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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 4:20 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Coco - formal shopping is one of my favorite activities! I want to hear all about these dresses. And what shoes you will wear. And your purse. And wrap. And how you will do your hair and make up. And if you get fabulous undies or go commando [hey - formals can't have lines ya know].

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decadesChildren (1 still at home)Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBSBrandishing a sword, channeling my inner Inigo Montoya and saying "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 5:03 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

LH - hahahaha! Honey I haven't worn a bathing suit in years... I'm fluffy Def rock kick ass bots tho!

Coco - have fun, but better you than me. I am not a fan of formal - way too many undergarments for my liking

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"Being weird is just a side effect of being awesome."– Unknown

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20yrsagoBS ( member #55272) posted at 6:45 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

I’m fluffy and I wear bathing suits, sometimes two piece suits!

I could use all day snorkeling trips, nice warm water, and soft sand

BW, 54 WH 53
When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas

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sickofsurviving ( member #52308) posted at 6:54 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Bathing suit? What is this bathing suit you speak of?

I, quite literally, didnt even cut the tags off mine this year. Worked my ass off all summer.

BS-me 54
WH 56
Married 2004

4 DDs 35,30,26,25
Sexting affair with his 1st cousin 2007-2008 maybe
D-Day 8-8-15
Married

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Lostheart8 ( member #71607) posted at 7:10 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Ok...it’s wear what you want to wear beach get together.

We could go naked.

I say we bring sand darts and have fun bullseying some pictures.

Some good booze, waves, sand, warmth and no fucking person to bother us.

I hate financially struggling. Oh well...got my imagination. I know we would have a blast.

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sickofsurviving ( member #52308) posted at 7:32 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

That sounds like heaven!

BS-me 54
WH 56
Married 2004

4 DDs 35,30,26,25
Sexting affair with his 1st cousin 2007-2008 maybe
D-Day 8-8-15
Married

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ThisIsSoLonely ( member #64418) posted at 7:53 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Well with 2+ years of off and on infidelity diet I probably look better in a bathing suit than I have in years. I’m now about 10 pounds heavier than I was in high school and in high school I was very thin. Granted I really don’t care right now how I look. All this has made me feel so ugly.

“Sometimes you're going to have to let one person go a thousand different times, a thousand different ways, and there’s nothing pathetic or abnormal about that. You are human.” - Heidi Priebe

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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 8:01 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

I wear any bathing suit I want. Anyone who doesn't like it [that isn't one of us] can kiss my ass. If it is one of us and you think "Chaos girl - you may not look as good as you think you do" keep drinking until you no longer notice or care.

So...Womenz packing list:

* bathing suit [burkini to commando - up to you]

* sunscreen [range of SPFs]

* alcohol, alcohol and more alcohol

* pre-stamped post cards for Rashawnda [unless she wants to join us]

* darts, arrows, bazookas and pictures

* formal wear [this can be anything from a big fat gypsy wedding dress to sweats - it all in the eyes of the wearer]

* bitch boots [anything from barefoot to 6" bedazled stilletos - again it all in the eyes of the wearer]

* personalized beach drink holders with our SI names

* bail money

I know I'm missing a few things - please keep adding to this list.

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decadesChildren (1 still at home)Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBSBrandishing a sword, channeling my inner Inigo Montoya and saying "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 8:08 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

*walkie talkies

*tiaras

*nail polish

*pretty undies

*a vehicle with driver for the whole time we are there

*cabana boys to wait on us hand and foot

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"Being weird is just a side effect of being awesome."– Unknown

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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 8:12 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Also those giant pool floaty things. Mine will be the Unicorn one.

NOTE: There will be NO giant floaty thing in the shape of a fucking donut on the Womenz Tropical Retreat.

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decadesChildren (1 still at home)Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBSBrandishing a sword, channeling my inner Inigo Montoya and saying "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 8:14 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

May we bring tiny donuts to chuck at assholes?

My pool floaty will be skull shaped

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"Being weird is just a side effect of being awesome."– Unknown

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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 8:17 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Donuts to throw and smash are OK. We can even use them like skeet. PULL!

Love the skull.

