Random thoughts ( member #2959) posted at 10:23 PM on Wednesday, December 28th, 2016
Just heard about DS passing and I'm so sorry for your lost MH....
Those three words are said too much and not enough.Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.FWW
HardyRose ( member #55069) posted at 2:46 AM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
So sorry for your loss MH and the SI family.
Abby ( member #5526) posted at 4:52 AM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss, MH. DS was always there for me with wise words and a kind heart. May she rest in peace. Much love.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 5:31 AM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
(((MH)))
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. I will always remember DS from the various g2gs that we attended together. I will always remember her for her giving and helping to those on this site as well as her smile and laughter that we shared over stories.
[This message edited by MovingUpward at 11:36 PM, December 28th (Wednesday)]
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 2:31 PM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
....from my post on page 59 of this thread
For God will give His angels
Charge over You,
to Keep You
in all His Ways.
~ Psalm 91:11
Together 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
hardtimesinlife ( member #10468) posted at 2:34 PM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
I just learned of this. I am so deeply sorry for your loss, MH. I am so sad and yet so grateful, two emotions that are at war with one another. She fought hard, her battle and our battles. She was there for us all. I'm so sorry 
Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 4:17 PM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
Oh Mangled Heart I am so so very sorry for your loss and the loss of a great woman who helped 1000s of people. Bless you.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
timetraveler ( new member #40714) posted at 7:37 PM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. Snuggle the little furry guy and feel the support from all of us here.
Keeping you in my prayers.
BW-49
WH-52
M-27, 2 great kids 20's
DD#1 1/10
DD#2 8/13, same COW
When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard & steep. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you.
Kahlil Gibran
ChewedMeUp ( member #8008) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
I've spent the last week mostly offline, so I'm just now seeing this. I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.
BS - over 40
DivorcED, finally.
2 Kids
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 8:48 PM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
Thinking of you today MH. Wen the time comes that you can read these tributes, I hope the love just washes over you and carries you on the days when it seems like too much. I lurked for several years and then posted for the past 8. Reading these is a like a time machine of members who have come before and such a testament to the community, the family you and DS built. We all miss her so much and love both of you and yet we can't begin to touch the love you two shared and how much you grieve. But know that we are here, any time, any day, in any way that you need us. We hold you up in our hearts, in our prayers and in any way you need. ((((MH)))))
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 10:47 PM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
I just got back from vacation and read this. I am in complete shock. I am so very sorry MH. I never met DS but will always be grateful for her and you for giving me a lifeline when no one else would or could. My deepest sympathies. My heart is sad but I know DS is flying higher than ever before.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
tryingmybest2011 ( member #32584) posted at 3:13 AM on Friday, December 30th, 2016
So very sorry to hear about DS's passing. My thoughts are with you and your loved ones, MH.
BS: me - 42
WH: him - 42
DD: 12
DD: 5
Married over 12 years, together for 21.
DD#1: 12/12/10 - LTA of 3 years, 2 mos.
DD#2: 02/02/11 - 2 EA/PA with coworkers, a month after the LTA was ended (by OW).
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:05 AM on Friday, December 30th, 2016
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Shero ( member #44041) posted at 4:31 AM on Friday, December 30th, 2016
SweetheartVixen ( member #4956) posted at 9:53 PM on Friday, December 30th, 2016
MH, I am so so sorry. I really had hope that DS would beat this. There are no words. All of the posters have spoken such wonderful sentiments and I agree with each and every one of them.
May all of the cherished memories be a comfort to you in the difficult days ahead. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers...
[This message edited by SweetheartVixen at 3:56 PM, December 30th (Friday)]
BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...
DD 6-14
mike19446 ( member #185) posted at 12:39 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss MH. Her memory lives on in the people you two helped survive, me included.
Mike
SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 12:53 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2016
I just now learned of her passing. I am so very sorry for your loss, MH!! She was a light onto the world, and the two of you have helped so very many of us!
In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14
Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 1:22 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2016
Ditto Gonnabe2016
[This message edited by Kodi at 7:23 PM, December 30th (Friday)]
philly172 ( member #19024) posted at 1:24 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2016
so so sorry .. no other words are fitting.. RIP strong lady
"Sorry" works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes, but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting & trusting again is sometimes impossible
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 4:55 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2016
MH, I am so sorry for your loss. She was an amazing lady and I'm glad I had the good fortune to meet her when I did. My prayers will be with you. Please let us know if there's anything this community can do to give back.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
