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Taking a break

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 MIgander (original poster member #71285) posted at 9:36 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2022

I'm taking a break from the site. Something has come to light and I need to focus on WH and my M.

Thanks for all the help and advice given.

Nothing changes if nothing changes. And something's gotta change big now.

WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Back at it again- bantering w the younger woman. Lied about blocking phone calls and deleted texts. Carried on with her.

Nothing changes if nothing changes.

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doninvaun ( member #75329) posted at 9:45 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2022

Good luck and I hope everything works out well for you MIg.

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annb ( member #22386) posted at 1:38 PM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2022

Good luck, mojo, positive thoughts, prayers.....

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LostOpportunities20 ( member #74401) posted at 2:57 PM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2022

Good luck!

BH (late 40s)
WW (late 40s) EA 2008, EA/probably PA 2009

Confessed the first, I caught her the second.

Filing for D

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 3:35 PM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2022

Good luck!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 5:18 PM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2022

Wishing you the best. I can’t help but notice you said WH. I’m not fully aware of your story, but WH seems to be a new development. Please don’t hesitate to ask for help.

Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH 55 WW 48 M 31 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:49 PM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2022

Take care, MI. We are all here when you need us.

Me: BS 55 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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straightup ( member #78778) posted at 4:42 AM on Sunday, July 24th, 2022

I’ve appreciated your thoughts and voice in this site MIgander. I hope things work out for you at home.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.
What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.
Mother Teresa

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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 3:31 PM on Sunday, July 24th, 2022

ALL of us take a break every now and then...and I wish you and your WH the BEST during this one smile . You've got great insight into your life and relationship...and I KNOW you will choose the RIGHT path for YOU!

I will be praying for you and your precious family.

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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 MIgander (original poster member #71285) posted at 6:01 PM on Sunday, July 24th, 2022

I will sill be on pm, so if anyone needs me, let me know.

WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Back at it again- bantering w the younger woman. Lied about blocking phone calls and deleted texts. Carried on with her.

Nothing changes if nothing changes.

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2timesunfaithful ( member #47670) posted at 11:29 PM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022

Best of luck MI Gander. I took a break and my BW and I are still together.

Me: WH 55 I lied to cover up my deceit.
Her: BW 40's at D-day [BlueIris]
M 22 years | 3 great kids

"A coward dies a thousand times before his death, but the valiant taste of death but once. - Shakespeare

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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 12:52 AM on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2022

Take all the time you need. Wishing you the best...

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades - Children (1 still at home) Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBS 2018 Cease & Desist sent spring 2021"Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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Lostwings ( member #79902) posted at 4:26 AM on Sunday, August 7th, 2022

Wishing you all the best MiGander, please take good care of your self . We are all supporting you here .

I thought it was love at the end of the rainbow , but a banshee came and almost destroyed my pot of gold . In R.

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