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leafields ( Member #63517) posted at 4:15 AM on Friday, July 23rd, 2021

You've moved out of state to get away from telling people we're divorced. You aren't admitting it's because you were unfaithful.

The D hasn't been final 5 months, and you're engaged to somebody who doesn't know you're a cheater.

Is it any wonder that your children don't want to deal with you any more?

Me: BW
Married 34 years, 3 DS
DDay #1: March 26, 2018, DDay #2 8/26/2019
Filed for D: 11/16/2020
D Final: 2/25/2021

posts: 637   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8677670

MotherOfDragons ( New Member #76078) posted at 11:53 PM on Wednesday, July 28th, 2021

Need a safe place to release some pain and anger....

How dare you treat our children like that. How dare you criticise them for standing up to you. How dare you put your own pathetic, selfish ego before their mental health- they are both struggling so much with what you have done . How dare you tell bare faced lies about the financial abuse you have put us through, they see and have told me about your ‘lifestyle’ that has come at the cost of their security. How dare you try to gas light them . How dare you make them feel scared and anxious. How dare you use them the way you have. How dare you shout at them for speaking their mind . How dare you. They are worth a million of you and your OW . You are not worthy of them.

posts: 27   ·   registered: Dec. 31st, 2020
id 8679328

MotherOfDragons ( New Member #76078) posted at 12:05 AM on Thursday, July 29th, 2021

Don’t upset my children again you nasty, pathetic, lying #######

posts: 27   ·   registered: Dec. 31st, 2020
id 8679330

WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 12:33 AM on Wednesday, August 4th, 2021

You tell more lies than truths. Lying is your default setting. You lie about things that don't even matter either way. You lie just for the sake of lying. What the hell is wrong with you? Asking an honest question, what the hell happened to your brain to cause it to misfire 98% of the time?

Holy crap, thank God I left your ass. Go fuck yourself, lying liar who lies.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

posts: 4360   ·   registered: Sep. 6th, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8681058

WarriorPrincess ( Member #51806) posted at 6:01 AM on Wednesday, August 4th, 2021

I hate you, WH. I hate you , hate you, hate you. I hate you for all the negative things you put in my head. All the lies you told me about myself that I now believe. I never thought I was stupid or inept before. I used to believe there was nothing I couldn't do. I used to feel pretty, sexy, and confident. I used to have friends. Not a ton of friends, but friends nonetheless. I never thought people didn't like me. I was never she or afraid of people.

I fucking hate you.

Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest o' the world
I wanna be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls, they wanna have fun....
(Cyndi Lauper)

posts: 922   ·   registered: Feb. 14th, 2016   ·   location: Indiana Dunes
id 8681120

honesttoafault ( Member #27105) posted at 4:54 PM on Saturday, August 7th, 2021

I thought I could be rid of you. How dare you tell threaten our son that if he doesn't do what you want you will seek revenge????
I'm so sick and tired of the years of abuse and having to do things your way or you will retaliate? I'm so tired of you seeming to hold all the cards.

I can't believe how you just texted me that you are leaving your car in our driveway without permission and then go overseas, without leaving the keys. Who the hell are you? We found a spare set and put the car on the street and then you threaten our son with revenge??

You don't even know that your grown son believes you are a psychopath and I know he's right.

posts: 2619   ·   registered: Jan. 7th, 2010
id 8682105

WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 5:25 PM on Saturday, August 7th, 2021

You are fucking useless. Seriously, just give me the money you owe me and be gone. I've got this.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

posts: 4360   ·   registered: Sep. 6th, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8682109

hcsv ( Member #51813) posted at 2:37 PM on Monday, August 23rd, 2021

so I checked marrried "girlfriends" facebook page, yeah, I know, shouldn’t be doing that. BUT got a laugh. She posted her wedding picture for their ten year anniversary. remember her husband was a married man when they were dating, dad to twins under 1 year old and both were your employees..

Everyone is congratulating her. SOO, are they congratulating her for this one lasting the longest of her three marriages OR that she only cheated once (that I know of, arent you proud to be the one?) with this marriage? It’s almost killing me not to add that question. Maybe you can ask her?

After 40 years, ex turned into someone I didnt know and couldnt trust anymore. Divorced. 1/17

posts: 648   ·   registered: Feb. 14th, 2016
id 8684883

crazyblindsided ( Member #35215) posted at 5:42 PM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2021

What makes you think I want to talk to you and answer YOUR questions? It's still manipulation. That is all you know! Then you have the nerve to make our 18 year old daughter your flying monkey. I wish you would fall off the face of the earth!

fBS/fWS (me):48 Mad-hattered after DD1
XWS:50 Serial Cheater, NPD tendencies
Together 24 years, Married 19
DD(18) DS(15)
DD1 (2008) COW, DD2 (2012) MOW, False R (2014) Same MOW. DD3 (2019) Webcam girl

posts: 8034   ·   registered: Apr. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: California
id 8686828
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