SurvivingInfidelity.com^®

#1, preserve your peace as much as possible. This sucks ass but it really isn't your problem. You can put this down and walk away from it. She can get a lawyer, she can contact websites, she can set this dude up or whatever. She. Her. You can focus on being kind to yourself after such a horrible trigger.

From your previous thread:

On the inconclusive answers - the readings were apparently a little off on 2 out of three iterations so they could't tell with a level a certainity that she's beeing truthful. Hence inconclusive.

You might remember her admiting sending him a selfies in her underwear, but I am pretty sure she sent him more revealing pictures. My biggest concern on this is that I don't want them to end up on the internet for a whole world to see. I have no doubt the creep would do that, either out of spite or as a trophy to share. She destroyed the burner phone and all the photos with it so it's impossible to do a reverse search. I asked her if she had her face in those pics and she said "in a few, yeah" so.. I bet he has many of them and it makes me sick.

You have clarity on why the poly was inconclusive now. If the threat of a poly didn’t get her to come clean you’d have spent the rest of your life trying to get the truth out of her about this, that, or another thing.

Also, your predictions were uncanny. Trust your gut.

Detach … not your problem any longer. Move on with a better life.

This is no longer your circus or monkey.

I am to report to active duty, so I don't know when I will come back. Thank you all for your advice but now it´s up to my ex to deal with it

Hope to see you soon

Mr.F

Stay safe.

I wish you the best.

Good luck Mr Fibble. Stay safe with the current situation in the Ukraine as it is. I wish you and you children well.

One can only assume your call up is Ukraine related. Stay safe.

Stay safe.

Stay safe, Mr F. You will be in my prayers.

Mr.F, do you mean active duty related to work or army? If you are from central Europe I assume you country is part of NATO hence the mobilisation. Please stay safe in this crazy time.

Our thoughts are with you and your kids and these troubled times.

Stay safe and good luck.

Stay safe. Hopefully, things won't further deteriorate in Europe.

Mr F, are you and your family safe?

We are doing good, thank you. I came back from rotation on Friday, tired as hell but other than than I am fine.

Photos are gone from the site, but that's all I know now

Mr Fibble, I think with Europe as it is right now, some light banter is called for. Here it is.

Yesterday marked the 30 year anniversary of the release of the ‘Quarantine’ episode of Red Dwarf, when Rimmer, in Little Beau Peep atire, introduced the ‘Mr Fibble’ puppet to the world. He was not happy.

Happy birthday Mr Fibble!

Back to reality. I hope your loved ones are safe and well.

[This message edited by straightup at 9:46 AM, Sunday, March 13th]

Thanks, I didn't know that. I actually have a plush toy of Mr. Flibble i got from a friend of mine few years back. It's sitting on a shelf in my office

Regarding the photos - as I said, they are gone from the site, the admin was apparently very understanding a deleted it right away, but won't provide any info unless ordered by police in case my ex decides to press charges. The only thing I know is that it was uploaded from mobile device so it looks like no luck there.

But still feel like breaking the jerk's jaw first chance i get

Hope you all are well

Glad you are back from deployment. And that it was resolved while you were gone.

Has your Ex tried to talk to you about it?

Yes, we met yesterday. She asked if she should press charges and I told her it's up to her. I probably would, but I doubt anything would ever come out of it. That was basically it.