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SI Prayers/Mojo Request...Cancer


WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:53 AM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

You got this girl! If anyone can AK47 this shit, it's you! Sending so much love and strength your way.

Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 12:06 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

Prayers and mojo for a successful second round

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:25 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

Sending all good thoughts, hugs and prayers.

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 12:44 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016


Please hold DS in your healing palm. Please Keep her safe and comfortable and free from nausea during these treatments. Lord we ask that you bring people into her path that give her peace and love and laughter as she has brought these same gifts to so many here on this site. Be with MH as he walks beside her on this journey and give him peace and strength. Lord, we love this woman as we know you do. We ask this in your precious name. Amen

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 3:08 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

You are going to make it through this, I know it. I'm hoping that any sickness is only brief, and that between you and the chemo that cancer is gonna get AK47'ed so fast it won't know what hit it.

Fuck Cancer.

((((DS & MH))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:12 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

Sending continued mojo and prayers your way, DS.

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papercrane ( member #50598) posted at 4:07 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

You are so amazing and so brave. You're going to beat the cancer! Hugs to you!


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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:23 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

Sending all the mojo I've got!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 4:31 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

sending continued mojo and positive thoughts your way. You've got this!!


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 4:43 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

You have my continued love and prayers.

(((DS & MH)))

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

Sending my special, patented "Sail Through Chemo" mojo.

Seriously, they have wonderful drugs to control the nausea these days. Hopefully things will go smoothly.

Thinking of you,


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 5:44 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

You've got this! I'll be thinking about you all day today and sending positive mojo your way!

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foundoutlater ( member #32900) posted at 11:38 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2016

Hi DS – just thinking about you and MH – glad to hear it’s going ok and you are locked and loaded to tackle this.

Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 12:28 AM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2016

I've been following, and I'm wishing you the best.

Btw, the woman who played the probe in Star Trek The Motion Picture. Bald. Nice. Just saying it isn't a bad look. Just be confident and you'll rock it.

Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.

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PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 3:33 PM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2016

Sending love and well wishes.. Keeping you both close to my heart.

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 1:25 AM on Tuesday, July 26th, 2016

How was the weekend DS? Hoping this round is easier than you expect.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Walloped ( member #48852) posted at 4:36 PM on Tuesday, July 26th, 2016

I've unfortunately had a number of friends who've gone through this. The two things they all had in common, besides their illness, was an awe-inspiring level of courage and tremendously positive attitude.

You've got both in spades!

Sometimes our life experiences, even the tough ones, are really battle training grounds to give us the tools we need to overcome other challenges life throws at us. You've not only survived infidelity, you took the bull by the horns and dedicated your life to helping others who've gone through it as well.

I hope and pray for your speedy recovery, and I know that your selflessness and generosity has earned you an unfathomable amount of good karma and blessings.

If anyone's got this, you do.

Me: BH 47
Her: WW 46
DDay 8/3/15
"Every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things or make them unimportant.” - The Doctor

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:12 AM on Monday, August 1st, 2016

Thinking of you, DS.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 6:13 PM, July 31st, 2016 (Sunday)]

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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 Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 12:53 AM on Monday, August 1st, 2016

You all are so awesome!!! I'm amazed at the love and time spent by you all on here...thank you so much!

I had my 1st treatment of my second round ( ) of chemo a week ago this past Friday. I have a private room with a nice view, MH has plenty of room to set up his laptop to work or entertain me and I have a private nurse that does all my vitals and administers all the drugs and fluids for my treatments. Overall...I couldn't ask for a better setting and care...I'm very lucky for sure!!

I was fine until Tuesday...I got sick for the first time and that ended up lasting for most of the evening. I called into work on Wednesday morning...I tried but after just walking down the hallway at home at 5:00am...I knew there was no way I would make it through the day at work. So, I stayed in bed and relaxed all day, which was AWESOME!!!!! Although I have ZERO idea how anyone can watch daytime TV and either not become a total imbecile or turn into a vegetable. God, what total trash on wonder so many women are lost in our country

On Thursday and Friday I was sick again...just one time and then I was fine. Went on my business at work. It's weird...getting sick is fast and done within a few minutes...there aren't any lingering feelings of nausea. At least for me that's how it's been. I have 2 anti-nausea medications but they cause constipation which I do NOT want to have happen again, so I'm waiting for the one anti-nausea medication that I know really works for me, I should be picking that up tomorrow

I started to lose my eyelashes today which was a grim reality of it all. I know I've based a lot of my posts about how I'll look...but until you're faced with changing physically, you just don't realize how much stock you put into who you are on a physical level.

Anyway...just thought I'd update and let you all know that I am so thankful for the continued support and love and have made this shit journey a whole lot easier to take Thank you very, very much!!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 1:56 AM on Monday, August 1st, 2016

I think of you often throughout my day, DS. Sending you much strength and prayers. Wishing you so much peace and serenity as you AK47 that shit. P.S. You are so beautiful, inside and out. I know that must be tough, believe me I understand, but your beauty will shine through, it can't help but burst through.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 7:59 PM, July 31st (Sunday)]

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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