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gmc94 posted 8/28/2019 11:24 AM

TX1995 - thank for the podcast list.
I'm thrilled to see that the addicted mind's relational trauma team have a podcast - so that's pretty high on my infidelity listen list.

I listened to podcasts ALL the time before dday, but then pretty much stopped as I could not concentrate. I should trie it again.

SisterMilkshake posted 8/28/2019 11:50 AM

I would give a lot to be able to rock that hairstyle, EllieKMAS. I would want it to be purple or a deep scarlet, too. Alas, I am too old and my hair is too thin. I would, unfortunately, look like an escapee from a locked memory care facility. I so envy the young un's who can rock those buzzed, mohawk, or half buzzed & wildly thick curly/wavy on the other side do's. I am not a big fan of piercings and tattoo's for myself. If others want to, that is their choice. Tattoo's are too permanent, and SOME piercings are just, imo, ugly. Especially lose huge ear lobe enlargement type. But, everyone, be yourself, don't let anyone tell you how you need or should look. ETA: Oh, yeah, forgot. They can all go fuck off!

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 1:20 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)]

Chili posted 8/28/2019 13:13 PM

Hey now - this is actually the look I think I'm going for every day:

an escapee from a locked memory care facility.

And Psssst:


SisterMilkshake posted 8/28/2019 13:27 PM

Hey now - this is actually the look I think I'm going for every day:
an escapee from a locked memory care facility.
My poor dear MIL. She was fastidiously groomed and always dressed so nicely, could tell she always put effort in. Always jewelry and lipstick, manicured nails and nicely coiffed hair. She was then diagnosed with Alzhiemers. You wouldn't recognize her as the same women. When we would visit her we were so sad to see how she had deteriorated. Her appearance would be so appalling and humiliating to her.


[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 1:28 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)]

cocoplus5nuts posted 8/28/2019 15:06 PM

Waywards tell themselves whatever they need to in order to justify their shitty behaviour.

Yes, they do. I believe my fch was unhappy. I don't believe our M was the primary problem. I think it had to do with all the deployments he was sent on. We had been married for almost 14 years when he cheated, but had lived together maybe half that time.

Chaos posted 8/28/2019 15:10 PM

I am chiming in with a few things:

I ❤️ My hairdresser.

APs can FUCK Off

Someone remind me that I need to cool off because I donít want to get banned from Wayward.

Tallgirl posted 8/28/2019 16:00 PM

Maybe my pending tattoo should say. Fuck off

I could make it pretty.

EllieKMAS posted 8/28/2019 16:09 PM

TG - put it in a different language - takes it from vulgar to "fancy".

Italian - vaffanculo
Swedish - dra Śt helvete
French - Va te faire foutre
German - Verpiss dich
Spanish - Vete a la mierda
Swahili - kutomba mbali
Czech - do prdele

Or hell, just get a whole sleeve of it in every language you can!!

SisterMilkshake posted 8/28/2019 16:26 PM

Fuck yeah, you could, Tallgirl. Have you ever seen The Sweary Colouring Book? They have a beautiful "fuck" design. There a bunch of swearing coloring books that can give you inspiration for your Fuck Off tattoo.

Chaos posted 8/28/2019 16:57 PM

OMG. This weekendís toast can include a design Tallgirl Tattoo theme.

We can design Fuck Off fancy tattoos while toasting.

TX1995 posted 8/28/2019 18:19 PM

Yes, I agree. They all seem to say the same thing. There really is a cheater's handbook it's AMAZING. My WH says he wouldn't have even said our marriage was anything but good before he had his A. HE was just unhappy about one thing (he thought we should have more sex and that because we didn't have it daily that he "deserved" it, because having sex was the absolute only way he ever saw my love - don't mind all of the other shit I did over 20 years or times I TRIED to connect with his lecherous ass).

GMC - Glad you found some podcasts to try. I too LOVED that the Addicted Mind therapists teamed up. They even do a weekend intensive for couples which is on my maybe list of things to do...

