

posts: 335   ·   registered: Sep. 21st, 2015   ·   location: Oregon
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