99problems posted 4/15/2021 15:26 PM

Official today, I am finally done.

My marriage is no more.

I guess that means I "survived" infidelity.

Wow, that sucked. (And I got off relatively easy, apparently.) I am so ready to move on with life.

Anyway, let the party commence!!!!

fareast posted 4/15/2021 16:11 PM

Congrats! Best of luck moving forward.

leafields posted 4/15/2021 17:52 PM

Congratulations!!!

DanielJK posted 4/15/2021 20:06 PM

Nice

Shehawk posted 4/15/2021 20:31 PM

Sorry you went through this. Glad you can embark on a productive new path out of infidelity.

DevastatedDee posted 4/15/2021 22:55 PM

Congrats!! Now the healing truly begins!

99problems posted 4/16/2021 01:25 AM

I truly didn't realize what a blessing it could be to be divorced until now.

The sense of relief and peace is amazing, I didn't actually realize I needed this as much as I did until it actually happened.

I am a lucky man. Its just me and my daughter from her on out, my life feels boundless and free.

For all of you struggling through this- there is a true light at the end of the tunnel. I have struggled and bled and wept, but it's all been worth it.

I will be forever a changed man for the better for all of this.

What a crazy ride. I think I can take away some good things from the whole thing, and avoid being a toxic bitter old man, but I think I'd even enjoy being the old bitter man at this point. Better than a life of confusing paradoxes and hypocrisy.

I was raised to be the man that accepted that, but I narrowly escaped that fate.
I count myself lucky that I woke up just in time.

My best wishes for all of you going through this. I hope you find what you are looking for.

TwoDozen posted 4/16/2021 02:30 AM

Congrats buddy - now you can live up to that new moniker

All the best for whatever’s next fella 👊🏻

The1stWife posted 4/16/2021 06:41 AM

I’m glad you survived it.

Now on to a better place.

Good for you!!!

Anna123 posted 4/16/2021 08:16 AM

Whoo Hoo! FREEDOM! Congrats.

EllieKMAS posted 4/16/2021 09:42 AM

YAY 99P!!!

I am so very happy for you... You had a rough road getting here, but getting free of it makes life so much better!

J707 posted 4/16/2021 09:58 AM

Congratulations! I remember when I received the news. The whole weight of the D process lifted off of my shoulders. Enjoy your freedom and the new chapters to come! It can be very calm and soothing!

BearlyBreathing posted 4/16/2021 13:48 PM

Congrats! It’s not what you necessarily wanted, but it is what is best for you and your DD.
Welcome to the next chapter!

OrdinaryDude posted 4/17/2021 05:48 AM

99 problems, and she isn’t one of them!

Couldn’t resist!

Bigger posted 4/17/2021 10:04 AM

User name change to 98problems suggested!

99problems posted 4/17/2021 14:20 PM

Haha, the username change suggestion is pretty awesome.

keptmyword posted 4/17/2021 18:20 PM

Good for you and your daughter to have extracted yourselves from that world.

I know the liberating feeling it is.

I felt like my sons and I were involuntarily thrown onto the stage of some horrific Jerry Springer Shit-Show episode.

When my divorce was final, we were free.

Phoenix1 posted 4/18/2021 01:40 AM

Congrats. Welcome to the other side. Enjoy the fresh air and sunshine!

Onward and upward!

skeetermooch posted 4/18/2021 10:49 AM

Congratulations!!

Triples posted 4/19/2021 07:41 AM

Roll on 99! Happy for you-you deserve the best!