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looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 5:09 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
Together 56 years, Married 51 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 6:07 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
Congratulations, that's awesome!!
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
ZenMumWalking ( Guide #25341) posted at 7:07 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
High five lf!! 
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
The only person you can change is yourself.
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 8:52 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
Congratulations! One day at a time!
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 9:04 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
newlife03 ( member #56527) posted at 10:12 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
Me - 50
Kids 25, 22, 18
1st DDay in 2006, 2nd in 2007
D in 2009
Happily Committed to SO since 2011
3kids30years ( member #38879) posted at 10:14 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
Way to go!!! That is awesome
BW - 52 on Dday
WH - 53 on Dday
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm 2+ year EA/PA
TT until 2016 - why do they do that?
Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2020
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:04 AM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
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Amazing accomplishment !!!!
smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 3:14 AM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 4:55 PM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 6:18 PM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
You are amazing!! Congratulations!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
allusions ( member #25376) posted at 7:00 PM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
You can apologize over and over, but if your actions don't change, your words become meaningless.
Behind every crazy bitch is a sweet girl who just got tired of being lied to.
I've found the key to happiness: Stay away from assholes.
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 7:05 PM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
Congratulations.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 8:35 PM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
Congratulations!!! That is a huge accomplishment!!!
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 8:50 PM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
Congratulations. Beautiful picture!!
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:57 PM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2020
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
foxglove ( member #21791) posted at 12:41 AM on Wednesday, April 29th, 2020
Me (BS) 57
XH (WS)
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two grown sons
Remarried 9/18
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:05 AM on Wednesday, April 29th, 2020
Congratulations, my dear friend. It is a joy and contentment that can’t be imagined until it is experienced. I am proud and happy for you. ❤️❤️
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
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