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INeedaBandAid (original poster member #24869) posted at 7:47 AM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Just wanted to pass a note to those who knew her. She stopped posting a few years ago. She had ovarian cancer that spread throughout her body and attacked her liver.
She passed around 6:00 pm this evening. Please keep the family in your prayers.
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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 9:02 AM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Im so sorry to read this news. Thank you for letting us know. Praying for her family.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 12:10 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Oh, this is terrible to hear. I had the opportunity to actually meet her IRL. My heart goes out to her family.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 1:57 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
I'm so very sorry to hear this. 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 2:28 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Oh no! Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends!
WornDown ( member #37977) posted at 3:51 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
So sorry to hear. 
Me: BH (50); exW (49): Way too many guys to count. Three kids (D, D, S, all >20)Together 25 years, married 18; Divorced (July 2015)
I divorced a narc. Separate everything. NC as much as humanly possible and absolutely no phone calls. - Ch
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 5:38 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Thank you for passing this along. As with WOES, we also got to meet her IRL. She was a very fun person, and my wife kept in touch with her for a while. We are very saddened and will keep her family in our thoughts.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:17 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Oh no. Sending strength and peace to her family. I remember her posts-
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 8:17 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
I am so sorry to read this.
"Because I deserve better"
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:33 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
I know MissesJai only from her posts, and just that is enough to make me feel a loss. My heart goes out to her, to her family, and to her friends.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 9:52 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
I will keep her family in my thoughts and prayers.
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 10:38 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
I'm so sorry to hear this. Although she was a member before my time, I've found inspiration in her archived posts.
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 11:34 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Sorry to read this, too. I liked her even though I hardly knew her.
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 11:51 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 11:53 PM on Tuesday, July 6th, 2021
Very sorry to hear this news. Never met her in person, but spoke with her many times on the forums here. Keeping her family and loved ones in my thoughts.
AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 1:24 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
I’m so sorry for her families loss.
I remember her well. I’ve been thinking of some of the old timers recently. She was a valued voice of reason.
☮️
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 2:01 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
How terribly sad. Prayers for her family.
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 2:06 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
May she rest in peace
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:58 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
Such sad news. I remember reading many of her posts.
Prayers for her family.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 7:01 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
So sorry to read this. Condolences to the family.
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
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