tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 7:42 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Thinking of you today and praying for good news.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 7:54 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Thinking of you and sending prayers all day! Stay positive & hopeful. That makes so much of a difference.
You are surrounded by love - here, at home and I'm sure in your community. Embrace it. We are all here for you, though feeling helpless that we can't just make this go away for you.
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 8:07 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
checking in to see how today went. much love x
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 8:24 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Good news from DS that she asked me to share:
MD Anderson has found a match for me in a phase II trial. We still have criteria to meet to be accepted. I have to have another blood transfusion on the 12th to raise my hemoglobin level. If the labs are good after the transfusion I start the trial on the 14th!!!!
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 8:29 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
OMG! The best news EVER!
Keeping the mojo and prayers coming, DS.
AK-47 that shit!
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 8:35 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Hopeful that your labs improve enough to qualify for the trial! Continued prayers!
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 8:35 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 8:38 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 8:40 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
I've been impatiently waiting for this all day. Faith restored in the world! Best news for sure! I am so very happy I'm crying tears of joy!!! You will beat this! Prayers and mojo and massively huge hugs from up here for you and MH! I wish I could give them IRL.
Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 8:44 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Thank you Jesus (and MD Anderson)!!?,Happy tears of praise here.
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 9:01 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
That's wonderful they have something here in The States for you DS. Continued strength and prayers headed your way.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:04 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Keep on AK47'ing that shit and FUCK CANCER!!!!
((((DS & MH))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 9:08 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 9:17 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Yes!!!! I'm so happy. This is wonderful news.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
annanew ( member #43693) posted at 9:18 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Sounds positive, and I particularly like how quickly it might happen! Will be thinking of you on the 12th-14th, hope your labs are stellar.
Single mom to a sweet girl.
atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 9:28 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Oh wow...this great news!
"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66
cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:38 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Fantastic news - sending everything I've got that you meet the criteria. Stay strong and determined dear DS
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 9:46 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Typing this through eyes wet with happy, so please forgive ant typos!
The magical SI MOJO you created will perform another miracle and prepare you for the trial that will AK47 that shit. With so many people sending so many prayers, Mojo and positive thoughts to you, it can't survive. Here's where all the good the two of you have sent out into the world comes back to you! Your own positive attitude and determination play a big part too.
(((((((DS & MH))))))) I hope they also take away your pain.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 10:11 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
omg! Happy dance! Happy tears!
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:14 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2016
Still sending mojo and prayers....
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.