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SI Prayers/Mojo Request...Cancer


ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:31 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

annanew - DS is at a top-rated cancer specialty facility, the doctors there (and I know several of them personally) are at the top of their game.

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 6:44 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Please feel free to PM me for anything you need. Like my hair, my blood, my cells, my bones, my nerves, and any organs of your choosing. Please, if I'm a match, take what you need. You helped me get my heart back. Anything I have is yours.

I work for a co-hospital of MD Anderson, and omg, you are in amazing care.

The power of prayer helped my mom beat breast cancer, and I'm gonna send as many Angels as I can find to help you guys and guide you.

My mom and I already prayed, and you'll have some munchkins praying for you tonight.


xBW~ 40
Two DS~ 15 and 11

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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 6:51 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

much love to you dear DS

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

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annanew ( member #43693) posted at 6:58 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

DS is at a top-rated cancer specialty facility, the doctors there (and I know several of them personally) are at the top of their game

Yep, same for my friend. Top experts at Stanford and in SF. The problem is the doctors (especially the top rated ones) just don't have the time to track all available studies. There are too many.

I was not saying she's not in the best care, just to do a bit of her own research into trials.

Single mom to a sweet girl.

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abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 7:35 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Hugs and prayers for you and MH.

I hope you find a trial match and it's successful for you! ((((((((((((DS AND MH))))))))))))


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Didact ( member #42867) posted at 7:56 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

All my thoughts are with both of you. I hope the search for the drugs turns up a perfect and effective match.

No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.

BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R

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looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 8:13 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Adding my prayers.


[This message edited by looking forward at 2:14 PM, October 3rd (Monday)]

Together 53+ years, Married 49 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Thinking of you DS and MH and praying that you're accepted into the study. So many of us are sending positive thoughts and love your way. <3 XOXO

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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1492 ( member #44831) posted at 8:29 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Sending you prayers and hugs DS!

Dday June 2012
BW age 63 on d day
WH age 64 on d day
2020 it’s been a long road

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 8:45 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Love, hope, prayers, comfort, healing, MOJO - sending it all your way....LOVE YOU GUYS!!! (((DS&MH)))


Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 8:59 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

(((DS and MH)))

Since things are relatively calm here right now, I have TONS of prayers and MOJO to send your way!

You have got it all, sweet lady!

My friend has been in more than one trial, and he is still here, kicking! His docs (at the UW) have told him for years that they have no idea how he is doing it, but to keep it up. It's easy, prayers, faith, mojo, and people who love him, and YOU!

Since we're casting our votes, I go for #1!!!

Me: BS
Him: WH
Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen

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risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 9:02 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Sending prayers, mojo and a blanket of white light!!!

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BrokenheartedWif ( member #40955) posted at 9:04 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Praying for you DS and MH and your family.

He claims he loved me the whole time of his LTA. I'm not sure I'll survive his kind of love. Whorena The Cumdumpster pretended to be my friend the entire time as well. I'll take an enemy any day of the week.

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MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 9:30 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2016

Sending all the prayers and mojo I can and then some. (((DS and MH)))

"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” - Steve Maraboli

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Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 12:12 AM on Tuesday, October 4th, 2016

(((DS and MH)))

I'm so sorry that this is happening but I know that this is nothing for you.

You have an enourmous heart. You are so brave and a wonderful human being.

I am praying for you and sending you lots of angels too.

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, October 4th, 2016

Sending love, encouragement, and prayers....

(((DS))) (((MH)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:09 AM on Tuesday, October 4th, 2016

DS, I'll be saying a prayer to the "Patron Saint of SI" for you, you wonderful woman . With all my heart. Besides, we aren't done turning that pool blue yet.

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 2:10 AM on Tuesday, October 4th, 2016

Sending healing light love, hope, and prayers.

Love you both so very much.

huge hugs,


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

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HappilyUnMarried ( member #21299) posted at 2:33 AM on Tuesday, October 4th, 2016

DS, haven't been on this site for ages, but I want to send you my thoughts and prayers that you will be a fit for the trial and beat this Motherfucker!

True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.  Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy

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BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 2:35 AM on Tuesday, October 4th, 2016

Asking everyone I know to pray.

You are in my thoughts daily, DS.

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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