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SI Prayers/Mojo Request...Cancer

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MissesJai posted 8/29/2016 11:11 AM

Love you soooooo much DS - and I HATE that you're in pain. Big hugs and lots of strength to you & MH. You both are amazing.

Lucky2HaveMe posted 8/29/2016 14:11 PM

Well that sucks! Yet through it all you are keeping your sense of humor and your selflessness at the forefront.

No one that has to battle this crap is ever considered a wimp. Remember that! The worst thing most of us deal with on a daily basis is a hang nail - and even then there are those that just can't possibly get to work with one!

I hope MH has some IRL support. Cyber support is great, but you both need those people that you can hug in person.

Prayers continue for both of you. Stay positive as much as you can! You have a whole world of peeps rooting for you!


Kodi posted 8/29/2016 17:35 PM

So sorry DS
Hugs to you and MH!!!

annanew posted 8/29/2016 18:08 PM

I am wishing you the best xmas ever... make it magical.... I think that's a great goal and something to look forward to. My thoughts are with you!

[This message edited by annanew at 6:09 PM, August 29th (Monday)]

heartbroken_kk posted 8/29/2016 22:35 PM

Sending you and MH huge hugs and love.

Bald? Like me? So, you got a nice smooth head, smooth body, smoothy smoothy! Make the best of it.

I'm pretty fond of fuzzy hats of all persuasions with the possible exception of wooly. But I love cotton knit or crochet, and fuzzy fleece. I have a couple bucket hats I can live in 24/7, so comfy.

If you decide you want a wig to help you when the mirror is annoying, PM me and I can offer some tips. The good ones aren't cheap but they can help if you need the boost.

AK47 this shit, sending you much healing mojo!

ZenMumWalking posted 8/30/2016 01:48 AM

((((DS & MH))))

trying to smile posted 8/30/2016 04:28 AM

Sending more Aussie mojo across to the miles to both of you

I am fully expecting you to AK47 this shit because when you do, I'm going to do my very best to attend a g2g at your place. I'll start saving now.

tts

yearsofpain25 posted 8/31/2016 15:12 PM

You and MH continue to be in MrsYop and my thoughts. Continued positive mojo your way. Keep fighting!!!

#ak47thisshit

Edie posted 9/2/2016 04:08 AM

Thinking of you, dear DS. Lots of love X

StillLivin posted 9/2/2016 22:38 PM

Just checking in to see how you're feeling! Still in my prayers lady.

purplebreeze posted 9/3/2016 13:05 PM

(((DS))) and (((MH)))

plainsong posted 9/6/2016 11:25 AM

Dear DS - I don't check in too often, so this is a response to something from earlier. GROANS ARE GOOD! They are a gift from God/Life/our bodies to help us relieve pain. They loosen our muscles and deepen our breathing. The same applies to crying, for similar reasons.

So letting yourself groan/cry is USING YOUR POWER TO HELP YOURSELF HEAL. It is not being a wimp, but being a strong, wise person deciding to do what will benefit you.

On the other side, I second what tushnurse said about the possibility of temporary depression. When the body undergoes a trauma, which is how it sees an operation or an invasive treatment, it wants us to curl up in a safe place and recover, and it may use depression to force us to slow down and do that. In any case, it is a bodily reaction that will eventually taper off (it may take some months), not a change in who you are.

Sending love and encouragement to you and MH. I hope you BOTH (that means you, MH) keep in touch with what you need and seek the support that will help you.

thebighurt posted 9/6/2016 11:39 AM

Sending love and healing thoughts across the miles. I agree with Plainsong's post. Excessive pain isn't good, but some pain let's us know we are alive and our bodies react accordingly. I hope yours goes to a more tolerable level -- or, even better, just goes!

Whenever I think of you, I envision a crowd of people (50,000+!) standing with you as you have treatments or tests, then 50,000+ pairs of arms lifting you to the light and all those thoughts and hearts with you both. You are a special couple to so many!

timetraveler posted 9/10/2016 11:44 AM

Hoping there are relaxing and enjoyable moments this weekend for both of you.
Try Alpaca wool if you need warmth, it's toasty and not itchy at all.
Prayers, Peace and Light headed your way.

SoHappyNow posted 9/13/2016 15:24 PM

As far as changes in appearance go, I would like to offer up something very wise that my new(ish) husband says

Your body is only the wrapper for your soul.

hexed posted 9/14/2016 22:22 PM

Haven't been around much but just wanted to send some love and good vibes. Been thinking about you lately.

yearsofpain25 posted 9/17/2016 10:28 AM

Letting you know that you are both still very much in my thoughts. Continued positive mojo your way.

#ak47thisshit!!!

dreamlife posted 9/17/2016 11:37 AM

More huge hugs!!!

sad12008 posted 9/17/2016 21:30 PM

Hey DS, sending you and MH love and strength again toward soldiering through all this. It's a marathon for sure. You both are tough, though; cancer is up against formidable opponents. This too shall pass.

((((DS)))) & ((((MH))))

minusone posted 9/18/2016 06:01 AM

Keeping you in my prayers.

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