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SI Prayers/Mojo Request...Cancer

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deeplysad posted 8/28/2016 13:05 PM

You are so incredibly brave, but I hate that you are having to go through this.

((((((DS)))))
((((((MH)))))

nowiknow23 posted 8/28/2016 13:14 PM

((((((DS & MH)))))) All my love to you two.

minusone posted 8/28/2016 13:32 PM

Sending prayers and all good thoughts to both of you.

sisoon posted 8/28/2016 13:56 PM

Forget the guilt, DS.

Decent people just make allowances when needed for this sort of trial. You've probably done it for your colleagues in the past, and you'll do it again.

I'm so sorry you're going through this pain. My thoughts are with you.

(((DS))) (((MH)))

zebra25 posted 8/28/2016 14:11 PM

I hate that you or anybody has to go through this.

Praying for you and MH.

solus sto posted 8/28/2016 14:50 PM

((((DS and MH)))) You will get through this. You will.

Cally60 posted 8/28/2016 16:35 PM

Oh, DeeplyScared. This is awful. The illness itself is enough to deal with, without the treatment making you feel still worse. I am so sorry. I wish you not only that perfect Christmas, but a less ghastly reaction to any treatment and a more bearable path towards the holiday celebration, too.

There's an old rhyme that says: "If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride." Well, if even a small proportion of the SI good wishes were all fulfilled, I know that you would currently be sitting and feeling on the very top of the world. I hope that you soon will be.

sassylee posted 8/28/2016 16:46 PM

Sending you and MH much mojo and positive energy. I'll pray for you both! ❤️

Deeply Scared posted 8/29/2016 05:13 AM

Awesome...thank you everyone!!!

It's funny...we were headed out yesterday morning to go have breakfast with MH's mom and our neighbor down the street was taking a walk and she leaned in my car door and asked how I was doing...I said "I'm doing pretty good!" and she said "Well, hell...YOU'RE DRIVING!" and I suddenly realized that yeah...I'm not doing so bad after all!!!

I've been so lucky my whole life to have been isolated from cancer...I don't know what to gauge anything on...so I just kind of assume that people go about their regular business and still look good through chemo.

Well, apparently I'm not the norm...go figure

Thank you again!!

Hope24 posted 8/29/2016 05:22 AM

Love you, DS. ❤️

Deeply Scared posted 8/29/2016 05:46 AM

(((((Hope)))))

Love you too

Lalagirl posted 8/29/2016 05:59 AM

Huge hugs to you and MH. Having a good support system is paramount to healing...and you have an awesome support system!

You got this...

Hugs!

WalkinOnEggshelz posted 8/29/2016 05:59 AM

Both you and MH have both proven to amazing and strong several times over. This is just another one of those times. When you get through this, you will both be able to say "yep, we survived that too!"

((((MH and DS)))

cantaccept posted 8/29/2016 06:21 AM

(((DS & MH))))

Thinking of you both and sending positive thoughts.

metamorphisis posted 8/29/2016 06:38 AM

I can't wait for you and I to get stupid excited about Christmas again this year DS. It WILL be the best Christmas ever.

((((((((((DS and MH)))))))))))))

tushnurse posted 8/29/2016 07:22 AM

(((DS))))

You are doing great, don't know if anyone has mentioned transitional depression, but it's real and difficult to deal with during treatment of things like cancer, and recovery from major medical events.

It's when you hit the point, WTF, shouldn't this be over by now, I want to feel better. This alone can impact your ability to heal and fight. If you recognize this, please talk to your treatment team about it. Pain is exhausting, getting physically ill daily is exhausting, you are fighting a great fight. There is no shame in feeling down, but if you are struggling to find some positive self talk, then let your team know.

You got this we know you do.

DragnHeart posted 8/29/2016 08:28 AM

Sending hugs and mojo and prayers for both you and MH!!! You've been an inspiration.

JanetS posted 8/29/2016 09:15 AM

Thank you DS for the update. Not a happy update, you are in pain, and that makes me so sad.

Sadly pain is inevitable while aggressively fighting this "pain-in-the-ass-illness" that invaded your body. The army (medical treatments) is stomping all over you, and it must do that to get to the end of this war. :( Still, sucks big time, really big time.

You rarely pull the cancer card...you ARE strong. But pull it more often if you need to, without guilt. This is one time you don't have to be a rock.

Eyes forward, till November, when this God-awful treatment will take a break. Mind positive, that this crap will do what it's meant to do.

And Christmas, oh yeah, once you're up to it plan the most delightful Christmas you can. A wonderful way to celebrate the end of these many months of pain.

My thoughts daily go to both of you. I wish you the strength to fight this battle you did not sign up for, and that this time next year, and future years, you'll be saying "I smashed the crap outta cancer" and you'll be running marathons to support cancer research.

Cancer treatment has come a long long way. Many survivors around as a testament to that. Focus on that thought. But cry your heart out when it feels too much to handle, you've earned the right to meltdown.

Best wishes everyday.

Edited to add: I noticed your earlier post, but missed the one where you stated you were driving, and were sounding positive. Glad to read that.

Janet

[This message edited by JanetS at 12:13 PM, August 29th (Monday)]

knutz posted 8/29/2016 09:36 AM

You are a BADASS rockstar!!!

Close your eyes and picture those ugly, mean and WEAK cancer cells dying inside you as the chemo does its job.

You are going to have a GREAT Christmas this year!

Pentup posted 8/29/2016 09:55 AM

DS,
Sending you light (Christmas tree light, which is the BESt kind of light!) prayers and mojo.

Lord,
Thank you for this beautiful couple. Thank you for the glory of your days and the kindness and love of family, friends and strangers.

tPlease lift MH up, give him strength and peace and courage. This is a trial and scary for both DS and MH. Let them feel your love and support though the words and actions of others. Give them hope and pain free days. Give the Drs wisdom and kindness. Lord, we ask that you fully heal and restore DS. We ask that you give DS respite during treatment . Lord help them prepare to celebrate the birth of Jesus with full remission, no pain and joy in your goodness. We ask this in your most precious name. Amen

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