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NH divorce lawyer rec? For my sib, not me for anyone who remembers me ~

Bombshell from my sister a couple years ago that my BIL (who I've known forever, BTW!) has had multiple affairs and has additional issues. Years into trying now, it's reached That Point. If anyone knows a great divorce lawyer in NH, can you message me, please? TIA, I'm very sad about all this, for her, for them, for their family, and me, too.

2 comments posted: Thursday, December 28th, 2023

Anyone have an active Intellius account? Not 4me TG

Trying to get some info on my BIL's paramour. Feeling a little lazy, though I've done a bunch of researching already. Just not the full $23./month lazy. Figured I'd at least throw the question out there in case anyone was willing to help an unknown soul sister out.

UPDATE: DISREGARD! In the time it took me to post this, with the intellius tab still open, a pop-up window appeared offering me the report for $1.99 along with a 5 day trial. Problem solved....except for remembering to cancel the trial.

[This message edited by sad12008 at 1:27 PM, November 12th (Thursday)]

0 comment posted: Tuesday, November 10th, 2020

Anyone know a good keylogger that won't require computer's pw?

Is there a keylogger that can be installed without the computer's password (you know how when installing you generally have to have the password to install new software)?

I'm wanting something to ensure my developmentally delayed teen stays safe online.

3 comments posted: Tuesday, May 5th, 2015

FYi: SpectorSoft is no longer marketing to non-business

I was just looking into SpectorSoft for monitoring a child's activity online, and called them to ask a question. I was asked which product I was interested in, and when I said "PC & Internet", I was told they're no longer in the home PC monitoring business. Crap.

2 comments posted: Tuesday, May 5th, 2015

Major issue with nerdy to me!

A Google search shows me I'm not the first to seek an answer to this, but I'm hoping for help here. has turned up in my H's computer (Google) history several times, to where I was convinced he'd established an aol account and not told me.

History shows entries like:

11:46 AOL Mail: Simple, Free, Fun


12:21 AOL Mail: Simple, Free, Fun

12:22 AOL Mail: Simple, Free, Fun


1:08 Welcome to AOL

1:09 AOL News, Sports, Weather, Entertainment, Local & Lifestyle

1:09 AOL Mail (2093)

Looking at that, and others kind of like it over the preceding months (very infrequent, like maybe a total of 5-10 over the last 6 months), I thought he must have an account, and so I was quite BENT when I confronted him about the matter and he denied it. (I thought he'd likely established one to use AIM at work or something to chat with his mini-me adult son who lives about 100 miles away.)

It got pretty tense, and I did not want to divulge my sources of information, which made for a bit of an impasse. However, I did some cutting & pasting and devised a way to show some of the entries...and when I showed them to him, he was shocked. I believe him...98%. I

My gut says he is telling the truth; my aforementioned Google search gave a little additional confidence. But WTF? How does this happen? Note: it does seem like it tends to happen around when his mini-me (DSS) the AOL user has been up for a visit and logging onto our wireless network.

Anyone have any experience or knowledge on this kind of thing? It's a damn good thing this didn't happen close to DDay or in the first couple years, or it really could've been worse than it is.

It's been a draining day.

1 comment posted: Saturday, December 6th, 2014

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