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arguing? or PItW?

A story that's food for thought.
Anthony R Mack Jr.
The donkey told the tiger, "The grass is blue."
The tiger replied, "No, the grass is green ."
The discussion became heated, and the two decided to submit the issue to arbitration, so they approached the lion.
As they approached the lion on his throne, the donkey started screaming: ′′Your Highness, isn't it true that the grass is blue?"
The lion replied: "If you believe it is true, the grass is blue."
The donkey rushed forward and continued: ′′The tiger disagrees with me, contradicts me and annoys me. Please punish him."
The king then declared: ′′The tiger will be punished with 3 days of silence."
The donkey jumped with joy and went on his way, content and repeating ′′The grass is blue, the grass is blue..."
The tiger asked the lion, "Your Majesty, why have you punished me, after all, the grass is green?"
The lion replied, ′′You've known and seen the grass is green."
The tiger asked, ′′So why do you punish me?"
The lion replied, "That has nothing to do with the question of whether the grass is blue or green. The punishment is because it is degrading for a brave, intelligent creature like you to waste time arguing with an ass, and on top of that, you came and bothered me with that question just to validate something you already knew was true!"
The biggest waste of time is arguing with the fool and fanatic who doesn't care about truth or reality, but only the victory of his beliefs and illusions. Never waste time on discussions that make no sense. There are people who, for all the evidence presented to them, do not have the ability to understand. Others who are blinded by ego, hatred and resentment, and the only thing that they want is to be right even if they aren’t.
When IGNORANCE SCREAMS, intelligence moves on.


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2 comments posted: Thursday, September 16th, 2021

why to avoid marriage counseling

found on dearpeggy webpages -

"help-for-therapists" - it is a pdf

a paragraph from the doc:

Most people don’t get caught in their very first affair—any more than people get a speeding ticket the very first time they speed. Earlier I mentioned that a motto among people having affairs is: “Never Tell.” Well, the rest of that motto is: “If questioned, deny it. If caught, say as little as possible.” So most people only tell whatever they feel they have to tell, meaning whatever has already been exposed or whatever they think will eventually get exposed or can’t be avoided. Getting the “whole truth” is like peeling an onion, with each layer coming off very slowly. And, of course, sometimes the “whole truth” is never revealed.

For the betrayed - sound familiar?

It is worth the read - I think will help in figuring which way you should choose to continue or discontinue your relationship.

13 comments posted: Thursday, March 18th, 2021

question for ladies?

Ladies - whether you are WW or BS - how do you handle anger? (in relation to your familial strife)

26 comments posted: Tuesday, February 23rd, 2021

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