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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:48 PM on Saturday, October 2nd, 2021
Not MH, but ... click the Members tab, 3rd choice down.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 7:21 PM on Saturday, October 2nd, 2021
I found that when I went to skins and put in CNN I got a much clearer picture. And I advanced a little bit on the size and now I have a very readable screen on my iPad.
Are older posts archived buy the poster or by the new site?
[This message edited by Cooley2here at 7:21 PM, Saturday, October 2nd]
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
Sadismynewname ( member #63897) posted at 12:11 PM on Sunday, October 3rd, 2021
While I am reading a post it constantly is popping out of it and going back to the top of thread page. I am using an iPad.
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 12:15 PM on Monday, October 4th, 2021
Under members I can no longer find anyone’s name but mine. There are a couple of posters that I like to keep up with and I don’t know how to find them anymore
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 3:11 PM on Monday, October 4th, 2021
Same problem as yesterday. When I go to Google, the SI prompt is not there. I type in www.survivinginfidelity.com, hitthe enter button it won't connect or save that search I type it again and before hitting enter I hit the prompt
I recommend bookmarking the website and bypassing Google.
Would it be possible to sort archived/recent posts of a user by date? When I look at the posting history of myself or someone else, the listing can jump from one year to the next instead of being in chronological order.
I will look into this. It is currently ordering by topic activity so I see how that can be confusing.
Along the lines of what FF is saying, the old site (or probably Simplicity) allowed a listing of a user's posts. Now, the list is only the thread, so you have to open and scroll an entire thread to see a particular post....
If you click view instead of clicking the topic title it will display a list of all the current members' posts, allowing you to click to go directly to the specific message inline.
I appreciate the need to revamp the entire site, and am grateful for the work to keep it going.... and I REALLY miss simplicity that provided all the info/text in a straightforward way w/o fancy colors and w/o a ton of space between any individual thing (guess I'm not much of a scroller :) )
SImplicity is still available for premium members. What is preventing you from using it now?
Could you please tell me how to search for a member. Can't seem to find it with the new for. Thanks for the help.
Use the search users link in your profile.
Are older posts archived buy the poster or by the new site?
Older posts are archived by the website automatically when they hit page 26.
Under members I can no longer find anyone’s name but mine. There are a couple of posters that I like to keep up with and I don’t know how to find them anymore
Use the search users link in your profile.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 3:31 PM on Monday, October 4th, 2021
Use the search users link in your profile.
My profile does not show a "search Icon" (looks like a magnifying glass) -
Removed from "members" subheading/link?
does the search members function now require upgrade?
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There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 8:13 PM on Monday, October 4th, 2021
does the search members function now require upgrade?
It should not require an upgrade, but it will require a bug fix. This will be fixed in the next update.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
gr8ful ( member #58180) posted at 10:27 PM on Monday, October 4th, 2021
While I am reading a post it constantly is popping out of it and going back to the top of thread page. I am using an iPad.
Yes! A bit maddening but I can’t tell if that’s due to iOS or something specific to SI
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 10:14 PM on Tuesday, October 5th, 2021
MH -
1. viewing posts. At first I couldn't find that eye icon, but when I did... it was like Christmas!!! Thank you soooo much.
2. As to Simplicity, I don't think I can post a photo (I use Imgur and it stopped working with the upgrade - but we'll see).

If the image doesn't work, the screen has the SI heart logo, and text reads:
Okay... nobody panic. It's just a 404.
At some point there was something here, but now it's gone.
We will get someone to take a look and see what might have happened to it. If you happen to find it before we do, let us know
Then in a gray box, reads: Error 404: RESOURCE NOT FOUND
ETA: WOOOO HOOO! Got my photo to work
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M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 8:48 PM on Wednesday, October 6th, 2021
MH - I'm guessing you figured out the Simplicity issue, as today it magically reappeared.
So - THANK YOU for another early Xmas gift!
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 7:16 PM on Friday, October 8th, 2021
Still not able to locate other members. I see no magnifying glass or anything to steer me to how to find them. Ipad
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 8:08 PM on Friday, October 8th, 2021
I just published an update. Please check your profile again.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 5:00 AM on Saturday, October 9th, 2021
Thanks, MH. Have a great weekend and stay safe.
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 8:55 PM on Saturday, October 9th, 2021
YAY! search members has magically re-appeared!!!
Thank You MH
There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."
GoldenR ( member #54778) posted at 8:42 AM on Tuesday, October 19th, 2021
When I look at recent posts, it says I posted in a thread on 10/19.
I did not. I posted in it several days ago. I did visit the thread today. Does that change the date on my recent post listing?
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 4:01 PM on Tuesday, October 19th, 2021
When I look at recent posts, it says I posted in a thread on 10/19.
I did not. I posted in it several days ago. I did visit the thread today. Does that change the date on my recent post listing?
The dates on the recent posts listings indicate the last activity on the corresponding topic.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
GoldenR ( member #54778) posted at 11:52 PM on Tuesday, October 19th, 2021
Got it!
Thanks for the clarification!
OneInTheSame ( member #49854) posted at 10:13 AM on Monday, October 25th, 2021
Does anyone else get tired of scrolling long posts because the paragraphs are so narrow? (I miss the way the old site worked, was easier to read, and easier to follow and find topics with the categories.) I use my iPhone, and didn’t have these issues before the change.
Also, I constantly get a "The web page is not available" message. Sometimes I can’t get through a long response before this message pops up, and I have to reload and start over.
(I edit to correct typos)
I am the BS in a lesbian marriage. My WW's ex-girlfriend was the AP.
D-day of the 6 mo A was 10/04/15
We are doing okay, but by now I wanted it to be better
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 10:28 AM on Tuesday, October 26th, 2021
I have legacy open in Chrome and the new site open in Safari.
Now in Chrome im getting booted out of the legacy site when in my private messages.
I find legacy easier to use especially for PMs so thats frustrating. Aldo use legacy to do SPF becauze i couldn't get photos to post in the new site.
Question about new site. Is the Big T and Little t at the top supposed to change the size of the text? It doesnt change anything on my phone in mobile or desktop versions in Safari.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Stevesn ( member #58312) posted at 3:45 PM on Friday, October 29th, 2021
Hi MH
I used to be able to send PMs to new members even if they couldn’t send to me until they had 50 posts.
I tried sending a PM to someone with only 10 posts and it’s greyed out.
Is that working as designed or should I be able to send a PM to a new member like the old site allowed.
fBBF. Just before proposing, broke it off after her 2nd confirmed PA in 2 yrs. 9 mo later I met the wonderful woman I have spent the next 30 years with.
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