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amanda123 ( member #43207) posted at 8:56 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

MH I am so sorry for you and your family's loss.

DS will be greatly missed, she leaves behind so many that will remember her and what she has done for them. I will keep you all in my prayers.

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jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 8:58 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I am so sorry, MH. There are no words.

2 boys
Married almost 30yrs.

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day(s): Enough
Accepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14

posts: 4031   ·   registered: Feb. 21st, 2010   ·   location: northeast
id 7738799

PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 8:58 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

No words can ever be expressed to take away the pain of your loss MH. Your in my prayers.

DS, I will remember grace and kindness.

BS Fwh

posts: 3131   ·   registered: Nov. 28th, 2011
id 7738800

TrustNoOne ( member #16591) posted at 9:00 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

posts: 1373   ·   registered: Oct. 12th, 2007   ·   location: San Diego
id 7738802

lovinlife ( member #17863) posted at 9:02 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I just saw this today.

I am so very sorry but from reading your post it sounds like she left behind her strength and all her love!!

Massive hugs to you! Stay strong.

Sending thoughts and prayers your way!

Together more than half our lives.

I am woman, hear me ROAR!!
What you accept, you teach!

Me 53, WS 54
Reconciled for life!
DD 24, DS 27

posts: 1164   ·   registered: Jan. 23rd, 2008   ·   location: Missouri
id 7738803

HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 9:09 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I can't find words.

I'm so sorry, MH. Thank you from the very deepest part of my soul for what y'all did for all of us.

Me, 54
Him, 45 (JMSSC)
Married 24 years. Reconciled.

posts: 4714   ·   registered: Sep. 12th, 2011   ·   location: South Carolina
id 7738809

sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 9:17 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

This lovely woman from Texas, who was quite simple in many ways....had a heart of gold. She touched and changed so many lives she never even knew....How powerful and beautiful acts of kindness can be.....from a "virtual" stranger...

RIP dear friend. ❤️

*I survived Infidelity*

posts: 8400   ·   registered: Aug. 19th, 2003   ·   location: Iowa
id 7738818

Candyman66 ( member #52535) posted at 9:25 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. You both loved each other that much has always been apparent. My heart breaks for you.

posts: 1263   ·   registered: Mar. 31st, 2016   ·   location: SoCal
id 7738822

AppleGirl ( member #50791) posted at 9:29 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. Like so many others, I am truly grateful for you both for this life-saving site. Sending up prayers for comfort and peace.


BS me -50+, fWH - 50+
DDay fall 2015, Reconciling one day at a time
"You express the truth of your character with the choice of your actions" - unknown
"Everyone deserves the chance to fly..."

posts: 197   ·   registered: Dec. 13th, 2015
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Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 9:38 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I'm very sorry for your loss.

WS - remarried to BH but not in R

D-day 2010

posts: 6356   ·   registered: Mar. 8th, 2010   ·   location: USA
id 7738833

UnlovedAndBroked ( member #47870) posted at 9:41 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Got together with jjct this afternoon and toasted our friend.

DS was genuinely good people, one of the most caring hearts I know. How incredibly fitting, the timing of her passing. More than anything, I celebrate that she suffers no more and pray for the you, MH, and the other loved ones she leaves behind.

Sleep well, DS. May angels lead you in as you are missed here.

"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk

posts: 764   ·   registered: May. 13th, 2015   ·   location: Fort Worth, TX
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Sapphire ( member #22517) posted at 9:47 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016


My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

You and DS saved so many of us as we struggled. What a legacy she leaves behind! Although I had never met her, I knew her to be a kind, loving, thoughtful woman through all of her posts.

She will be missed greatly by everyone at SI

Me- BS 49
Him- WH 51
D Day 3/08
Divorced 10/10

posts: 497   ·   registered: Jan. 20th, 2009
id 7738839

meaniemouse ( member #10798) posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016


I am so sorry for your loss. DS was a special light in this world. May she rest in peace and may every wonderful thing she was bring comfort to you now.

Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

posts: 2278   ·   registered: May. 24th, 2006   ·   location: Midwest
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gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

The world is a colder and darker place without DS in it. It doesn't seem possible that she is gone.

What a beautiful legacy of love, trust and hope she has left behind. We are all here, because of her. We are stronger, smarter, and braver, because of her. I consider myself extremely lucky to have been able to meet her in person, and feel the tightness of her hug and the warmth of her spirit. She inspired me daily, and I will never forget her.

MH, I'm so sorry. ((((((MH)))))))

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

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k8la ( member #38408) posted at 10:00 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Amazing husband and wife - example of all that is possible, have been through the long hard ordeal noted in this thread.

DS touched so many countless lives with her example of renewal, amends, compassion and recommitment; and MH, through your example right with her.

Thank you for your love; for each other, and for us on this rough road.

((((MH)))) May you know peace and comfort as many hearts lift you up in their thoughts and prayers.

My gratitude for you both, and sorrow for your loss.


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id 7738848

Chicky ( member #18622) posted at 10:01 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

You have my deepest most sincere condolences MH. This world has lost someone truly special. Fly with the angels DS.

Givers need to set limits because takers never do. THIS GIVER DID and because I stood my ground, we are happily RECONCILED!

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 10:12 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I just feel like a bucket of tears today that keeps tipping over. Vrazz and Crazz came to work today to hug me because I was a complete mess when I left. To have my beautiful, intact family come to me to offer love and emotional support is the gift that DS and MH have given me.

The loss is compounded when it's someone who you consider friend AND family, who knows you from every corner of your soul. The world will forever look and feel different. I will carry DS with me forever.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7738856

h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. She and you did so much good together.

posts: 3136   ·   registered: Sep. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: Baja Arizona
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GraceisGood ( member #17686) posted at 10:19 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016


We have a tendency to think the love offered us is a reflection of our worth and value.But in actuality,it's a reflection of the person that is giving it.We love out of who WE are-not because of who the receiver is.At least in terms of real love.TSMF

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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 10:44 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

(((((MH))))). I am so saddened to hear this. DS was a courageous woman fighting this. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

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