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Verdamnttauschen ( member #50884) posted at 9:43 AM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

I've been lurking here for some time and DS posts have been a great deal of help to me. RIP DS and MH and MH you are in my prayers.


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NoMercy ( member #54563) posted at 10:53 AM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

Oh my God I am so very sorry for your loss.

Bless you all and Godspeed to DS, Heaven's newest angel.

Don't cling to a mistake just because you took so long making it.

Some people aren't loyal to you - they are loyal to their NEED of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty...

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howcouldhe1 ( member #13210) posted at 11:27 AM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

Like many other old timers it's been a while since I was here but I had to post when I heard the news.

MH I am so so sorry for your loss. You and your darling DS gave me a safe place when I had nowhere else to turn, way back in 2006 and I will always be grateful to you both.

Rest in peace dear DS. You have made such a difference to so many lives.

Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

posts: 5489   ·   registered: Jan. 9th, 2007   ·   location: Kent UK
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clba317 ( member #8803) posted at 11:50 AM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

MH I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved DS. She touched so many lives and helped so many people deal with the unthinkable. Her legacy lives on here. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.

M 11, D 8/1/05- not soon enough!

posts: 226   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2005   ·   location: NY
id 7739236

nooneeverthought ( member #20157) posted at 12:15 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

As I was struggling a little lately I visited my safe place. I'm so sad to discover the end of the battle came so quickly for DS. I can feel her spirit in this community.

MH like so many said thank you for sharing each other with all of us. I know you already know you've literally saved thousands of people in despair. You and your wife done good.

I am deeply saddened for your loss

it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

posts: 8494   ·   registered: Jul. 8th, 2008
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WarehouseGuy ( member #6037) posted at 12:54 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

I just saw this--and I have no words.

Sending a brother hug and strength MH.


If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

posts: 7042   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2004   ·   location: Michigan
id 7739253

tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:09 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

Oh MH Words are never enough to express the sadness a person feels when a loved one leaves us.

Your wife was a beautiful person loved by all here. She fought like a prize fighter.

May memories of her healthy, happy and sassy help you through this time.

Sending lots of prayers your way.

Him: FWS
Kids: 22 & 25
Married for 30 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 19329   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 1:11 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

MH - I am so very sorry.

DS - fly high with the angels, you were indeed an angel on earth, so I know that Heaven will be overjoyed to have you among them.

Sending hugs and strength to you, MH, and your family as you go through this difficult time. You know where to find us if there is anything that you need.


Me-56 FWH-58 Married 38 years 9/2/2021 grown daughters-38&34 12yo GS,9yo GD & 7yo.GD (DD38) and 10yo GD & 5yo GD(DD34). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

posts: 8864   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2007
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TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 1:41 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

DS was an inspiration to us all and helped so many. I met her last year and her love for you (((MH))) was so evident to me. The mortal world lost a great person, but heaven gained an angel to continue to watch over us all. (((MH and family)))

XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"

posts: 10077   ·   registered: Aug. 30th, 2012   ·   location: Texas
id 7739274

Hurtm ( member #41102) posted at 2:17 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

So very sorry for your loss. RIP DS

Me: 36 and awesome (now 38)
Him: 37 and a douche (otherwise known as DB)

DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, together 14

DS 8, DD 5

Finally officially divorced after almost 4 years

posts: 104   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2013   ·   location: Ontario
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socold ( member #17400) posted at 2:21 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

So sorry for your loss MH. DS was such a wonderful person and you both have helped so many. My heart goes out to you and the entire SI community.

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 7739294

zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:23 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

MH I am so very sorry for your loss.

RIP beautiful DS

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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id 7739295

Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 2:33 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

No words... Just a heavy, heavy heart.

Love you DS & MH. Her legacy is immortal.

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 2:39 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

MH - I am so very sorry for your loss.

Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Bring it, life. I am ready for you.

posts: 5020   ·   registered: May. 17th, 2010
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risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 3:01 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016


So sorry for your loss.

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Tryingtobestrong ( member #48027) posted at 3:08 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

You have my deepest sympathy and prayers for peace and comfort. Both of you have helped me tremendously in the last year and a half through this nightmare - I hope all the blessings of this world and the next will descend on you and grant you everything you need to get through this.

Me:64-BW Him:61-WH
2 DDs, 32 & 35, M-37 years
DDay - 3-25-15

Reconciling, and most days now feel like we're getting there! Finally!

posts: 496   ·   registered: May. 27th, 2015   ·   location: Northern Indiana
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Imhere ( member #10349) posted at 3:17 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

Hi - Class of 2007 here. Haven't been on in a long time but I have many online friends due to this site.

MH, so very sorry to hear about your loss of DS. This site carried me for a long time through the most difficult time in my life. I always appreciated DS for her "words of reason" to me and to others. If there was conflict, she knew how to cool it down. If there was heartbreak, she found the words I needed to hear.

Thinking of you (and all of us, your online family) at this time.

"On and on you will hike, and I know you'll hike far, and face up to your problems whatever they are." - Dr. Suess

posts: 2053   ·   registered: Apr. 10th, 2006   ·   location: Ontario
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Bobbi_sue ( member #10347) posted at 3:23 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

So sorry to hear of this!


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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 3:36 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

My sincere and deepest condolences to you, MH. I have no words. You and DS saved me, saved our marriage. There are aren't words enough to describe my gratitude to you both. DS was a warrior and a hero. She will not be forgotten!

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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wishingitwasnt ( member #20380) posted at 3:40 PM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2016

I just learned of DS's passing. I'm sorry for your loss, MH.

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