leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:21 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2024
I hope you're able to move on and not be triggered. Just be the best version of you that you can be.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2024
Thanks for the concern. It's been 8ish months ths since we split, so I've had quite some time to process. It's more of a curious detail than a trigger for me.
Though if I'm being honest, both experiences post S and D have left a sour taste in my mouth when it comes to relationships. I think I'm kind of done in that department.
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:55 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced 20
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:14 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2024
I've been having a lot of fun being on my own. I guess I don't really care if I'm alone or with a couple or group. It doesn't define me.
If I find a person who fits in, that's fine. If not, I'll be ok being alone.
Hang in there, JSG.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
