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Court hearing today...could use some support

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Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 07:49 AM

Hello SI friends,

My attorney and I have a court hearing on less than 2 hours. Facing more unwarranted accusations from the cheating exes (chex) vicariously through his attorney.

Support/words of encouragement would be appreciated.

I now refer to the man I pledged my heart and my life to more than three decades ago as "the opponent" aka the adversary.

May I never falter again should I have the advantage again. May I not forget who he is and what he is capable of. May my heart not be my weakness again but my strength.

fareast posted 2/11/2021 07:57 AM


Sending you strength and positive vibes for your court hearing today. Sounds like your “opponent” is just being vindictive and grasping at straws. He does not realize how strong you are now. Good luck.

[This message edited by fareast at 7:57 AM, February 11th (Thursday)]

Lalagirl posted 2/11/2021 08:36 AM

Sending strength, positive vibes and huge hugs.

You got this, Shehawk!

Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 08:37 AM

Thank you FarEast.

You and so many other people on SI are why I survived infidelity literally.

DanielJK posted 2/11/2021 08:51 AM

Good luck.

Just remember you are on your way out of infidelity.

I'm not far behind you.

Better days are ahead.

Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 08:53 AM

Thank you Lala!

Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 08:58 AM

Thanks Daniel!

lieshurt posted 2/11/2021 09:26 AM

Sending lots of positive thoughts and SI mojo your way. (((hugs)))

Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 09:42 AM

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to

No lie lieshurt


BearlyBreathing posted 2/11/2021 09:43 AM

Sending mojo!

skeetermooch posted 2/11/2021 10:05 AM

May he show his true colors in court and lose mightily. Good luck!

Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 10:35 AM

Thank you skeeter.

Believe it or not, he did not show for court. Just sent his female victim advocate attorney.

josiep posted 2/11/2021 11:42 AM

I wish I was there so we could shoot evil eye looks in his direction. Or point at him and giggle (silently, of course).

Hoping it's over with and that you're doing well.

Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 12:05 PM

Thanks Josie. You made me laugh.

barcher144 posted 2/11/2021 13:05 PM

Good luck. Appear calm. Be honest. You'll do great!!

Shockedmom posted 2/11/2021 18:23 PM

Late to your post! Hope it went well. Please check in when you have a moment.

BigNoob posted 2/11/2021 18:33 PM

Send his ass to the Streets!

Shehawk posted 2/11/2021 23:11 PM

Thanks everyone!

It's been a rough day. Some people use the courts to continue to be the same people they were while cheating.

Will write more later.

barcher144 posted 2/12/2021 08:52 AM

It's been a rough day. Some people use the courts to continue to be the same people they were while cheating.

Yep, the parable of the scorpion and the frog is one that comes to mind.

Take care of yourself. This is not easy.

WhoTheBleep posted 2/12/2021 09:40 AM

Late to this thread as well. I'll be looking for your update.


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