They had a baby
Their baby is now a few months old
OW (now GF as they have been together a long time, he has been gone a long time and is STBX) seems to be apart from the baby a lot
My IC says she probably didn’t want the baby
ie baby trapped him
She is so not a nice person
Neither is he
Sorry to type here I just didn’t know where else to put it
7 comments posted: Tuesday, June 13th, 2023
It’s hard that he has seemingly rebuilt life - new girlfriend who he now has a child with; family and friends rallied round THEM despite the horrendous way he left me for her.
It is hard to build up life because he left me with kids that need a lot of attention (I am a carer to one of them who has additional needs), and I don’t have the family support that he and the girlfriend have
4 comments posted: Monday, May 29th, 2023
Narcissistic abuse survivors
Is there anyone on here that has been through this?
I realise now STBX is a narcissist
He still won’t let me go
I need to talk to other survivors to get through this
Can anyone relate or know of any resources that might help
16 comments posted: Saturday, January 14th, 2023
It is LONELY
There I said it
I don’t know what the answer is
But it is LONELY
16 comments posted: Monday, January 9th, 2023
I don’t even know what to say
Today has been particularly difficult
Hoping saying it here gets it off my chest
31 comments posted: Thursday, December 22nd, 2022
OW pregnant during separation
Bit of a bombshell
It’s been a 4 year separation and he’s been with her almost as soon as he left, living together for a few years now too.
I was heavily pregnant when he went
He’s been visiting the kids in the family home all this and I was trying to reconcile. Although turns out he was not.
He emailed me the news
- and she’s through got through the first trimester
The shock has subsided, a little, but the grief has not
There could never be a reconciliation now, because the child would be a reminder & he would always have a connection to her. So it’s over.
Hard to bear
13 comments posted: Sunday, September 4th, 2022