PricklePatch (original poster member #34041) posted at 8:38 AM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021
My daughter impulsively grabbed scissors and tried to kill herself. She has been so happy with her fiancé, seeing a future. Sober from cutting for quiet awhile, she asked me not to keep track. She has been on a psych hold. Our whole family in disarray. My breeder held my new service dog. While she was in the hospital I slept walked fell and wedged myself. We had to call first aid.
The good of it is the first time she hasn’t blamed someone else.
I am deeply sorry for missing the card exchange.
My daughter is home. Starting a day program. A dear friend came in to stay with her while her fiancée works so I left to get my new service dog. My service dog allows me safety during the night as I aspirate and many other things.
Thank you all for your kindness.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:53 AM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021
I’m so sorry PricklePatch.
I thought it was unusual that you missed the card exchange. 2021 is turning out to be every bit as challenging as 2020.
I wish you and your family well.
Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
BraveSirRobin ( Guide #69242) posted at 12:12 PM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021
I'm so sorry, PricklePatch. Thinking of you and your family.
WW/BW 50s (Me)
BH/WH 50s (TimeSpiral)
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:16 PM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021
Prayers for you and your DD and family.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 3:05 PM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021
I am so sorry for all that you are facing. Definitely in my prayers.
Me, 54
Him, 45 (JMSSC)
Married 24 years. Reconciled.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 3:14 PM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 9:07 PM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021
So incredibly sorry that you're having to go through this and watch your daughter experience such pain. Hope you find an upward trajectory soon.
Me: BW
Him: WH
Married - 30+ years
Two adult daughters
1st affair: 2005-2007
2nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017
Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addiction
Status: R
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 3:35 AM on Wednesday, December 15th, 2021
Prayers to you and DD. Big hugs, too.
Me FBS early 40s
Him XWS mid40s (lovemywife4ever), D
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me
Free and loving life
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 3:56 AM on Wednesday, December 15th, 2021
Oh PricklePatch:
Sending out good things to you and yours tonight.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 4:52 AM on Wednesday, December 15th, 2021
Prayers and (((HUGS))) being sent.
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:00 PM on Wednesday, December 15th, 2021
Prayers and a huge mama bear hug to you and your daughter.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:45 PM on Wednesday, December 15th, 2021
Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA
Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 7:08 PM on Wednesday, December 15th, 2021
((((Prickle))))
I'm so sorry. Hopefully she can get some good help.
Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 12:29 AM on Thursday, December 16th, 2021
I am so sorry.
Hugs to you and daughter. (((PP)))
Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA
Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
PricklePatch (original poster member #34041) posted at 8:22 AM on Thursday, December 16th, 2021
Thank you for the prayers and hugs. My daughter has always had help. She was bullied badly in kindergarten and 1st grade. She has been very stable with her pills. She has brain fog, finally admitted she needs us to watch her take them. She will forget she set her pills down and not take them. She is starting a day program again.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 4:53 AM on Wednesday, December 29th, 2021
So sorry to hear this. Bless you, and your daughter, and your family.
You all are in my prayers.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 2:57 PM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2022
How is your daughter doing???
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
