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Tred ( Member #34086) posted at 5:43 PM on Tuesday, May 17th, 2016

So glad to hear this! Thank you DS for taking the time to keep us updated.

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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lynnm1947 ( Member #15300) posted at 7:28 PM on Tuesday, May 17th, 2016

Wonderful news, DS. AK47 that shit!

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 8:38 PM on Tuesday, May 17th, 2016

Thanks for the update, especially since the news is good. I wish you lots of tolerance and patience, strength, good humor, and success as treatment progresses.

(((DS & MH)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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NaiveAgain ( Member #20849) posted at 12:45 PM on Wednesday, May 18th, 2016

YAYAYAY!!!!!! So glad for the update DS! I actually got tears of relief for you ....best thing I've heard this morning! (((hugs)))

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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StillLivin ( Member #40229) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, May 18th, 2016

I popped in for an update. This is great news!!! Keep fighting the fight. Keep eating all those cancer fighting foods and getting as much rest as possible so your body can heal.

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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Twentyplus ( Member #39593) posted at 7:59 PM on Thursday, May 19th, 2016

I popped in for an update too & am so pleased this is going well for you. Shrink those suckers!

The x-large gel packs (Chatanooga Colpac brand) cooled in regular fridge might help the heat & tenderness you are experiencing. I use on lower back all the time & find very helpful for chillin' out pain & tension. Usually in specialty drugstores, always on Amazon. The "clinical grade" black ones are tougher & last longer than the blue vinyl, but cost lots more.

You are beautiful, btw, just as I imagined you would be. Rock the turban.

"But we must supply our own light." - Stanley Kubrick

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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:57 PM on Sunday, May 22nd, 2016

Thinking of you!! and still sending Mojo and saying those prayers.

AK47 that shit!

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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FinallyHappy ( Member #308) posted at 5:30 PM on Thursday, May 26th, 2016

Continued prayers and love, DS and MH!

There isn't an hour that you are not in our thoughts.

You're going to beat this shit!

"Be civil to all; sociable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none."

~Ben~

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Pentup ( Member #20563) posted at 7:21 PM on Thursday, May 26th, 2016

Praying that this week went well for you and those cancer cells are SCREAMING as they are run out of your body! Keeping you and MH held up in prayer.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Maia ( Member #8268) posted at 8:43 PM on Thursday, May 26th, 2016

oh wow DS. I just saw. adding you and MH to my prayer list.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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knightsbff ( Member #36853) posted at 12:59 AM on Friday, May 27th, 2016

I just saw too.

You both are in my prayers. I am visiting your medical center weekly with my mil for her chemo. As a matter of fact we need to go wig shopping for her this week. Yours is beautiful!

Anything at all EVER I can do I would be honored. Can I walk your turtle for you?

That's because I scare the shit out of it.

That's the spirit I know your doctors and nurses adore you!

My mom has been cancer free for over 4 years now.

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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ItsaClimb ( Member #37107) posted at 10:12 AM on Friday, May 27th, 2016

Thinking of you today. So sorry you are going through this, but very grateful for the positive news.

BS 52
Together 35 yrs, M 31 years
2 daughters 30yo(married with 2 children) & 25yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

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sadcat ( Member #8637) posted at 3:34 AM on Saturday, May 28th, 2016

I hope you have a relaxing weekend! Sometimes you just need to forget the cancer for a minute (if possible)!

Never let your fear decide your fate.....AWOLNATION

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.

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Crushed1 ( Member #6449) posted at 5:36 AM on Sunday, May 29th, 2016

((((DS)))) Sending prayers and good vibes to you and MH.

~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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somanyyears ( Member #26970) posted at 6:46 PM on Sunday, May 29th, 2016

..(((((((((DS))))))))))) ..and just read the good news you posted--- fantastic!!!!! we will continue to send prayers and mojo to you and MH.

"THINK POSITIVE"

Sincerely, smy

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!
Me 74 Her 70 Married 49 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumor!

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inconnu ( Member #24518) posted at 3:57 AM on Monday, May 30th, 2016

Thinking of you and MH tonight. If there's anything we can do, just holler.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

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 Deeply Scared (original poster Administrator #2) posted at 6:16 PM on Monday, May 30th, 2016

You all are so sweet...thank you!!

My last chemo treatment is this Wednesday and then I have 12 more days of radiation treatments to get through. My skin is falling off from being burned over and over again and my pain level is pretty high...lots of shooting sharp pain.

Overall I feel good as can e expected although I Have zero appetite and what I do eat doesn't taste good and my jaw locks up So, eating isn't high in my list...lol!

I missed my first day of work this past Monday...I was in so much pain there was no way I would have made it all day, M bosses are impressed that I've only missed 1 day

Thank you again for thinking of me....that was so nice of you all!!!!!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Unagie ( Member #37091) posted at 6:21 PM on Monday, May 30th, 2016

DS broke my heart to read the title but your kicking ass. Keep fighting, you got this.


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knightsbff ( Member #36853) posted at 6:22 PM on Monday, May 30th, 2016

DS you ARE a rock star!!!!! I love your attitude!

I'm so sorry you are hurting.

Make sure you get a referral to the bone health clinic when you finish the radiation. Your jaw locking up just made me think of your bones. I took my mom to see a doctor there recently and she was so smart and good!

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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Pentup ( Member #20563) posted at 4:49 AM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016

Praying that your chemo goes well tomorrow and the pain is less and your skin is recovering. Also hope you are safe with all the rain. Thinking of you

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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