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punky ( member #12233) posted at 2:21 PM on Saturday, June 25th, 2016

Keep on swimming, DS. Love you and hope you get good news on the 28th.

13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.

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stupidstupidme ( member #11888) posted at 10:02 PM on Tuesday, June 28th, 2016

Hi, I haven't been on here in forever - but I heard your news and I wanted to pop in and say I hope all is well!! I see that something is happening today... a dr. appt? I hope you get great news!!!

Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 10:10 PM on Tuesday, June 28th, 2016

DS you rock!!! That's all

Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 10:19 PM on Tuesday, June 28th, 2016

^^What TG just said!

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 1:43 AM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2016

Late to the party, but wishing you all the best. It is such a burden released to be done with daily treatments.

I hope you begin to regain strength and energy quickly.

Big hugs,


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

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Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 4:26 PM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2016

Whooo Hooo!

Glad to hear you are doing so well!!!

Exit Wounds
H of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.

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annanew ( member #43693) posted at 7:10 PM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2016

CONGRATULATIONS on the last day of radiation!!! Truly a reason to celebrate.

Single mom to a sweet girl.

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 9:16 PM on Friday, July 1st, 2016

You are an amazing woman and I'm sending you my prayers and all the strength you need to fight this battle until you win.

May God watch over you and your family.

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 6:50 AM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2016

So happy that you can kick radiation to the curb DS!!! (((((DS&MH))))) 👍👊

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:41 PM on Wednesday, July 6th, 2016

Thinking of you and sending all good thoughts and prayers!!!

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:53 PM on Thursday, July 7th, 2016

Just checking in to see how you're doing. You continue to be in my prayers. Just keep getting stronger, Lady! Looking forward to meeting you in person at the next G2G.

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 12:51 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2016

You've been on my mind, and in my heart, a lot this past week, DS. Hope you are doing well and your skin is recovering from the radiation.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 12:53 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2016


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:12 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2016

Yup, I can't put it as well as inconnu, but I've been thinking of you and sensing positive thoughts. I know what you're going through is hellish. I just hope you're getting better.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 7:14 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2016

Thinking of you and MH. <3

Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 12:15 AM on Saturday, July 9th, 2016

Sending you good thoughts and prayers.

BS Fwh

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PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 3:49 AM on Saturday, July 9th, 2016

Same here - hang in there! Hope you are feeling the love and support!

Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 9:00 PM on Saturday, July 9th, 2016


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 Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 3:09 PM on Sunday, July 10th, 2016

WOW Kodi!!!!

I can't believe I'm seeing your name...that's so awesome!!!!

Thanks you guys!!

The results were good...not as good as we had hoped, but not bad either.

The tumors on my left side have shrunk "considerably" and on my right side "they're smaller" which is sure as hell better than "there's nothing we can do and you're dying!"

They did however find a couple masses on my lungs. Which is a bit shocking to say the least. My Dr. said not to be alarmed by this mostly due to I'm at MD Anderson and *anything* that shows up, the radiologist will ALWAYS lean towards "possibly cancer" because it's a cancer! Makes sense He also said that since Houston is a polluted city it could just be something that I happened to breath in prior to the testing. Either way, we're not really going to worry about that right now.

I go to my new chemo doctor this coming Friday for my treatment plan. I'm going to lose every bit of hair I have left on my body. Eyelashes and eyebrows included I'm going to be ugly...I just know it.

This feels like a lifetime of pills and doctors.

So, overall, not bad news at all...just keep praying it will go away, I wish it weren't such a stubborn fucking cancer!

I really appreciate everyone's support...this has been incredibly hard for MH and myself to go through. We keep saying "this isn't the end to our story...we have so much more to do"

So we keep pushing through...looking for hope and hanging on to all the positive things in our lives.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 3:30 PM on Sunday, July 10th, 2016

I'm going to be ugly...I just know it.

Nope - you could never be ugly. You are so beautiful inside and out that it will always shine through.

Sending prayers and continued strength - you are the bravest person I know.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert

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