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Dorothy123

"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.

Fantasy poll : What would you sentence a BS that killed a WS to ?

This is a fantasy !!!!


In this fantasy .......


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I made perfectly clear this is a fantasy.

In this fantasy, you can dish out whatever punishment you can think of.

Some examples

"A stern talking" or "water torture" or "capital punishment"..

Whatever you want.


I'll start.

Five years in prison.

How about you ?

5 comments posted: Monday, July 3rd, 2023

The blame the BS poll !

Clueless non BS's love to blame the BS.

Here are the most common ways that clueless non BS's blame the BS

Before the A

The BS must've done "something" to drive the WS to cheat

That "something " may include

Not enough sex

A nag

Cold

Etc. to infinity

During the A

How can the BS not know that the WS is cheating ?

How can the BS not know the WS is lying to the BS ?

How can the BS let the WS's A go on as long as it did ?

After DDay

The BS is dumb for staying with the WS

The BS is vindictive and unforgiving if the BS divorces the WS

It's the BS fault the BS cant get over it in a month or less.

Here's the poll question- How many of these ( in percentages) did you have to endure ?

I'll start

I got around 50% of these.

I didn't get blamed for the driving my ex to cheat because my ex had a same sex A with a man.

I did get heat for not catching on the A sooner.

I did get heat for not being able to "get over it" in a month.

I also got heat for divorcing my ex.

How about you ?

12 comments posted: Thursday, May 11th, 2023

Rate how much you wanted to hurt WS

It's been 20 days since my last poll that many BS'S found to be helpful.

So, it's time for me to start it's sister thread.

The purpose of this thread is to help myself and other members figure out what is normal.

The subject of violence is extremely triggering and a very very sensitive subject.

I've been on SI for over 6 years and seen many threads where someone admitted to being violent to someone else descent into harsh judgement , shaming and people getting lectured.

Despite the topic being a triggering subject , I feel that it's important to have an open , honest and frank discussion on this topic.

If people are to begin to heal , they must be allowed to share their truths.

If people dont admit to any violence then there is nothing for those people who want to give harsh

judgement to chew on.

So, here are the poll questions.

1)On a scale of 0 through 10, with 10 being the most intense desire, at its worst, how badly did you want to attack the WS ?

2) How long has it been since DDay now ?

3) Rate how badly you want to attack WS now. Same 0 to 10 scale.

Ill start.

1) At its worst it was a 10/10

2) It has been 8 years and 9 months since DDay.

3) 0/10 is how much I want to attack WS now.

ETA


I made my poll in a way so that it's easier for those who want to respond but are afriad to respond because they fear judgment .

Even if you say that you 10/10 wanting to attack WS, there's no proof that you did or didn't attack the WS.

If you dont admit to violence there no way for those who want to judge to start shit with you !

17 comments posted: Tuesday, April 4th, 2023

Please be extra kind and gentle to folks in jfo

First, i do understand that the subject of infidelity can be explosive and emotions get easily heated. But please remember people are here because they are hurting.

Most likely, the people who are hurting the most are people in JFO.

Please remember that folks in are going through the worst pain and trauma of their lives and they are extremely thinned skin.

Many of them are suicidal.

Also, they came to SI for help.

So, please be kind and gentle to the folks in JFO.

2 comments posted: Saturday, April 1st, 2023

mod please

smile

1 comment posted: Friday, March 31st, 2023

My funny Shakira song story.

Shakira's song "Hip Dont Lie" came out 13 years ago.

When that song came out it was huge and all over the place.

13 years ago, I really didn't like that song and was sick and tired of hearing it everything.

Three months ago, I listened to the song again and this time , I got it.

I finally understood why the song was so big 13 years ago.

Now, I really like the song 13 years later.

LoL.

Shakira's song has 1.2 Billion views on Youtube and now I'm finally a fan of that song.

laugh

0 comment posted: Wednesday, March 29th, 2023

Rate how much you wanted to hurt AP

The purpose of this thread is to help myself and others figure out what is normal.

I've been here over six years and I've noticed that any kind of physical violence towards anyone else is  a taboo subject.

I've seen many threads where someone admitted to being physically violent to someone else descend into chaos and a big fight erupts in the thread.

I do know that many BS are suicidal because the WS's and AP's A hurt the BS that much.

I hope that just saying how much you want to hurt the AP without actually admitting to being violent to the AP will help BS's here open up more.

Here's the poll question.

On a scale of 0 to 10 with 10 being extreme desire, how badly did you want to attack the AP ?

