Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 8:14 PM on Saturday, May 7th, 2022
It鈥檚 not Thursday but I find that I have time to tell this story. So last weekend we canceled the camping trip but decided to go to the lake for the day, have lunch, and swim in the swimming area. It鈥檚 a Texas State Park and has a very nice sand beach swim area.
When we take our Son anywhere we have to consider and plan for many scenarios. It鈥檚 almost like we need an advance team to go and clear any distractions out of the way.
We were having a great time at the lake he took to the water very well and we enjoyed how much fun he was having. Then I saw it, a bright shiny naked ass pop out of the water 馃槷yes he took his swim suit off. I鈥檓 yelling for my W to come help me find it at the bottom of a murky lake, but it was gone. Now I鈥檓 trying to figure out how to get this skinny dipping teen out of the water in a crowded beach and to a place to get him dressed. My W is a genius, she took his shirt off and put is feet through the arms, he was able to walk out with a shirt on upside down and no one noticed. Needless to say that was an ender, we packed up and went home.
The lesson here is now to pack extra shorts and to watch what鈥檚 going on under the water, in the future. Can you imagine how confused the person will be that finds the swim suit?馃ぃ
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH 55 WW 48 M 31 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids
Want2BHappyAgain (original poster member #45088) posted at 4:58 AM on Tuesday, May 10th, 2022
OMG Tanner
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I am so THANKFUL I got to read this today
!!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Want2BHappyAgain (original poster member #45088) posted at 5:04 PM on Thursday, May 12th, 2022
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 5:08 PM on Thursday, May 12th, 2022
I am so grateful it is the month of May! Had a beautiful run through the park with my dog this morning, enjoying trampoline time with kids and walks with hubby. Loving eating outside and hosting friend on our patio. Thankful too that our M is stabilizing (still ups and downs) but making progress.
Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 12:35 AM on Friday, May 13th, 2022
I鈥檓 thankful for the great weather and watching the NBA and NHL playoffs outside in the evenings. My neighbors come and hang out with us.
Glad to be closing out another week, it鈥檚 been a doozy, our water heater broke and will be next week before we get it replaced. Cold showers are exhilarating!!!!
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH 55 WW 48 M 31 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 12:51 AM on Friday, May 13th, 2022
Since I鈥檝e been absent from this thread for far too long (and because I got in trouble馃槀) I figure I needed to post.
Work has been a real struggle as of late but I am so thankful for my wife and child. I am truly blessed to have them both in my life.
I鈥檓 so thankful for the weather as it has allowed me to go on some amazing bike rides. It鈥檚 been a bit of a struggle hauling my old carcass about but my overall time has not suffered.
Lastly, I recently changed sports clubs. The guy at my old place turned out to be something other than he claimed. The new place has been much more welcoming and it鈥檚 definitely a nice change.
outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 3:36 AM on Friday, May 13th, 2022
It's lilac season here and they are just the most amazing smelling flowers.
I'm grateful I got to stop and smell the lilacs three times today.
Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling
StrugglingCJ ( member #72778) posted at 9:55 AM on Friday, May 13th, 2022
Little bit late to this, but I am thankful that I survived my heart attack and am able to get back into the gym once again (not lifting what I used to but at least working out some). I am grateful for having my 4 kids around me alot of the time, even if they can drive me crazy. I am grateful for working for a company that values its employees enough that I have been under no pressure to return to the office since my heart attack. And finally I am grateful for my wife for finally starting to understand the road ahead of us.
WW caught in EA May 17
DDay Mar 19 it was full PA
Struggling for R, but still trying.
Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 11:55 PM on Thursday, May 19th, 2022
Closing out another week, had a great discussion with my W last night. We aired some grievances and hashed out some things that, not communicated, will fester and cause more problems. We both felt better getting some things on the table, like I have told her communication is healthy for the M even if it鈥檚 not all sunshine and roses. But it鈥檚 made for a great day today.
If any of you read the story of my skinny dipping Son, we found his bathing suit in the lake Sunday, two weeks later!! 馃榾
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH 55 WW 48 M 31 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids
This0is0Fine ( member #72277) posted at 12:12 AM on Friday, May 20th, 2022
Thankful my family and I survived COVID the last nine days. It was shockingly rough considering it's omicron/breakthrough on vaxxed and boosted.
Also thankful for the changing seasons. I love it when the rain starts to slow down!
Love is not a measure of capacity for pain you are willing to endure for your partner.
Want2BHappyAgain (original poster member #45088) posted at 1:25 AM on Friday, May 20th, 2022
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee