tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 4:08 PM on Wednesday, August 10th, 2016
Thinking about you today DS and wishing I could give you a hug IRL, know that I am giving you a virtual one. You are so incredibly brave and strong. We are all behind you on this and you are going to come out of this strong and healthy and better than ever. 
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 7:19 PM on Wednesday, August 10th, 2016
I just found out that my doctors--who had suspected kidney cancer--discovered absolutely no signs of the big C in my C-T scan. So now I can take all the positive energy/mojo/etc. that I was directing at my mid-section and devote it to you. You go, DS. Beat the crap out of that a-hole disease!
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:24 AM on Thursday, August 11th, 2016
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:39 AM on Thursday, August 11th, 2016
DS holy shit when did this thread become 25 pages?!?!?! I know you are a total badass and you are giving the Big C the middle finger and owning it.
I stopped by the gun store on the way jome and picked up a new site and some more ammo for you. So please continue to AK this shit!!!!
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
punky ( member #12233) posted at 7:07 PM on Saturday, August 13th, 2016
Sending you my love today. I can see how the outside changes must be very hard to deal with. It would be for me, too. Just hang in there and keep letting your inner beauty shine. And AK47 that shit!
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
ILINIA ( member #39836) posted at 9:22 PM on Saturday, August 13th, 2016
Thinking of you and sending positive energy DS!
Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 7:03 PM on Monday, August 15th, 2016
foundoutlater ( member #32900) posted at 2:19 AM on Saturday, August 20th, 2016
Hi DS and MH – just stopped by to see how your ammo is holding out. I hope you know how many people are thinking about you two. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 2:38 PM on Monday, August 22nd, 2016
Sending more love and hugs and positive thoughts and energy!!!!
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 2:44 PM on Monday, August 22nd, 2016
Thinking about you and sending lots of love your way (((DS&MH)))
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:12 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2016
Came on to check for an update here. Hope no news is good news!!
((((DS&MH&furries))))
Failure is success if we learn from it.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 9:00 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2016
Count me in... thinking of you and sending all good thoughts and prayers.
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
okaynow ( member #13813) posted at 12:16 AM on Thursday, August 25th, 2016
Sending love, light and strength your way.
Much love to you as you go through this journey. Been there. Done that. Hang in there - it does get better.
<3
Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 1:16 AM on Thursday, August 25th, 2016
Just popped in to see how you are doing. Keep fighting!
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:54 PM on Thursday, August 25th, 2016
Not forgotten, still sending mojo.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 1:48 AM on Friday, August 26th, 2016
Just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts and prayers DS.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:46 AM on Friday, August 26th, 2016
Just popped in to see if there was an update.
Sending positive mojo your way! 
Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 11:18 AM on Friday, August 26th, 2016
I'll update this weekend.
You all are amazing...truly!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 2:27 PM on Friday, August 26th, 2016
((((DS))))
You all are amazing...truly!!!
Right back atcha lady!!!
I hope that you are feeling better. You are in my thoughts every day, I hope you are feeling all the positive vibes and mojo.
Fuck cancer. AK47 that shit!!!
((((DS & MH))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 3:30 PM on Sunday, August 28th, 2016
Hi...
I've never completed my 2nd round of chemo with these new drugs. They are aggressive and mean...two things I'm not 
I get sick almost every single day now and I'm always scared of that happening when I can't get to a restroom in time. And that did happen a couple weeks ago in a parking lot...I just couldn't hold it down 
So I opened up my car door and leaned over...God, how awful for anyone that had to clean that up.
I've lost all my hair now...completely bald. The good news is I haven't had to shave anything on my body for over 3 months now The pain I have every day is getting old and tiresome. Sharp, hot, stabbing pain that will literally make me groan out loud. Which then makes me feel like a total wimp.
My work has been incredible...anything I need...they do for me. Which then makes me feel super guilty! LOL!! They are always concerned about me first. Is it too much to ask of me to get the files from upstairs? Why yes...I have cancer you asshole!! 
I do throw out my cancer card about 2 times a month now...keeps them on their toes 
MH had been nothing short of miraculous...truly. He does things for me that when I'm alone and thinking of him...I just start crying at the depth of his love for me. It's amazing and should be recognized for everything it's worth.
I have chemo treatments through the end of November and all I want is a wonderful Christmas...it's our favorite time of year and I want it perfect. Cancer or not...I just want it to be one of the best we've ever had.
Cancer is awful. There is nothing, NOTHING nice about it. It's ugly, it smells 
it's painful and I hate every single thing about it.
We certainly appreciate all the kind messages and prayer!!! Please, please pray for MH as well...he needs so much support and asks for none. I worry about him.
Thanks everyone!!!
AK 47 THIS SHIT!!!!!!!!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