BBE - do you want me to get you a cactus giant floaty thing?

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decadesChildren (1 still at home)Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBSBrandishing a sword, channeling my inner Inigo Montoya and saying "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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Lostheart8 ( member #71607) posted at 9:04 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Omg....I’m dying

I like the skull and cactus blow up thingy. That gets a thumb up.

Can we have a hot tub? Might have muscle soreness after dart throwing. Massage therapist? I could use a good massage. My shoulders are like rocks from the stress.

Ladies, I do say we have a great trip being planned. Fucking amazing.

Thisissoloney. No worries. Just come as you are. I feel this experience aged me. You’re not alone. We don’t care.

I don’t doubt we would have a blast, even though we don’t know each other.

Chaos is right....we would need bail money. Booze and darts would probably lead to problems.

Can you imagine posting our trip on FB or IG? Make certain people comfortable

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HeHadADoubleLife ( member #68944) posted at 9:08 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Agreed with mini donuts for skeet shooting... also we could bring one donut floaty just for cathartic stabbing/popping purposes?

BW
DDay Nov 2018
Many previous DDays due to his sex addiction

Hurt me with the truth, but don't comfort me with a lie.

Love is never wasted, for its value does not rest upon reciprocity.

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HeHadADoubleLife ( member #68944) posted at 9:13 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Ladies!

Giant party sized unicorn floaties exist!

But if we’re doing singles, I call this peacock

[This message edited by HeHadADoubleLife at 3:18 PM, October 24th (Thursday)]

BW
DDay Nov 2018
Many previous DDays due to his sex addiction

Hurt me with the truth, but don't comfort me with a lie.

Love is never wasted, for its value does not rest upon reciprocity.

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 9:32 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

OMG yesssss - let's light the giant donut floaty on fire - viking style! Wooooot!

Oooh yes a masseuse is a must!

I am quasi-serious tho. What about a womenz g2g in vegas or somewhere next spring-ish. Thoughts? Or CA or somewhere with a beach... Where is cheapish?

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"Being weird is just a side effect of being awesome."– Unknown

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sickofsurviving ( member #52308) posted at 9:44 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Right after dday I ran away to the beach for a long weekend. The place was a dump, but had a patio that opened to the beach. It was amazing. I didn't care that it was a dump. Just watched the ocean. Drank fruity non-alcoholic drinks. (Pancreas patient)

I LOVE the giant unicorn!

BS-me 54
WH 56
Married 2004

4 DDs 35,30,26,25
Sexting affair with his 1st cousin 2007-2008 maybe
D-Day 8-8-15
Married

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DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 9:45 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

If it is one of us and you think "Chaos girl - you may not look as good as you think you do" keep drinking until you no longer notice or care.

Ha ha ha, I will totally use that the next time I get into a bathing suit.

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

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HeHadADoubleLife ( member #68944) posted at 9:54 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

👋🏼 I live in LA... it’s expwnsive here though. In terms of beach towns in CA, they’re all on the more expensive side. I’m from San Diego. There are hotels for decent prices typically. And with AirBnB it’s pretty easy to rent a house within walking distance of a beach for cheap-ish, and a bunch of people can stay there.

That’s what we did for my wedding and it worked out well... the AirBnB, obviously, not the marriage

Not sure if it would make more sense to go east coast? In case any of our womenz from across the pond want to join? Admittedly I’ve never been to any of the beaches on the east coast, but I’ve heard good things about the Carolinas? I’m not a humidity gal, but I can make an exception as long as I’m covered head to toe in bug spray

BW
DDay Nov 2018
Many previous DDays due to his sex addiction

Hurt me with the truth, but don't comfort me with a lie.

Love is never wasted, for its value does not rest upon reciprocity.

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 9:59 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

HHADL - OMG

That’s what we did for my wedding and it worked out well... the AirBnB, obviously, not the marriage

I just reverse inhaled soda... Dying laughing!!

I've heard good things about the Carolinas too. And would be totally down to to an airbnb! I really think we should try to make this happen...

I'm artsy - I will make everyone's personalized drink holders!!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"Being weird is just a side effect of being awesome."– Unknown

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