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 crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 5:29 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022

I never thought I would feel this way again. The man I have been dating for the last 8 months asked me to be his full time GF and I couldn't be happier. He is nothing like my ex and is super emotional just like me and I hope that our love just continues to grow stronger. We have taken our time and it has been worth it. We like the same music and enjoy just sitting next to each other for hours on end. He even cooks breakfast for me lol. I am really really happy. I wish this for all of us who have been hurt and betrayed. This hope for love again has renewed me.


There is life after infidelity and it is awesome blush

fBS/fWS(me):49 Mad-hattered after DD1
XWS:51 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
Was Married 19 yrs
DD(19) DS(16)
DD1 (2008) COW, DD2 (2012) MOW, False R (2014) Same MOW. DD3 (2019) Webcam girl

posts: 8290   ·   registered: Apr. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: California
id 8743895
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The1stWife ( member #58832) posted at 6:07 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022

So happy for you. Glad to read an upbeat post.

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled.

posts: 12307   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2017
id 8743902
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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 6:14 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022

(((CBS)))

I am so happy for you! You deserve this!!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

posts: 3516   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2018   ·   location: CO
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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022

I LOVE THIS grin !!!

Thank you so much for sharing grin !!!

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

posts: 6169   ·   registered: Oct. 2nd, 2014   ·   location: Southeastern United States
id 8743905
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DailyGratitude ( member #79494) posted at 7:16 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022

CB
Wow i am so so happy to read your post!!!!
So happy and excited for you!
May you continue to experience love and happiness!

Me: BW mid 50’sHim: WH late 50’sMarrried 25 yearsDday: EA 2002 PA 9/2021Divorce 10/2021 (per wh’s request) WH left to be with AP

posts: 307   ·   registered: Oct. 17th, 2021   ·   location: Connecticut
id 8743916
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DailyGratitude ( member #79494) posted at 7:35 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022

CB
I went back and read some of your old posts. I can’t even begin to tell you how happy I am for you that you found love and joy you so deserve. You endured so much trauma and endured with courage and resolve.
Many of your posts sounded like I wrote them. Every fear, every set back, every emotion you wrote about are what I feel. It’s as if I am walking the exact same path you walked on.
Thank you for your uplifting post!

Me: BW mid 50’sHim: WH late 50’sMarrried 25 yearsDday: EA 2002 PA 9/2021Divorce 10/2021 (per wh’s request) WH left to be with AP

posts: 307   ·   registered: Oct. 17th, 2021   ·   location: Connecticut
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leafields ( member #63517) posted at 10:05 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2022

CBS, your post made my day. So happy for you!

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 1238   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8743940
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OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 12:25 AM on Saturday, July 9th, 2022

Your happiness is much deserved! Enjoy. The world feels a little less wrong when good things happen to good people. smile

me: BS/WSh: WS/BS

Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.

posts: 5604   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2016   ·   location: Midwest
id 8743964
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BraveSirRobin ( Guide #69242) posted at 1:21 AM on Saturday, July 9th, 2022

Yay!!

WW/BW

posts: 2835   ·   registered: Dec. 27th, 2018
id 8743972
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countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 5:39 AM on Sunday, July 10th, 2022

Yay! So happy for you!!

3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021

posts: 413   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2016   ·   location: Colorado
id 8744080
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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 2:34 PM on Monday, July 11th, 2022

I am so happy for you, CBS! You deserve every happiness!

Hugs!

Me-56 FWH-58 Married 38 years 9/2/2021 grown daughters-38&34 12yo GS,9yo GD & 7yo.GD (DD38) and 10yo GD & 5yo GD(DD34). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

posts: 8877   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2007
id 8744180
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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 4:34 PM on Monday, July 11th, 2022

You have been through so much. Very happy for you!!!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

posts: 2865   ·   registered: Aug. 25th, 2010
id 8744203
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 crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 5:49 PM on Monday, July 11th, 2022

Thank you all so much! It feels so good to be this happy again and free from the shackles of a really bad marriage.

fBS/fWS(me):49 Mad-hattered after DD1
XWS:51 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
Was Married 19 yrs
DD(19) DS(16)
DD1 (2008) COW, DD2 (2012) MOW, False R (2014) Same MOW. DD3 (2019) Webcam girl

posts: 8290   ·   registered: Apr. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: California
id 8744222
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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 4:21 AM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2022

Really happy for you!!

Hope things continue to get better and better.

posts: 962   ·   registered: Nov. 5th, 2018   ·   location: VA
id 8744313
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DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 3:14 PM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2022

YAY!!! You deserve happiness and love! It is so amazing to watch you truly live again!

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

posts: 5027   ·   registered: Jul. 27th, 2017
id 8744351
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barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 5:46 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2022

I am so happy for you!!

Me: BH, age 48Her: WS, age 45 (multiple EAs and PAs)D-Day: August 30, 2016

Diagnosed with depression in December 2016, which was primarily caused by my xWW's affair and associated emotional abuse.

posts: 5295   ·   registered: Aug. 31st, 2016
id 8744534
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Summertime22 ( member #79796) posted at 4:58 AM on Thursday, July 14th, 2022

I am so very happy for you!!

posts: 138   ·   registered: Jan. 16th, 2022   ·   location: UK
id 8744608
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Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 6:32 AM on Thursday, July 14th, 2022

So great to hear

Legally separated, one more step.

posts: 1966   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2018
id 8744610
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Sunny69 ( member #65876) posted at 6:29 PM on Thursday, July 14th, 2022

I can't tell you how pleased I am to read this. Betrayed spouses endure so much trying to work through a betrayal. To have gone through it and enjoy being on the other side, must be liberating. I think 'free of the shackles of infidelity' sums it up perfectly. Enjoy, and I hope it keeps working out for you 😁

posts: 124   ·   registered: Aug. 18th, 2018   ·   location: Uk
id 8744660
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Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 6:27 PM on Monday, July 25th, 2022

Your post gives us all hope Crazy, that there is a light at the end of the tunnel no matter how far it may seem !

Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids

You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop

posts: 638   ·   registered: Jun. 23rd, 2016   ·   location: UK
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