Newest Member: Malbriscoe


Me: BW 40 on DDAY
Him: WH 40 on DDAY (FlawedBroken)
Together over half our lives.
D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020

Anyone been to the Kentucky Derby?

I have always wanted to go to the Kentucky Derby. If you've been or if you have any advice/guidance on how to get tickets, I would love to hear from you. I've been looking online and keep finding packages with prices around 2k per ticket. I want to know what to expect so I don't get in over my head unnecessarily. :)

1 comment posted: Monday, February 6th, 2023

Cracked Diamond

I love the combined wisdom here. I'm hoping someone has some experience.

My great-grandmother had a diamond ring. This is an old mine-cut diamond. My grandmother got it in the late 1950s, and when she passed in 1998, it was given to my dad. My stepmom wore it for many years and recently it was given to me. In the back of my mind, I always wanted this ring, but never actually thought I'd get it. Unfortunately, the ring is too small for me. When I took it to a jewelry store, it was appraised and the diamond has a large crack in it. Because of the crack, the jewelry store wouldn't size it and recommended against having it sized or even wearing it at all because the diamond could break.

This is so disappointing. Does anyone know if it's worth finding other jewelers and having them check the ring/work on it, or should I just stick the ring away in my jewelry box and disappoint one of my nieces someday by passing on this unwearable ring?

[This message edited by SadieMae at 4:55 PM, December 19th, 2022 (Monday)]

4 comments posted: Monday, December 19th, 2022

"Thank you" for telling me the truth

Just a little vent... Sometimes it's absolutely ridiculous to me to say "thank you" to him for finally telling me the truth about stupid crap he should have just admitted to me years and years ago.

And he wonders why my trust for him is so f'ing broken. If he had humbled himself years ago and just been honest with me, we would be in such a better place now.

But I say "thank you" hoping he'll be comfortable to stop lying/covering his ass.

I've given up on empathy from him and I remind myself that "if he wanted to know, he'd ask" when it comes to my feelings.

2 comments posted: Wednesday, December 7th, 2022

Email Address Lookup?

Can someone look up an email address for me?

1 comment posted: Monday, October 19th, 2020

How to send an Anonymous email?

Any tips or ideas on how to send an anonymous email? I don't want it to be trackable to me or my location.

5 comments posted: Friday, August 11th, 2017

Help finding an email

Can anyone offer help finding an email address?

I know the person's Facebook page, I know where they work, if that helps.


0 comment posted: Thursday, January 21st, 2016

Who Moved My Cheese

I was wondering if anyone else has read this book. If so, how did you apply the lesson to R? I can certainly see how it could apply to S/D.

If you haven't read it, it's a quick read about being open to changes in life.

8 comments posted: Tuesday, January 19th, 2016

Hidden Apps

Is there a way to get an android phone (or an iPhone, WH has both) to show any hidden apps that are installed?

6 comments posted: Wednesday, June 24th, 2015

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