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worried_lady ( member #27605) posted at 6:37 AM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Continued thoughts and prayers

Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly.

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NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 3:07 PM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Ooowww....That sounds painful! I hope they have you on decent pain meds. I've been thinking about you and wishing you all the best and a speedy recovery. Sending all my positive energy to help you along with this....

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 3:18 PM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Thoughts and prayers are with you.

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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nomoreblueskies ( member #41574) posted at 3:28 PM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Thinking about you and sending love and strength.


It's life, Jim, but not as we know it

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Continued thoughts, prayers, and super positive mojo your way.

Very sorry you are hurting so badly.

Keep going!!


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:51 PM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Continued thoughts and mojo from me, too.

I'm so sorry about the pain and the inability to enjoy food.

Missing just one day of work is going above and beyond the call of duty.

(((DS))) (((MH)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Add me on the prayers, hugs and mojo team!!

You got this, girl!

Me-56 FWH-58 Married 38 years 9/2/2021 grown daughters-38&34 12yo GS,9yo GD & 7yo.GD (DD38) and 10yo GD & 5yo GD(DD34). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 8:06 PM on Thursday, June 2nd, 2016

Sorry that your treatment is painful now. Hopefully that part will end soon. Are you on pain meds for this?

Only one day off work after all you're going are one strong woman, I can hear you roaring all the way up here in Canada.

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2oldforthis ( member #19825) posted at 9:10 PM on Thursday, June 2nd, 2016

Keep on going DS you can do this, you are nearing the end of this part. Stay strong. Prayers

He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:30 AM on Friday, June 3rd, 2016

Oh wow, DS, just seeing this now. Hope you are well, and continue to AK47 that shit!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 2:22 PM on Sunday, June 5th, 2016

DS, praying for you. Hope you are safe in the rain and you are getting some relief.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:50 PM on Sunday, June 5th, 2016


Take care of yourself. If you can't eat, maybe you could try sipping on one of those meal replacement shakes.

And TAKE SOME FUCKING TIME OFF WORK GIRL!!!!!!! Only 1 day??? You going for the trophy?

One day at a time, and AK 47 THAT SHIT!!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 8:01 PM on Sunday, June 5th, 2016

Oh my goodness! I hadn't seen this post until now. My heart and thoughts are with you, DeeplyScared.

You go kick cancer's butt!

In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:12 PM on Sunday, June 5th, 2016

Hey, you take care of yourself, OK? You don't get a honking big trophy for perfect attendance, you know. Take the time you need to heal so you CAN heal. (((Hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 10:21 PM on Sunday, June 5th, 2016

DS you are kicking ass! Praying continuously for your health. One day of work? You rock. I have worked with several women who have fought this same battle and took off some time. You have to do what's right for you. Listen to your body and slow down if you're feeling it. A good friend of mine said that if she didn't work shed lose her mind. She credits that with helping her beat it. Stay strong!

Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)
Married 27 years, together 30
Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 4:02 PM on Monday, June 6th, 2016

Oh shit! I never read on this forum, but I just had a need to do it today.

I can't tell you how sorry I am about this boulder in your path. I wish I could be nearby to help you move it out of your way - or better yet, blast it into smithereens! 😁

Seriously, it feels helpless to know that you have done so much for me (all of us here), and I am not able to bring you something to eat, or help with housework, etc. (Southern traditions)

But please know that we are all thinking about you and MH and praying for your full recovery. Your strength is amazing, and will get you through this.


[This message edited by WhatsRight at 7:43 PM, June 7th (Tuesday)]

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 3:09 PM on Wednesday, June 8th, 2016

Any news DS?

How are you feeling these days?

Still sending lots of prayers and well wishes your way! 😘😘


[This message edited by WhatsRight at 9:11 AM, June 8th (Wednesday)]

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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amitheow ( member #4691) posted at 2:39 PM on Friday, June 10th, 2016

I know. I check the thread everyday looking for an update. Hope you are ok DS.

Old Timer, Just here to help
My screen name is: Am I The Ow? - Not Ami the OW.

Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.

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Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 8:44 PM on Friday, June 10th, 2016

She posted on SPF today - so she is at least well enough to laugh with us

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 8:55 PM on Friday, June 10th, 2016



Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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