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nme1 ( member #44360) posted at 11:27 PM on Saturday, December 10th, 2016

Sending more love and prayers your way DS. 💕✨💕✨💕✨

Me: BS
Him: WS
M 16 yrs 2 x DS
D-Day 6th March 2014

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 Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 1:01 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Here I am....HOME!!!!! I was in the hospital 17 days....thats a long time to be away from home.

Many things happened at the hospital in those 17 days,...mostly a lot of pills, Interruption with blood work, labs, CT scans, and many portions are blank because of being doped.

I was moved to the recovery floor 10 days ago and every day was "maybe tomorrow you'll be released. .." by Friday they said I was getting discharged. I explained the I wasn't ready...that the PT did not go well, my legs are too swollen to cutely walk the last days.

MH and I were so scared because he had gotten all my medical supplies, couch set up, etc. However my walking condition had gone down hill so the major delima was still getting me home with as little pain as possible and a hospital bed set up...I can't very well live on the couch

So MH spent all day Friday and Saturday setting up the guest room, wheelchairs portable toilet delivered. on top of arranging proper wheelchair transportation. He worked until 5:00am Sturdy morning...slept a coulee hours and hen recruited our neighbor to help.

AND....when his sister came down 2 weeks ago....they put all our Fall decorations up and completely decorated the house with Christmas...right down to Christmas music playing when I wheeled though the front door.

The energy and love that went into making a perfect homecoming, well, I'm absolutely filled with joy!!

So, now we have to really buckle down on eating more protein to continue for my 3rd round of the TD....hopefully by next week!!!

Overall....I'm so lucky and surrounded by love....which includes every single one of you.

Thank you so much for everything!!! Please keep praying...I need and welcome them all.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:08 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

I'm so happy to hear you are home and the homecoming was so beautiful! MH is a truely amazing man. Prayers and gentle hugs and lots of love being sent to you both.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 1:28 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Welcome home!!!

Unjury protein powder can help. I have used it through illness. It is medical grade protein. You can get a chicken soup flavor.

Keeping you in my prayers.

BS Fwh

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 1:34 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

(((DS + MH))) Welcome home!

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 2:01 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

I'm crying tears of joy after seeing this update! I was so worried about you!

What a beautiful and thoughtful homecoming MH gave you!

Sending continued prayers for both of you!

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fireproof ( member #36126) posted at 2:06 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Great News!!

Welcome Home and sending holiday cheer

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truthsetmefree ( member #7168) posted at 2:16 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Sending you and MH so much love and prayers, DS!!!

You are doing GREAT!!

Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo

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inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 3:16 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

It's the beginning of that Christmas miracle!

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:19 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016


"There's NO place like HOME!"

Prayers and positive mojo sent to you both..


trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 74 Her 70 Married 49 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumor!

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 3:30 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Welcome home! I'm so glad to hear your update!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 4:35 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Welcome Home, DS!!! MH is just the best. husband. EVER. Seriously!

Still surrounding both of you with prayer, love and support.

"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:40 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

So happy that you're home - you and MH are certainly a power couple!! I'm in awe of your strength and the love you two have for each other.

Sending lots of love and prayers.

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert

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atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 4:41 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Wow, you really amaze me! Like many I've been checking for updates from you and I'm so happy to see another positive one.

Your strength is incredible. Please look into bone marrow broth, you can sometimes find it premade at those online organic stores or you can have someone make it, takes about 6 hours to get all the marrow out. The protein is a good source and comes from the collegen and it tastes good and goes down easily.


"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

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 Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 5:00 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

And our guest room that MH got all set up for me....perfect!!!

Thank you everyone for such good wishes!!!!


Nothing ever bad happens on Christmas Eve or Christmas day....we ARE on our way to a Christmas Miracle!!!!!

And on SI tonight

[This message edited by SI Staff at 11:04 PM, December 11th (Sunday)]

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 6:20 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Hey hey hey! Great news to wake up to on a Monday morning

Keep going, you're getting there


Me 50 (BS) Him 58 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.

Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)

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sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 9:31 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

...and Teddy! ❤️❤️

*I survived Infidelity*

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sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 10:10 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

You are such an inspiration. In SO MANY WAYS. I admire you totally. I'm sending prayers and love your way. (((Hugs)))

...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 10:15 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

Great home setup, complete with doggy!!!

Now I ORDER you to get some rest!!!

Sending out healing vibes and positive thoughts and tons and tons of MOJO for you.

AK47thisshit and FUCK CANCER.

((((DS & MH))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 10:41 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016

I am glad you are home. Praying for you and hoping that the 3rd round of TD goes well for you.

BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.

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