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I'm typing through tears. My deepest condolences to you MH. DS was love personified. Like AN, I feel lost.

Fuck you 2016

so sorry to hear this. She was such a kind, special person. Take care of yourself MH. You know she would want that. she will be missed

[This message edited by mike7 at 12:51 PM, December 26th (Monday)]

MH, my deepest condolences.

People like you and DS are so rare. You both have made a difference to thousands of band-aid hearts over the years and that is so very special.

Sending you prayers.

I am very sorry for your loss.

Most folks' memorial is a stone marker and a box of photos. DS' legacy spans helping over 55,000 people and their children and--ultimately their children's children. Her memorial is global, enduring, and active. She left her mark on this world.

I am so sorry. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

I was privileged to have been able to meet DS in person at a G2G.

She will live on in the hearts of many.

Dear MH,

I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and DS. I thank you both for your service to all of us who suffer. May you both be surrounded by songs of deliverance.

Thank you.

I am so sorry to read this today. I have been here a short time compared to others here but I am so grateful to her and you both for this site born of your love for each other and the pain you suffered through together. I know there are no words to comfort you but you are in my thoughts today and prayers and I will be making another donation to this site in her name.

You and DS are loved by such a wide circle of people - I feel like a dear person who was such a big part of my life has passed.

Despite the pain that brought me here, I only have memories of joy when I think of you and DS. I loved pictures of your parties, of the pool under construction (and Teddy on his raft!), and of Penny the turtle coming for her strawberry snack. You both showed us all how to live with JOY and grace.

I want to add my hugs, tears, and support, MH.

Requiescat DS in pace.

Words are never enough, but we need to say them anyway. I am so sorry MH. She will be missed....

My condolences and sympathy on your loss. Sending prayers and strength to you at this very difficult time.

I cannot even formulate words...

I think deep in our spirits there is a question that plaques us throughout our lives: Do I matter?

It starts out early...a question of our worth. But as we evolve - usually as result of pain - that question becomes so much deeper, more global, and more indicative of our intuitive eternal spirit. We want to know that we made a difference by being here...that everything we have done and experienced had not just a purpose...but a specific purpose to make the world better.

I don't think there is any doubt that DS fulfilled that purpose.

It's great when we can step in and protect the environment.

It's wonderful when we can support building wells and providing clean water.

Or we take a yearly mission trip to build homes in third world countries.

These things all matter...and it matters greatly that we live in accordance with our own purpose.

But when you don't just step up but you also step IN...when you come face-to-face with suffering on a daily basis and helping doesn't just become a part of your life but rather instead actually your life....when you show up every single day...although often tired and battle-weary...then you really do live a life that matters.

Big hugs to you, MH. For the life you have lived beside her, the quiet but just as important support for her calling, for living your purpose..and for the emptiness I know you must now feel. When your purpose is such greatness, there is never a sense of having had enough time.... I pray that you feel her close to you every single day.

I am so, so sorry to hear this.

Sending love and peace your way.

I am so sorry MH. She has touched so many. 😥

MH, I am so, so sorry for your loss. I am sending strength and MOJO to help you endure.

She will be missed.

(((MH & DS)))

There are no words for this.

I am so sorry. She was an amazing woman that touched so many.

I'm so sorry for your loss, MH. Sending prayers your way.

((((MH)))

I have no words to describe how sorry I am, MH. She was loved by so many.

There are no words to express how one feels at a time like this. ((DS)) will be deeply missed.

(((MH)))) one day at a time....grieve, cry, remember and cherish.

So sorry.

I've been sitting here, literally for hours trying to come up with the right words. Thank you SI community for saying so eloquently what I wish I could say, but have been unable to formulate in a coherent way.

What I can say is that I am a better person for knowing DS and MH. If I can be half as gracious through any challenge that comes my way, I will consider that a win.

Such a beautiful spirit will continue to shine.

Oh MH. I am so sorry for your loss of such a beautiful human being and your life partner.

And to all of the staff...I know how much you all love and support each other. My biggest hugs and heartfelt love and support is sent your way.

And to all the members who are hurting...

Just ((((((((BIG HUGS))))))) all around.

Heartbroken.

DS. I loved you. Fly free my sweet, beautiful friend. I will see you on the other side.