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Walkthestorm ( member #72157) posted at 10:49 PM on Sunday, March 20th, 2022

Glad to hear you and your family are safe. These are crazy times. Also good to hear that the issue with the pictures is resolved. What a nightmare to deal with and serves as a lesson to everyone who sends intimate pictures to someone else. Once you press send it is out of your control what the person on the recieving end does with them. It's definetly something we all need to teach our kids once they are of age.

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 MrFlibble (original poster member #76085) posted at 8:49 PM on Friday, March 25th, 2022

My ex decided to NOT press charges. She had a consultation with a lawyer, who said it would be a very long shot with only a small chance of at least a half decent result. So I guess that's it

BS

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src9043 ( member #75367) posted at 8:58 PM on Friday, March 25th, 2022

Maybe your ex-wife could have a strongly worded letter sent to the POS from her attorney that states she suspects he posted intimate pictures of her, that she demands that he stop and that any further breaches of her privacy will result in referral of the matter to the authorities.

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nekonamida ( member #42956) posted at 12:40 AM on Saturday, March 26th, 2022

Would she be able to file a police report just to have it on record in case he does this to someone else?

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Dude67 ( member #75700) posted at 1:13 PM on Saturday, March 26th, 2022

Mr F. Have you detached or are you planning to detach from your ex wife?

I ask this because have you decided what type of relationship you have/plan to have with your ex moving forward? Is it simply a co parenting, no contact, relationship other than communication about the kids? Is it we’ll still be friends and do some joint things with the kids? Is it we can talk to each other about things in our separate lives now?

The reason I ask is that you’re divorced, yet your ex wife called you for assistance with the illicit posting issue. You helped her a bit to figure it out and you’re obviously still communicating about it. Is this a one off type of communication with her because it was A related, and has bearing on your kids?

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Walkthestorm ( member #72157) posted at 6:10 PM on Sunday, March 27th, 2022

I would tell your ex wife to at least make a police report. Many of these types of crime don't get reported unfortunetly and I think for at least statistical reasons it should be noted. Who knows, when politicians propose changing laws they tend to lean on statistical backup.

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 MrFlibble (original poster member #76085) posted at 8:48 PM on Saturday, April 2nd, 2022

We don't know the POS' adress or even where he lives, and as I said, the final decision was up to my ex. It was not my place anymore to push her. The only good thing is I now have these pictures so I can try running some reverse search here and there but I have no idea how good this works

Dude67 Our relationship, as it is right now, would take a lots of writing on my part to explain. But we are not 'a couple' in any way, shape or form. Good coparents, and I am detaching way better than she is

BS

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ramius ( member #44750) posted at 9:32 PM on Saturday, April 2nd, 2022

Good for you man. Better days ahead.

How many scars have you rationalized because you loved the person who was holding the knife?

Their actions reveal their intentions. Their words conceal them.

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grubs ( member #77165) posted at 9:46 PM on Saturday, April 2nd, 2022

The only good thing is I now have these pictures so I can try running some reverse search here and there but I have no idea how good this works

For places where these are likely going to be posted not very well. I doubt most reverse image search engines spend much time crawling free porn sites.

But we are not 'a couple' in any way, shape or form. Good coparents, and I am detaching way better than she is

IMO, She's not going to detach much in any way unless she starts dating. Even then I suspect she's going to pine for you and dream about R. Glad to see you safe.

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 MrFlibble (original poster member #76085) posted at 2:21 AM on Thursday, April 7th, 2022

For places where these are likely going to be posted not very well. I doubt most reverse image search engines spend much time crawling free porn sites.


That's what I thought but I will try anyway. Plus I know there were much more pictures than that but I try to not be bothered by this.

IMO, She's not going to detach much in any way unless she starts dating. Even then I suspect she's going to pine for you and dream about R. Glad to see you safe.


That's exactly what my SIL told me yesterday. I believe her words were that "this" is far from closed chapter for my ex. It's exhausting since my mom seems to be at least partialy responsible.

BS

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grubs ( member #77165) posted at 3:28 AM on Thursday, April 7th, 2022

It's exhausting since my mom seems to be at least partially responsible.

Lol. I can imagine. Your mom knows and likes your exW. She wasn't the one betrayed though. Keep walking your path. Who knows where it will lead but you are the only one that gets to choose which branches you travel.

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MickeyBill2016 ( member #56459) posted at 4:49 AM on Thursday, April 7th, 2022

For places where these are likely going to be posted not very well. I doubt most reverse image search engines spend much time crawling free porn sites.
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That's what I thought but I will try anyway. Plus I know there were much more pictures than that but I try to not be bothered by this.

The images are turned into numbers, if it's a match, it's a match. Porn sites are probably in their search engine along with everything else.(There are billions of photos out there, not that it makes it better...)

9 years married.
13 years divorced.

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Gladimout ( new member #79215) posted at 12:36 PM on Friday, May 6th, 2022

How are you Mr. F. ?

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 MrFlibble (original poster member #76085) posted at 12:03 AM on Monday, May 9th, 2022

I'm good, thanks for asking. I am kind of avoiding this place, hence no updates from me. Sorry? laugh

BS

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