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earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 9:32 PM on Sunday, December 25th, 2016

Merry Christmas to you both xx

Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.

posts: 1103   ·   registered: Aug. 4th, 2014   ·   location: England
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atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 12:20 AM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

A very very Merry Merry Christmas to you both!

"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

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id 7738266

MangledHeart ( Webmaster) posted at 4:37 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Thank you all for your support through this journey. DS is my best friend and will always have a place in my heart. She put up a fight like I've never witnessed before.

Her favorite day of the year is Christmas. She made it. We celebrated together and made every effort to make it the best Christmas ever.

My dearest DS passed away at 2:07am Christmas morning. She loved you all very much and held tightly your words of encouragement and strength.

She fought hard. She was my hero. And I will always carry and cherish our memories together. We renewed our vows on December 21st and she was so excited.

By the afternoon of the 24th she was no longer responsive. But she was aware that we were there for her all the way to the end. She was not alone and she wasn't afraid or in pain.

Rest in Peace Deeply Scared

1964 - 2016

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

posts: 10000   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2002   ·   location: The beach
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sadcat ( member #8637) posted at 4:41 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Oh MH I am so very sorry for your loss.

No words really....

Never let your fear decide your fate.....AWOLNATION

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.

posts: 13597   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2005   ·   location: GA
id 7738534

confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 4:43 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Oh my God.

Oh my God.

I'm so very,very sorry. I adored her. She had the kindest heart.

I'm sobbing. I have no words.

FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.

posts: 15220   ·   registered: Jan. 15th, 2011
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abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 4:45 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

So very very sorry for your loss. She is loved and has touched so many lives.


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id 7738537

persevere ( member #31468) posted at 4:46 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

We all loved her so much. I am so sorry MH. But you were so lucky to have each other. She was an amazing soul - gone too soon but touched so many while she was here. Xxoo - I can see that beautiful smile now.

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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id 7738538

NoWay ( member #8036) posted at 4:49 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

MH....I know its been years since I've posted here . This site, and you and DS personally helped us to graduate from here and recover our lives. I want you to know how much meeting both of you and spending time in your home and at Pappasitos will always be treasured memories for me. Sending you deepest, heartfelt condolences and prayers for peace and healing. Anything...anything at all I can do, don't hesitate to ask. Royce

Just an aging hippie, looking at the inevitable twighlight with disdain and shaking my fist in defiance of the unavoidable.

posts: 4948   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2005   ·   location: Depends on the day....umm, what day is it, anyway?
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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:50 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016


I am so very sorry for your loss. DS is surely in heaven now and finally at peace. Know that she is loved by so many and you and her have done so much to help so many. I truly wish you peace.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 4:50 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

((((hugs)))) I'm so sorry for your loss MH....and I"m so sorry for our loss. The world truly lost an angel and she will be missed.

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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Tonya ( member #6) posted at 4:54 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

For the old timers who remember me, DS and I were best friends. We met on the site and a friendship grew into something so beautiful. I flew from Tallahassee to be with her on Christmas, and am thankful we had that time together. My heart is breaking. I love her so very much. I take comfort in the fact that she went peacefully on her favorite day of the year, and was surrounded by love. She touched so many lives and while this earth will have an incredible void without her here, heaven has gained a beautiful angel. Rest in peace my dear friend, until we meet again. Xoxoxoxo

Age: 45
Married to MH :)
EX H had 3 month A w/coworker;DDay 4/10/01 D Final 6/15/01 I filed for D & moved on COMPLETELY!You can DEFINITELY have a happy life after infidelity & D! YOUR ACTIONS ARE SPEAKING SO LOUDLY I CAN HARDLY HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 4:55 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

MH - I'm so very very sorry for your loss.

My prayers are with you during this most devastating time.

Me: BSO - 53Him: FWSO - 76 DS - 20 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

posts: 26366   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2009   ·   location: Florida
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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 5:04 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

MH, my deepest condolences brother. If there is anything I can do don't hesitate to ask. Like she did for thousands of others, DS made my life better. Sand and I love her dearly. We are lucky to count you as friends and I'll always cherish the memories of the times we got together. I'll shut up now.

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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id 7738555

madseason ( member #13224) posted at 5:05 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

MH - I'm so sorry for your loss. I feel so lucky that I was able to meet you both and spend time with you getting to know you on a more personal level. DS's passing is a heartbreaking loss for all of us.

Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives

*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 5:07 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I'm so sorry MH. Our love and prayers are with you. She is deeply missed by many.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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wasfooled2 ( member #13783) posted at 5:08 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Oh, MH, I am so incredibly sorry. I'm Class of 2007 and will always be grateful to you both for all that you have done for every one of us. DS was a very special person, and I carry you both in my heart always.

(Me) BS-39
(Him) WS-41 (serial cheater)
D-Day #7 2/24/07 (lost count)
Married 15 years; together for 23
Reconciled, or so I thought. Separated & divorcing.

Better off I sparkle on my own ~ Anna Nalick

posts: 5584   ·   registered: Feb. 27th, 2007   ·   location: Chicago Suburbs
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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 5:08 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Oh MH - I'm so sorry for such a huge loss. She was such an amazing, kind person. I know how much she wanted to make it to Christmas. I will miss my friend forever.

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 5:19 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

I'm so very very sorry for your loss MH. My heart just broke for you both. You both have changed my life in profound ways. DS will truly, deeply be missed by so many.

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 5:20 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

Mh, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you. (((Mh)))

[This message edited by lieshurt at 11:24 AM, December 26th (Monday)]

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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drowninginsorrow ( member #4545) posted at 5:32 PM on Monday, December 26th, 2016

it's been many years since I visited here, but I had to come back to give my heartfelt sympathy to you MH. There's no words to adequately express what DS meant to so many of us. She was and is an angel. May you find comfort MH.

Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

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