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Questioningall (original poster member #43959) posted at 9:25 AM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
Sorrowfulmate was hit by a car while walking home from the train. He has a small brain bleed and is in the ICU. He’s scared and in pain and I’m scared, too. Please pray for his healing!
Me-BS 57
Him-WS 57 Sorrowfulmate
Married 30 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 3 ONS, 2 LTA
Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because no one ever has.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:16 AM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
(((QG))). Sending all good thoughts and prayers.
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
BreakingBad ( member #75779) posted at 11:58 AM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
Praying for his healing and for strength and peace for you both.
"...lately it's not hurtin' like it did before. Maybe I am learning how to love me more."[Credit to Sam Smith]
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:48 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
Sending healing and calming wishes/prayers your way.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:31 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
Oh no - sending good thoughts your way!!!
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:16 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
((((QA)))) Prayers for you both. Please keep us updated when you can.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:21 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:27 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
Sending healing and calming thoughts and mojo.
I'm so sorry this happened.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2023
So sorry this happened. Sending mojo.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:46 AM on Wednesday, February 15th, 2023
So sorry this happened. Prayers for both of you.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 5:54 AM on Wednesday, February 15th, 2023
Sending healing mojo to sorrowful and comfort and peace to you. What a scary thing to have happened.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 11:47 AM on Wednesday, February 15th, 2023
Sending healing thoughts your way!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 1:16 AM on Thursday, February 16th, 2023
That is frightening! Will send prays and mojo both your way.
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 2:16 AM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2023
Sending prayers and healing wishes to you both.
Together 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
2frayedsouls ( member #48177) posted at 12:18 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2023
Prayers sent. Your posts were such a help in my early days here. I am so very sorry you both are going through this.
Me: BW Him: WH one son, one daughter
Questioningall (original poster member #43959) posted at 1:20 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2023
Update:
The head trauma was more extensive than I originally posted, but is stable and healing. There’s also damage to some other stuff that will need surgery in the future. He is improving and he’s been moved to an acute rehabilitation hospital for therapy. I asked how long it will take to recover and the doctor said months. Not what I wanted to hear, but better than "he won’t." I do appreciate the prayers-they really help.
Me-BS 57
Him-WS 57 Sorrowfulmate
Married 30 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 3 ONS, 2 LTA
Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because no one ever has.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:53 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2023
All told, not the worst news. There is a path to better and you two know how to support each other through it.
Thank you for the update— sending you both support and mojo virtually.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 10:30 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2023
Praying for comfort and healing
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 12:18 PM on Saturday, March 4th, 2023
You all can get through this. I’m so happy to hear that recovery can happen!!!
Lots of prayers and hugs sent your way!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 12:44 PM on Saturday, March 4th, 2023
Sending prayers and mojo.
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
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