Ellie - I LOVE that you have an amazing new haircut. I've always want to dye mine blue. I should. I don't know what I'm scared of.

SMS - I agree. FUCK Alzheimer's. My grandfather had it and it was heartbreaking. He kept forgetting that my grandmother had passed and was always looking for her. Also, everyone in my family is getting a sweary coloring book. Those things are AWESOME!

I've also been pondering a tattoo. Blue hair, tattoo, don't care! Fuck off is straight to the point TallGirl! But it does sound nice in other languages. I can't think of what I want to permanently be on my body, and imagine it will take a while to find the right thing...

Had my consult with the neurofeedback guy today. I'm going in next week for an EEG and starting the therapy that following week. He says roughly 85% of his patients see a huge POSITIVE change - and then warned me that some people get divorced after they have clarity. I said that was fine - as long as there is clarity! Crossing my fingers for some peace of mind. What a FUCKING miracle that would be.

And Fuck Wednesdays.

Tallgirl posted 8/28/2019 18:21 PM

Lol. A toast to the winning design!

Tallgirl posted 8/28/2019 18:24 PM

Where do I get a sweary. colouring book!?

What a great gift. Seriously. I have one or two people on that list already.

EllieKMAS posted 8/28/2019 18:40 PM

check 'adult coloring books' on amazon. I bought one for my friend for christmas... it's pretty awesome.

gmc94 posted 8/29/2019 00:14 AM

Oh my FUCKING god! I googled those books - and bc I figured out how to post photos....

I know what folks are getting for xmas!

gmc94 posted 8/29/2019 00:18 AM

And in honor of Chaos:

Scoobydoo posted 8/29/2019 01:11 AM

Fuckety fuck FUCK!!!

Hey Ladies Iím still here, still surviving, still keeping on keeping on!!

Today is judgment day,
FUCK I feel so sick 🤮

I FUCKING hate Thursdays!!!

I have a wicked hair cut...Bob cut, higher at the back than the front, & dyed Deep Garnet, I FUCKING love it 😊
My nose is pierced..little studded diamond 💎
Iíve also got loads of Tattoos, 11 up to now, with a full leg piece in progress of butterflies & elephants, having a waterfall done on Friday 13th...super excited 😆 never been a lover of art but I do love body art 😘

On a side note...Iím not sure of the protocol so Iím just going to put it out there,

A very kind & very generous sole donated anonymously for me to be upgraded on SI, for me to change my username 😊
Iím in absolute awe of this perfect stranger that has done this for me, I cannot tell you how much gratitude I have for them,
Iím so bloody humbled someone would do this for me,
I canít express how grateful I am.

So from the bottom of my heart
Thank you so very very much whoever you are 😘

gmc94 posted 8/29/2019 01:33 AM

Hey Scooby - I'm so glad to hear from you!

What a wonderful gift (and now I wish I'd thought of it myself!)

sorry it's judgment day - but do your hair toss, check your nails and walk your fine ass... well, you know.

Scoobydoo posted 8/29/2019 04:08 AM

Thank you gmc,

Hair toss...check

I'm ready for today to be over & its only 10 am here

Tallgirl posted 8/29/2019 06:39 AM

I looked at Fuck off tattoos on google. If we could get a fab design it would go like gang busters. Saw only one creative design. So off to the colouring books. Hahaha.

A disturbing number of people tattooed their forehead. A word over each eyebrow. Hmmmmmm. You could say fuck off with a look and emphasize it with an eyebrow lift. Lol. This kills me.

I like the German version. Packs a punch.

Good luck today scooby. Thinking of you. Just think of the fuck off tattoos and eyebrow raise like a mad woman whilst flashing those nails during your hair toss and shaking that booty.

Thinking of doing all that at once makes me giggle. Iíd crash into a wall and would look like I was having a body spasm. Elegance isnít natural for me. My natural state is going to the grocery store with my shirt inside out, which may have allegedly happened earlier this week. If that happened I may have noticed 3 hours later.

Have a good fucking Thursday girls.

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