Side by Side
Sleeping next to someone who cheated, then lied about it for decades is a trip
He wants to be close to me
I have explained that I was never close to him, the REAL him
He kept that person from me. My marriage was to the mask he wore
So why does he think I am at all open to laying close to him?
I’m simply biding my time before I go
3 comments posted: Tuesday, July 20th, 2021
My WH’s disgusting affinity for sex with ugly people outside our marriage has made me realize he was never deserving of my devotion, attention, love, and trust
Any other Betrayeds come to this realization too?
Of course now WS thinks it’s a cold way of perceiving his actions
But how else can someone see it?
I don’t cheat, lie, gaslight, rugsweep, blameshift.
12 comments posted: Tuesday, May 11th, 2021
After DDay, the way you reacted,
Do you wish you responded differently?
Yes, and no.
I think I was so shocked, I wasn’t really in control of my response, I just reacted
Upon subsequent DDays, the shock was absent, but the rage eruption was enormous.
I think it was due to HIS evil and my remorse for giving him the noose to hang our relationship by offering reconciliation
42 comments posted: Tuesday, April 13th, 2021
Is there a Difference?
Between a Wayward and a Serial Cheater?
7 comments posted: Monday, March 29th, 2021
I bought these little things off A*****, they came in a package of four. I put on in WH’s car! It’s called the Tile Sticker. I downloaded their app, made it mute the sound, and it even gives a location history. No monthly fee. It’s a GPS tracker!
I put one in my wallet, one in my purse, so I can locate those too.
The purse and wallet don’t lie to me though.
If you press the button on a Tile that isn’t muted, it will ring your cell phone, even when your phone is on silent.
1 comment posted: Friday, October 25th, 2019
I just read in another forum, of a cheater forcing a BS to sign a non disclosure agreement to not tell the OBS about the affair.
Here’s MY offer. Need an OBS told about your WS’s affair?
Pm me with the information.
You know I will!
And will report back with the results.
Fuck this Infidelity Bullshit! What happened to being human beings first?
9 comments posted: Wednesday, October 9th, 2019
Open a Second Facebook Account
I discovered that WH’s family has me blocked from my regular account.
He never did tell them he lied to me and about his sneakiness a few years ago.
So, they probably think I am just insane. So what?
If something happens to my WH’s parents, I would be left out of the chain of communication, then blamed for not knowing about it in the first place.
I also discovered a hypothetical former friend who pretended to be a faithful wife, was “angry” that my WH cheated. She’s a cheater too! Her AP left her last year. Boohoo!
Anyway, if your family is plagued by drama, like my outlaws, maybe make a second account, go take a look!
0 comment posted: Friday, October 4th, 2019
Members in Florida!
Let’s plan a Get 2 Gether!
Since we’re in Florida, it HAS to be the best!
PM if you want in on planning this.
Where should we have it?
Who do we invite? Do we allow non Floridian members to attend?
If you’ve attended a G2G before, even out of state, care to share your experience?
3 comments posted: Saturday, September 14th, 2019
GPS Fell Off!
The gps I purchased and affixed to our car, fell off! It still shows up on a local highway, battery at 39%! I deserve an F grade in sleuthing
14 comments posted: Saturday, November 3rd, 2018
[This message edited by 20yrsagoBS at 7:39 PM, November 12th (Monday)]
0 comment posted: Wednesday, October 24th, 2018
Spyware Google Pixel?
Any good ones?
1 comment posted: Friday, February 9th, 2018
Possibly Stupid Question about VOice Activated Recorders
I bought a new Sony VAR, have it all charged up, can get it to record if I manually press the RECORD button. So how does it record if I place it in WH's car unless I am there to press that button?
2 comments posted: Friday, April 21st, 2017
I purchased an inexpensive little RFID doohickey to GPS my WH. I slipped it into his backpack last night, then promptly forgot I did that. So I looked for it frantically today to no avail.
WH saw me unwrap it and pair it to my phone last night. Tonight he asked me if it worked well. I told him I misplaced it last night and couldn't find it since. It has this feature that you can make it beep from the app. But it has to be in range. I could not hear it beep at all today. WH goes into his backpack to retrieve some postage stamps, and finds the tile. He works in a secured workplace, so would be in deep trouble if caught bringing a bluetooth device into work.
He has an Android, so FindMyIphone won't work. I thought this was a good substitute, but it isn't, obviously.
1 comment posted: Tuesday, December 6th, 2016