Firstly thank you for the hugs..I sure as shit need them.
My question is why do men who have a deep-seated need to be needed marry women who are independent? Captain Save a Ho should go find a needy damsel, not a self sufficient woman.
I spilt my coffee again, note to self...no coffee allowed in this thread
Seriously I only became weak & destroyed after his infidelities, in every other aspect of my life I kept my strength, I worked damn hard (harder than he ever did even on his own business) I paid for every damn thing my kids ever wanted or needed with 3 pt jobs fitting in with them, I didn't need him for shit, nothing, just to have my back & build a future for our kids, I didn't want anything else, so all the bullying, manipulation, underhandedness really wasn't even needed. I was there for the long haul, I never had plans to go anywhere without him or our family. Really its just all a load of BS. just something else I can no longer gain answers for.
My therapist says it's because Narcissists are attracted to people THEY want to be like and eventually they get jealous of this and start to break the person down to their level. Disgusting freaks!
Holy shit mine too, maybe there is some truth to this then, I thought he was just pacifying me
We miss them bc we didn't cheat lie & betray the ones we loved, they did this, so it takes a while for us (loyal & faithful) to get the memo & catch up.
gmc, I have my fingers crossed for you ((((hugs))))
TX, im not religious in anyway its not a big deal in our area really, but there is no way in this lifetime I would pray for any of the skanks my STBXH has been with, id rather be hit by lightening or run over by a bus, you are much better than me as I've even wished for very very bad things to happen to him & them (made sense in my head)
Daisy, Im so glad your H is doing everything to help you, it sux that he has to but its also awesome to see he's trying his best.
Coco, Good luck with the new therapist I truly hope it works out.
Tg, im so bloody sorry for you, hopefully you will get that working fridge very soon. we should all have some of those sparkly boots!
if only all our problems could be solved by buying new to replace faulty or damaged goods.
Chaos & Ellie, Hahahaha you gals are seriously hilarious I really want to learn how to upload pics...so damn funny
sorry I missed so much, I really hope I haven't missed anyone out,
sorry if I have!