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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:12 AM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
Hallalujah! I'm so glad that that your lawyer kicked ass and the judge handed your xWH's ass back to him on platter.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 6:07 AM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
nme1 ( member #44360) posted at 6:33 AM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
Woohoo 
Me: BS
Him: WS
M 16 yrs 2 x DS
D-Day 6th March 2014
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 6:59 AM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 12:59 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
I am sooo sooo happy to read this!!
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 1:44 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
"simple case of parents disagreeing on medication." He said, "this happens all the time with ADHD -- one parent wants to medicate the child and the other disagrees. It doesn't mean one of the parents is negligent just because they don't want to give the child medication.
I'm pretty sure that ADHD doesn't cause one to NOT BE ABLE TO BREATHE!!!
Trial in September? That's a long way off. What happens in between now and then?
[This message edited by sparkysable at 12:48 PM, March 1st (Wednesday)]
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 2:06 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
lilies21 ( member #35833) posted at 2:13 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
Great update! I'm so glad it went well!
Me: BS, 30s.
One son.
Many D-Days for excessive porn, Craigslist ads, and EAs/PAs.
Happily divorced since September 2015.
RippedSoul ( member #40055) posted at 2:32 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
BW: 55; SLAWH: 52; M: 28 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute 1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (WH confessed: P1, AP, escorts 1 & 2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 26; DD: 24; DS: 22; DS: 20
I've never NOT edited my posts.
WornDown ( member #37977) posted at 2:57 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
Great job. Glad it went the way you wanted.
Me: BH (50); exW (49): Way too many guys to count. Three kids (D, D, S, all >20)Together 25 years, married 18; Divorced (July 2015)
I divorced a narc. Separate everything. NC as much as humanly possible and absolutely no phone calls. - Ch
BrokenheartedUK ( member #43520) posted at 3:37 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
You got this. You're doing an awesome job.
Me: BS
He cheated and then lied. Apparently cheaters lie. Huh. 13 months of false R. Divorced! 8/16 3 teenage kids
"The barn's burnt down
Now
I can see the moon"
-Mizuta Masahide
earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 6:09 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 9:11 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
Hell yes! This is great news!!!!
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 11:15 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2017
Yeah!!!!!!
Shields up more than normal. He may try to retaliate, but you already know that.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Adlham ( member #53358) posted at 1:55 AM on Wednesday, March 1st, 2017
yeah, WTactualF?
i think i'd turn his lawyer in for attempting to practice medicine without a license!
you cannot compare asthma to ADHD! I have 2 kids with asthma and 1 with ADHD. Guess which diagnosis my husband and I had a long discussion about before deciding on the appropriate medication? I mean really, where did his lawyer get his license to practice law? a cracker jack box? Asthma can be life-threatening, ADHD not so much.
Kudos to you for not automatically slapping the shit out of his lawyer for that one.
There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.
osxgirl ( member #8795) posted at 7:21 PM on Wednesday, March 1st, 2017
WooHoo!!! Congrats, and continued good luck!
Like sparkysable said - what happens in the meantime? I know there are the evals, and the kids can go back to their original counselor, but what about visitations and such?
osxgirl ( member #8795) posted at 7:21 PM on Wednesday, March 1st, 2017
WooHoo!!! Congrats, and continued good luck!
Like sparkysable said - what happens in the meantime? I know there are the evals, and the kids can go back to their original counselor, but what about visitations and such?
MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, March 1st, 2017
Hope that you and your girls are OK.....
carrying on.. carrying on.
Childhood asthma is NO joke.
Absolutely shouldn't have become a "lever" for your 'weirdo' WH to play some sort of power game with you.
I am so glad to hear that he (and his co-banana) has to undergo evaluation.....
this may be a crap-shoot and I am crossing all my bat-fingers for you and your babies.
Your situation needs expert intervention to help you and your girls to flourish amidst his (and her's) instability.
Keep plugging on IDE.
I think you (and sanity) are winning.
Much love, MOB x
Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.
StrongHeart ( member #45092) posted at 8:32 PM on Wednesday, March 1st, 2017
*sigh of relief* I am SO glad for you and your girls. I mean, we all pretty much knew you would crush him, but there are always those crazy scenarios where it gets totally screwed up. This is so wonderful to read!!!
BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015
"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown
"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown
chopper ( member #5772) posted at 4:31 AM on Thursday, March 2nd, 2017
I'm happy for you and the girls, IDE!
Looks like xWH did the work fr you! What in the world was he thinking giving those explanations? Well, better for you!
Me BS(52) (39 at DD)
WH passed away on 3/21/2013(52) (44 at DD)
2 Kids S(27) D(24) (14 and 11 at DD)
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"Not being able to govern events, I govern myself." –
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