For me personally, it was a 10.

I thank my lucky stars that I never fully lost control and attacked AP.

I have zero judgement on those who actually did lose control and attacked the AP.

64 comments posted: Monday, March 20th, 2023

Count from 1 to 5 and back down again with SI emojis

I will start with six to show everyone.

7 comments posted: Thursday, February 23rd, 2023

Mod please minor glitch to report

I'm a furthest thing from a computer expert possible so I don't how big or small this problem is. I just figured MH needs to know about this.

Now, I will go into the problem.

I live in pacific standard time zone. I noticed the time I logged in was 9 pm last night .

Last night I logged into SI account using my computer.

I hovered my mouse over the "forums" icon and the list all the available forums came up. The options that came up for me started from "main page through the book club". The option for "fun and games" forum was missing

I had logged in to specifically check the fun and games forum and I freaked out when I didn't see the "fun and games" forum.

I freaked out and thought that I was banned from the "fun and games" forum. I nervously checked to see if I had gotten a PM from the mods banning me from the "fun and games " forum. I didn't get a PM from the mods notifying me that I was banned from the "fun and games" forum.

Then I checked on my phone. I was not logged into SI my account on my phone. The "fun and games " option was not available either even when I wasn't logged into my SI account.

I thought about making a thread in "off topic" asking others if they had a problem getting in the "fun and games" forum but I was tired and didn't think it was that important.

I have a platinum account so I went into my recent post to see if I could access my "fun and games" post through my recent post. My fun and games post showed up on my recent post. When I clicked on my fun and games post through my recent post, I could get into my fun and games post.

Then, I logged out of my SI account on my computer and did other stuff on the computer.

At 910 pm , I logged back into SI and I hovered my mouse on the "forum" icon and I saw the avaiable options were from "main page all the way through to fun and games".

So, the problem seemed to have fixed itself.

3 comments posted: Sunday, March 13th, 2022

Make a word from a the last letter of previous word

hello

115 comments posted: Thursday, March 3rd, 2022

count upward by editing your post

0

7 comments posted: Thursday, February 24th, 2022

Make a word from the last letter of previous word

Very simple rules.

Make one word from the last letter of the word someone else made above .

This is a group game. You are not allowed to play solo

I just played solo for the first seven words to show everyone how's it done.

If there is a mistake for whatever reason, we just flow with the mistake and move on.

I'll start

Dorothy

[This message edited by Dorothy123 at 3:38 PM, November 13th (Wednesday)]

328 comments posted: Wednesday, November 13th, 2019

Post GI.Fs of your favorite childhood nostalgic memories

Rules : Follow all F&G forum rules.

Also use common sense and not post anything that others may find offensive and make sure all your pictures are safe for work.

Otherwise have fun.

Post pictures of anything in your child hood that brings back happy nostalgic memories.

Examples

1) Favorite toys

2) TV shows

3) Places

4) Foods

5) Games

6) ETC. ETC.

45 comments posted: Wednesday, August 29th, 2018

What's your smart battery's % of charge right now ?

Log your phone , laptop or tablet battery's % of charge whenever you want to .

I'm at 93% now on my phone.

[This message edited by Dorothy123 at 8:33 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)]

35 comments posted: Tuesday, July 24th, 2018

Wish SI a happy B-day by posting pictures.

Wish SI a happy birthday by

1) Giving thanks

2) Post pictures of cakes, gifts, party favors, food etc.

I'll start.

Thank you SI for all the lives you've have touched.

11 comments posted: Sunday, June 10th, 2018

Count from 1 through 10 . Again & Again

Rules count from 1 through 10.

1

2

3

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5

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10

Again

1

2

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10

Again.....

13 comments posted: Wednesday, May 24th, 2017

Bump this thread for WhatEver reason you like!

Rules .

Bump thread and give a reason.

Example

1) Because it's Monday

2) Because it's cold

3)Because I just want to.

888 comments posted: Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Shoot fireworks to welcome 2017!!!!!!!!!

3 comments posted: Friday, December 30th, 2016

Make words from A through Z.

Make words from A through Z.

When we get to Z, we go right back to A.

Example.

Apple

Bold

Control

ETC.

348 comments posted: Saturday, November 19th, 2016

Let's count to 1000!!!!!!!!

Let's count to 1000!!!!!

Let's see how pages it will take us to count to ONE THOUSAND.

25 comments posted: Saturday, November 12th, 2016

What's your phone's % of charge right now?

My phone is at 90%

How about you?

54 comments posted: Monday, October 24th, 2016

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