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FaithFool ( Member #20150) posted at 8:06 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Sweet soul, no longer suffering. She was an amazing human being. What a legacy. (((MH)))

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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WhiteWolfWinning ( Member #12475) posted at 8:07 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

She was loved by so many.

She reached out to me more times than I can count, with such kindness and words of encouragement.

I do remember how she loved Christmas, her dogs, her SI family, and most of all, MH.

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens

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BrokenRoad ( Member #15334) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

MH,

The world won't be the same without her.

Until we see you again, I will be praying for you, your family, and all of us here.

She gave me hope when I didnt have any.

I hope we can all do that for each other now.

She will not be forgotten.

Whatever you need, WH5 and I will be here for you.

--BR

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

posts: 12591   ·   registered: Jul. 13th, 2007   ·   location: Midwest
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neverbeokay ( Member #8275) posted at 8:15 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

So sorry for your loss.

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unbreak_my_heart ( Member #12145) posted at 8:18 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

"Class" of 2006

I have no words that can truly express how sorry I am for the loss of this great person. If not for her and MH, I'm not sure where my marriage would be today.

MH, please know you are in the thoughts of many, sending you comforting mojo...

HAPPILY RECONCILED!

I ♥ my Husband!!!

posts: 2307   ·   registered: Sep. 26th, 2006   ·   location: Our happy place
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Questioningall ( Member #43959) posted at 8:18 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Me-BS 57
Him-WS 57 Sorrowfulmate
Married 30 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 3 ONS, 2 LTA

Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because no one ever has.

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tesla ( Member #34697) posted at 8:20 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

She was like the waves that break and crash on shore, a joy-filled tempest, reshaping and reforming seemingly unyielding rock.

So she broke on all of us, changing the course of lives.

I cannot think of a better legacy.

(((((((((MH))))))))))

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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mchercheur ( Member #37735) posted at 8:21 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

DS helped so many people.

She is truly an angel.

Sending you strength (((MH)))

Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
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Crescita ( Member #32616) posted at 8:25 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

My deepest condolences MH. She was such a remarkable person and helped so many people.

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

posts: 3640   ·   registered: Jun. 28th, 2011   ·   location: The Valley of the Sun
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lingerdog ( Member #24459) posted at 8:28 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Prayers for you MH. If not for the two of you creating this special space I don't know where I would have turned.

What lies behind us & what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
Oliver Wendell Holmes -Stolen from Uni's page

posts: 9024   ·   registered: Jun. 17th, 2009   ·   location: Awesomeville
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2frayedsouls ( Member #48177) posted at 8:29 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

So incredibly sorry for your loss MH. So thankful you had the opportunity to renew your vows. Prayers peace and comfort to you.

Me: BW 44
Him: WH 42
One son, one daughter

posts: 510   ·   registered: Jun. 9th, 2015   ·   location: Northeast US
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psychmom ( Member #47498) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

So very sad to read this today. My heartfelt condolences, MH. DS and you have given hope and a safe place to so many. I wish you peace in the coming year and thank you both for your courage and kindness.

BS (me); fWH (both 50+; married 20 yr at the time; 2 DD
DDay 1- 9/13/2014 (EA)- 3+ yrs
DDay 2- 10/24/2014(PA2)-July'14-Sept'14
DDay 3- 11/12/2014(PA1)-Oct-Feb '14
Reconciled

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foreverlabeled ( Member #52070) posted at 8:32 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

RIP DS

the few times she reached out to me, it was always in kindness and encouragement. She has obviously made such an impact on so many, and with so many it is indeed a great loss suffered, for the SI community and to you and yours MH. I hope you find peace and comfort in this time.

33 divorced Madhatter
Time is no ones friend, nor their enemy. It moves forward at its own fixed pace, careless of our wants to speed it or slow it.

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Lionne ( Member #25560) posted at 8:35 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I'm holding all of us in the LIGHT. What a sad loss...

Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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nutmegkitty ( Member #33882) posted at 8:38 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I am so, so sorry.

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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Mama_of_3_Kids ( Member #26651) posted at 8:38 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I am very sorry to hear, MH.

Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS16, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's

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Lovingmyselfmore ( Member #46119) posted at 8:43 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

My eyes are filled with tears. I can't believe this.

I felt like I knew her.

This planet is now missing one of her angels!

I'm praying today for you MH. I will never forget her.

Lots of us owe her sooo much.

The world won't be the same without her.

Until we see you again, I will be praying for you, your family, and all of us here.

She gave me hope when I didnt have any.

I hope we can all do that for each other now.

She will not be forgotten.

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

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sinsof thefather ( Member #29295) posted at 8:43 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I'm so very sad to hear this news. MH, what you and DS created here, together, has changed countless lives for the better. Her spirit will live on, both in you, and in this special place. DS is at peace and in the arms of the Lord now and I hope that you can eventually find some peace and acceptance as you come to terms with the loss of your incredible wife. She will be badly missed. (((MH)))

...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

posts: 2598   ·   registered: Aug. 11th, 2010   ·   location: UK
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Whalers11 ( Member #27544) posted at 8:45 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

My sincerest condolences to you, MH, and all who were close to her. What an unbelievable loss.

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little turtle ( Member #15584) posted at 8:52 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

((((MH)))))

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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