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Thirteen Years Sobriety

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 looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 6:03 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Together 53+ years, Married 49 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

posts: 3597   ·   registered: Aug. 20th, 2009   ·   location: Where a river runs through it 🇨🇦
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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:07 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

That's a wonderful post and you look amazing!!!

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

posts: 24066   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2011   ·   location: Canada
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number4 ( member #62204) posted at 6:37 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Congratulations!!

Me: BW
Him: WH
Married - 30+ years
Two adult daughters
1st affair: 2005-2007
2nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017
Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addiction
Status: R

posts: 975   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2018   ·   location: Southern California
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:13 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Congratulations! smile

posts: 11507   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 7:32 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

I will always love hearing about people's sober bdays - congratulations!! 13 Years is AMAZING!!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

posts: 3445   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2018   ·   location: CO
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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:37 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Congratulations!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

posts: 16538   ·   registered: May. 1st, 2006   ·   location: Somewhere
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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:29 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

A favorite post every year! Congratulations and you look stunning!

Me: BS 55 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4701   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 3:44 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

I love seeing this post every year! Congrats! ♥

Failure is success if we learn from it.

posts: 5490   ·   registered: Aug. 1st, 2007   ·   location: michigan
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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 5:08 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

That's wonderful. I am so happy for you!

Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

posts: 8481   ·   registered: Sep. 18th, 2009   ·   location: In my head
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:25 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

I love seeing this annual post, too. Thanks for sharing, and I wish you many more years of sobriety (and good health otherwise).

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 27110   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
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Minnesota ( member #50615) posted at 1:27 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2022

Cheering wildly for you in Minnesota! (the state and the person!) :-)

Me: BS Upper 40's
Her: XWW younger 30's
Married Sept. 2010
DDay Thanksgiving 2015
Dday2- Jan28ish, 2016 -new affair
One child (Big Mister) born in 2012
Divorced Sept. 2, 2016

posts: 2119   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2015   ·   location: Minnesota
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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 3:15 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2022

CONGRATULATIONS grin !!!

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

posts: 6035   ·   registered: Oct. 2nd, 2014   ·   location: Southeastern United States
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:50 PM on Saturday, April 30th, 2022

CongratS!!!!
Did you not get to the beach thos year?
You look aaaahhhmazing darling! Be proud.

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 22 & 25
Married for 30 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 19250   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
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Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 4:58 PM on Saturday, April 30th, 2022

😀👍👍👍👍👍

When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis

posts: 3299   ·   registered: Mar. 5th, 2018   ·   location: US
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:14 AM on Sunday, May 1st, 2022

I also love seeing this every year….You are amazing!

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8363   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 5:31 AM on Sunday, May 1st, 2022

Congratulations looking forward!!!

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

posts: 1930   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2013   ·   location: Ontario, Canada
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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 11:24 PM on Saturday, May 7th, 2022

Congratulations 🎉👏
I look forward to seeing this post again next year !

posts: 938   ·   registered: Nov. 5th, 2018   ·   location: VA
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