WTAF (original poster member #79274) posted at 5:19 AM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
I'm going to be a grandma!!
It's still early in the pregnancy and my son and DIL are not ready to announce yet. I am so excited for them! I have already started online browsing, and have picked out a few things for them (and baby) for Christmas.
Woohoo!!!
leafields ( member #63517) posted at 5:37 AM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Congratulations! Being a grandparent is the BEST!
Lea
Me: BW
Married 34 years, 3 DS
DDay #1: March 26, 2018, DDay #2 8/26/2019
Filed for D: 11/16/2020
D Final: 2/25/2021
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:13 AM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA
Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 12:51 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Congratulations!
There is nothing quite like holding your baby's Baby 💗
me-BS him-WS3 adult childrenmarried a long timeLTA 2010-2012D-day - 11-2012 status - reconciling and very hopeful
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 1:43 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Me: BH, age 48
Her: WS, age 45 (multiple EAs and PAs)
D-Day: August 30, 2016
Diagnosed with depression in December 2016, which was primarily caused by my xWW's affair and associated emotional abuse.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 2:00 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 2:31 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
scaredwoman ( member #78680) posted at 3:55 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:26 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Did you feel inadequate with your first child? I remember times when our son was crying and crying and crying, and we could do nothing to help him, and an experienced parent took him, and he quieted down immediately.
Now you're that experienced parent. 
Congratulations!
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
2ManyMigraines ( member #61851) posted at 4:28 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 4:47 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Wonderful! I'm an old hand with 39 days of grandparenthood. It's just terrific!
Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:07 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
Congratulations!!!!!
Must be something in the air. My oldest niece, just announced to family only that she too is expecting. I am so excited for her.
My daughter and her live in the same town about 6 hours away from the rest of us. So my daughter is over the moon, and ready to jump in and help at any moment. It's crazy because these 2 girls have always had a special bond.
Anyway congratulations Grandma!!!!
Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 6:37 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2021
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 3:58 AM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2021
CONGRATULATIONS !!
I am thrilled to see a (soon to be) grandma who is excited for her daughter in law and son!! :-) that baby will be fortunate to have you in their life 
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 4:32 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2021
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
There is a absolutely, totally, unmistakenly NOTHING like it!!!
ENJOY!!!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 6:17 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2021
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 6:35 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2021
We have probably been more involved with our granddaughter than is usual, my DIL had a rough time, c-section and she has CP so her recovery was complicated by uncontrollable muscle spasms. We are fortunate that my son is a natural Mr. Mom and is, in fact, being a little possessive. He does most of the night and early morning stuff, we go when he needs to nap to prepare for work.
But today, I got her all to myself while they went to DIL's 6 week checkup. OMG! It was so much fun!
You are in for a lot of joy.
Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
WTAF (original poster member #79274) posted at 7:43 PM on Thursday, November 11th, 2021
Thank you all for the congratulations and well wishes. So far son and DIL say it really hasn't sunk in. She will have her first OB appointment in a few weeks. We are all looking forward to having official confirmation and an official due date.
In the meantime, my Amazon cart is really growing 
Underserving ( member #72259) posted at 2:48 AM on Friday, November 12th, 2021
BW (32)Found out 3 years post end of AD-day 12-9-19In R
Infidelity brings out the cuss in me. I’m not as foul mouthed in real life. ;)
BraveSirRobin ( Guide #69242) posted at 2:11 PM on Saturday, November 13th, 2021
I'm so excited for you!
I didn't feel the grandparent tug until all my kids hit the teenage years and the magic went out of Christmas. I miss the exuberant anticipation, the excitement over traditions, and the unbridled joy on Christmas morning. Don't get me wrong, they're still pleased and grateful, but it's just not the same as seeing their eyes shine with wonder.
I'm still years away from being a grandparent, but the craving has kicked in!
WW/BW 50s (Me)
BH/WH 50s (TimeSpiral)
